Would an Aries man find this humour vulgar?

Ok so it could be that it's just not funny but I made a suggestive comment on text to guy/Fwb and he's not replied. Im now worried I've come across as vulgar !! i sent him a message saying I wish you lived nearer to me he asked why so I replied I need someone to come and fix my back door. It probably just needs a bit of lubricant. He's not replied! I realise now it's not very ladylike. He's sun Aries Venus Taurus, Mars Gemini, Scorpio moon. I'm Gemini Venus Gemini, Mars Leo, Capricorn moon. Not sure if signs have any relevance here or if in general I should just avoid cracking jokes

you broke your back door?

I have a lot of his same placements...I have a pretty crude and open minded sense of humor in general, and maybe it's just cus I'm a girl, but I HATE it when dudes make sexual jokes before they know my comfort level with that. It's just tacky.

Coming from a chick, might go the same way for a guy?

Honestly though, your joke didn't seem obviously sexual to me. I would have literally thought your back door was broken.

I dunno, I think it's kinda funny. Leo mars, cap moon here.

He's plotting to make you back up your mouth.

And you suck at "dirty" jokes.

No worries, I do, too. :-P

Stop overthinking, my friend:

Have you had anal sex with him b4?

Have you had vaginal sex with him b4?

Thanks for all your comments, any suggestions for a better response?
Do you think I should have gone down the lovie route instead, "cos I miss your cuddles" or something ? The thing is we are more FWB and believe me he'd jump at the chance to get in the back door just always been batted away!!

Mercury in Aries

Oh so I actually need to be more crude. To be honest I was going more for playful humour, rather than a dirty invitation but it appears comedy is not my forte!