ok, this one's long so please bear with me. First, I'm a Cap guy. My birth chart, if it helps, is Cap Sun, Cancer Moon, Cap Ascendant, Cap Venus. Caps get shit on a lot, I definitely have been. From day one, you name it, it's been done. I used to be a sweetheart which i still am, somewhere....but emotional turmoil will change the sweetest people into complete assholes. Anyway, I just wanted to clear that up before anyone decides they want to generalize about a Capricorn of whom they are far from gaining an understanding of. I got this friend, She's an Aries and is a few years younger than me. I've always found myself attracted to her, she's an awesome cook, very attractive and so sexy. I've always seen myself as a perceptive person and its almost as if i can feel an "aura" about her. What i feel from this is comfort and relaxation whenever i'm around her. We always look each other in the eyes when we speak, and even though most people might say that a Cap and an Aries aren't supposed to get along, we do. She doesn't flirt physically though, which kinda throws me off and makes me think she's sending mixed signals. But she does always laugh at my jokes even if they're really bad ones. As for other ways of flirting, the body language seems to be there, but I always have had the worst time telling when a girl is flirting or just being friendly. Also, she can be mean too, real mean, like super bitch mean. But never to me, which is what made me perk up about it in the beginning. Now for the complicated part. She's got a bf. but before you guys say run away, please read on. dude's got issues. he doesn't mistreat her (that i know of) but has a drug problem. the relationship doesn't seem like it is going to last much longer, and she has told me in the past that she's got respect for me and i have the same for her. its actually quite rare that i actually find a girl that i truly respect. i remember 1 time i was chillin with her and she asked a random question which had to do with my future plans of moving to Cali. She asked if i found a girl that i liked, would i stay on the east coast with the girl? I said, it would depend on how i felt about her. (but more than likely i would) i thought nothing of it at first til later that night after i had left, i realized she may have been trying to tell me something, or not. So, what should i do? and what is the proper amount of time i should wait before asking her out without becoming a rebound guy? Thanks.
