Aries and Capi

Is this a good combination?

Me/Him
Sun: Aries/Capricorn
Moon: Aries/Leo
Mercury: Aries/Aquarius
Venus: Aries/Sagittarius
Mars: Taurus/Aries
Jupiter: Aquarius/Pisces
Saturn: Scorpio/Sagittarius
Uranus: Sagittarius/Sagittarius
Neptune: Capricorn/Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio/Scorpio
Lilith: Aries/Cancer
Asc node: Taurus/Aries
Ascendant: Capricorn/Don't know his birth time

Sometimes I feel like we are just from a totally different planets *sighs*

persistent loyal friends you aries are...so if i fucked up id have like 3 more chances with you guys? not saying i would fuck up. im too smart for that. lol.

btw it all depends on how you guys feel about each other. us caps like our women strong and independant. low maintenance is key lol.

i feel young yet old at the same time. childish yet mature. serious yet humorous. i am an enigma.

Posted by TwinGoat
Caps devolve. we go from being mature to immature. We age backwards.

true true

Scorpio-chic were you intimate with your capi guy before he declares that he wanted a real relationship?

Because right now I am going through the stage where I am deciding whether or not I should keep this physical thing going. I care so much for him, but it is like you said I am not feeling that what I feel for him is being returned on his end, and yes right now he is into that stage where all the contact is done by me. Last time he suggested coming over, but that was only after I texted him to check on him and he replied coldly, like yeah I am fine, without asking me how I am doing, later on that night he texted me to check if it is ok to come over on the weekend.

i want kisses......*searches for an aries girl*

Thanks scoripo-chic 🙂 Maybe it just became too physical lately that we forgot the reason why we liked each other in the first place. I would just need to take control from now and try and get that connection back.

hehe Amethyst nookie ... no more nookie tell he start do more talkie =)

After texting him to see how he is going. He replied coldly. I wasn't gonna let it slip like this because I can sense a cloud in the air. So I appologised for snapping at him last time for being boring, and told him that the reason was that I miss having him as a friend like he used to. His response was clear and straight to the point (oh the accomplishment it is) ... he clarified it by saying that he is busy and that I should make more friends so I am not just focusing on him.

So here is what my analysis. The poor dear was feeling suffocated without me realising, it was unexpected because I was hardly the one who intitated things. I mean he was the one who usually texted me, and started the chat when I go online. But I think it must have been the feeling of obligation that made him feel suffocated, he must have felt that he was obliged to do all these in order to show and express himself. But I suppose he reached the point where he assumes that it should be clear to me by now how he feels and that he shouldn't need to be online or text all the time in order to show me that. I just have to know it, just the fact that he makes the time to come and see me should be good enough in his opinion. Damn, this is awesome, because I was feeling the same way too, obliged to assure him how I feel all the time in case he wonders. But I guess now I don't need to do that anymore, it was bothering me anyway, because the more you say how you feel about someone, the less sincer it starts to sound.

Yeah you are right Gemataur, apparently he loves the chasing. I mean I texted him before yesterday, and that's when I realised what was happening, it was a real relife to me, because I can just focus on my life and other things since I don't need to constantly tell him how I feel. So ... tonight he texted me asking what I am doing and that he would come if I want .. so I was like I dont know, it is a bit late, if you want to, and he insisted ... so I was like ok whatever. I wasn't pretending or anything, I just felt indifferent, which is the result of having other things to do lol ..

Tip of the day for capis chasers: Get a life :p

I totally understand how you feel!!! I've recently gotten out of a 5 year rollercoaster with an aries man and it takes a lot of patience and biting your tongue! Aries and Cap are both strong minded and bull headed when it comes to what each of us wants! Also, we caps prefer to make wiser decisions about money where as though they may be wise at times but also over the top with extravagance which isnt a problem if you "have it like that" but if you dont it can become a problem! Our main issue was him wanting to always be on top, the first at everything, his opinion reign whether right or wrong! And the biggest EGO Ive ever seen in my life. I did kind of like the possesive side!!! Good Luck
P.S. If you ever fall for another guy or even ever consider another guy... NEVER Ever let him know even if you dont care about him b/c if you ever do fall in love with him he will never forget it and it will always hold him back from taking things a step further with you although he will keep you around as a "safety blanket." He must always feel that he's your one and only and the only man who can ever have you or he will be hurt and never forgive even if he decides to stay in the relationship

lol elless yeah cant mess around with a cappi heart can I? .. I don't know what happened to all the Aries in my chart, it applies to everone else except him, he brings the softer side in me, which drove me nuts at the beginning but now I am glad I saw a different to me 🙂

I've been with my aries 9 years. But my ascendent is Aries and saturn in aries. Maybe that's why it works so well for us.
We met and we've never been apart. He's my lover but also my best friend, and we have a child together.

I get along well with Aries! They are fun and I love their energy. My Aries rising might have to do the magic but they are ok in general. No issues.
Aries can be sensitive at times but they are tolerable! They forget and move one fast. I love them and are good loyal friends. They are wonderful,and caring if you show the same love to them.
So it works well with caps.

Thanks smileycap. Yeah I get a long very well with caps too, I have some friends who are caps. But it is probably the romantic bit that kind of made things awkard between the two of us. Lately, I have decided that I am gonna have to stop acting all quite and reserved around him and be my bubbly crazy self, and he seems to like the real me better, he comes to see me more often lately, he even came to see me last night on xmas eve 🙂. I just decided to have fun and stop thinking were this is going, I don't want to be in control or whatever us Aries like to do ... I mean a capi or not, who would want to be with a crazy control freak? .. no man in his right mind would want that .. so I don't blame him for being annoyed with me at times, I just had to see my flaws to work on them ..

He taught me patinet, and no matter how angry I am with him I would never throw a tantrum his way ever, I respect him too much for that, if anything bad ever happens, I would just leave quitely without a word. I never did and never will understand why the darker side of my Aries never works on him ...

Posted by oxlostxo
Thanks smileycap. Yeah I get a long very well with caps too, I have some friends who are caps. But it is probably the romantic bit that kind of made things awkard between the two of us. Lately, I have decided that I am gonna have to stop acting all quite and reserved around him and be my bubbly crazy self, and he seems to like the real me better, he comes to see me more often lately, he even came to see me last night on xmas eve 🙂. I just decided to have fun and stop thinking were this is going, I don't want to be in control or whatever us Aries like to do ... I mean a capi or not, who would want to be with a crazy control freak? .. no man in his right mind would want that .. so I don't blame him for being annoyed with me at times, I just had to see my flaws to work on them ..

He taught me patinet, and no matter how angry I am with him I would never throw a tantrum his way ever, I respect him too much for that, if anything bad ever happens, I would just leave quitely without a word. I never did and never will understand why the darker side of my Aries never works on him ...

Keep being yourself that is your signature no matter what crazy you do... Caps don't like fake people.
So, your dark side of your Aries will spark slowly 😄

Merry Xmas oxlostso!

hehe smileycap ... we wouldn't be around each other by now if I had thrown one of my tantrums at him ... maybe because he only drive me nuts by his online conversations not face to face so I get to blow my steam away from the scene lol .. Maybe he secretly knows about my darker side and avoids it by speaking his mind only online ... haha .. oh well, my tantrums are managable ... I usually walk away before I say anything that I can't take back later on ... he would have to push me really over the edge with something totally unforgiveable for me to explode on the spot ... lol ... but very unlikely, or at least I know he wouldn't confront me face to face lol ...

Merry Xmas smiley =)

oxlostxo:

You sound very cool! I think many Capricorn adore Aries people, youc an show us how to chill out and have fun, live for the moment. That is what a Capricorn sometimes has hadr time to do by himself/herself.
He went to see you at Xmas Eve, you need more encouragement? 🙂 Just do what you are already doing because i think he really likes you. I think the only conflict can be when he has bad mood, or in the blue. These times just stay next to him and tell him (like bake him something good, like a muffin) that you believe in him. (And don't let him bring fown your mood.) Capricorn is slower than Aries. Even when they show feelings. But from what i read you don't have to worry. I am sure you make his days fully of warmth.

I wish you happiness with your Cappy! 😉

Thanks Flora 🙂 you are right about everything and the bit about when he is in a bad mood, hehe .. I used to think that I've done soemthing wrong when he doesn't talk and stuff, but he told me once it is probably just his bad mood .. lol