Even if he says he is going to break up with her?
Aries just want sex?
Thank you for your advice. I also think I should be very careful. I already mentioned to him that if hes looking for a fwb relationship, I'm not the girl for him and he replied that while sex is definitely on all guy's minds, it's not always the sole thing they're after. Like it's not always the end-goal, even though it's a plus. So Idk..i'm hoping his intentions are sincere. But how long would you say he should wait for sex to prove his sincerity?
A Part of me is also skeptical that he means it when he says hes gonna break up, but the way he talks about his relationship it seems like he really has lost interest in her or they just don't have much in common. He doesn't like the things she likes. He also told me that he asked his friend for advice about the situation and his friend said if he told me he had a gf, he'd lose both me and his gf, so his friend suggested that he either not tell me or lose me and keep his girlfriend at least. But the guy insisted that he really didn't want to stay with his girlfriend.
Anyway, the fact that he said all this is very honest don't you think?
Anyway, the fact that he said all this is very honest don't you think?
I hear you about the unclean beginning, I really am bothered about all this. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" constantly runs through my mind. But sigh. You know how it is. Your brain tells you to run but your heart tells you to stay.
Posted by febyPosted by theinsomniac
A Part of me is also skeptical that he means it when he says hes gonna break up, but the way he talks about his relationship it seems like he really has lost interest in her or they just don't have much in common. He doesn't like the things she likes. He also told me that he asked his friend for advice about the situation and his friend said if he told me he had a gf, he'd lose both me and his gf, so his friend suggested that he either not tell me or lose me and keep his girlfriend at least. But the guy insisted that he really didn't want to stay with his girlfriend.
Anyway, the fact that he said all this is very honest don't you think?
No. I still think a lot of men will say what they have to to make the women feel comfortable to sleep with them. Sounds like he's trying to make you feel better about sleeping with him since he has a gf.
You are a Scorpio. Let him prove it to you. If he's so unhappy then tell him to break up with her. You can be honest and tell him how you feel, but don't buy words without actions to back them up.click to expand
Point taken. I'm a little new to these kind of situations though so i'm quite naive. What kind of actions would prove sincerity then? How would he be able to prove he broke up with his girlfriend?
no this has nothing to do with him being aries. He's aries AND a douchebag. lol
Posted by theinsomniac
I met this aries guy at a party and we made out but didn't have sex. We exchanged numbers and in the next few days he asked me to hang out. So we went for coffee and it was just like a friendly hangout, no touching. Not even a hug. The week afterward we decided to have some drinks. We got drunk again and ended up making out. Yesterday he sends me a message saying we need to talk. So we met up at his place and he's visibly nervous. Dude is sweating so much, he had to change his shirt halfway 😆 That's as funny as this situation gets. He drops a bomb on me saying that he actually has a girlfriend of two years. He said he was intending on telling me sooner but didn't know how to go about it exactly.That's why he always asked to "hangout" instead of "date" and that initially we were just supposed to get to know each other as friends but he couldn't resist himself when he got drunk. But he said things have been falling out with his gf for the last month but he just didnt know how to break up with her because he didn't want to hurt her. He says I am not the reason for their breaking up and that he still is interested in me and that he really thinks i am a sweet person and that he enjoys spending time with me. He also said he is planning on breaking up with her within the following weeks and he'd like me to give him a chance, saying that we could start off slowly with just being friends and maybe build up to future relationship status. He also said he never cheated before in his life before this and doesn't think he's a bad guy.
Now idk what to make of this whole situation. I have never been in this sort of crazy mess in my life. I believe strongly in being faithful and so I'd usually never give cheaters a second thought. But I am really attracted to this guy, both physically and mentally. The thing is, can I trust him after this? They say aries are notorious cheaters. I am an emotional scorpio who believes in commitment. On the one hand, he does seem sincere because he didn't have to tell me about his girlfriend. He might've continued to "date" me and never told me about his girlfriend. But the other part of me is paranoid that he's just wanting me because i'm hard to get or maybe just wants me for sex? I initially told him I don't want anything to do with him and he kept trying to convince me for hours (literally) to at least give him a chance, or even just
^sorry Idk why this got cut off...so what I wanted to say was, he is using you. It's better to just cut off this interaction so things don't become complicated.
Posted by biosynthesis
^sorry Idk why this got cut off...so what I wanted to say was, he is using you. It's better to just cut off this interaction so things don't become complicated.
How are you so certain? I mean yes, I understand that anytime a guy cheats on his gf, its not a good look. But there must be some cases where it's not so black and white right? I mean, he does some things for me as well. Like I mentioned that i'm having a hard time with a subject at school and he'd look up a tutor for that and give me the number. You know small gestures like this that seem quite genuine.
and yes I realize i'm sounding like one of those women that try to justify a**hole behavior but I'm just trying to reason out both sides to this before making a decision.
So he says he has a gf AFTER you guys make out twice and he is honest? Are you serious?!
If you ask me it sounds that he was testing you if you would be his side piece and by all the badmouthing a woman you don't know ("she doesn't like anything he likes" and so on) you are halfway there...
To trip and fall in front of a bunch of people is an accident, making out, exchange numbers and making out again is not.
If you ask me it sounds that he was testing you if you would be his side piece and by all the badmouthing a woman you don't know ("she doesn't like anything he likes" and so on) you are halfway there...
To trip and fall in front of a bunch of people is an accident, making out, exchange numbers and making out again is not.
Posted by LittleMissPerfect
So he says he has a gf AFTER you guys make out twice and he is honest? Are you serious?!
If you ask me it sounds that he was testing you if you would be his side piece and by all the badmouthing a woman you don't know ("she doesn't like anything he likes" and so on) you are halfway there...
To trip and fall in front of a bunch of people is an accident, making out, exchange numbers and making out again is not.
I meant that he was honest in the sense that he at least even told me before we got serious or had sex. He could've easily slept with me and then told me or worse, not told me at all. In that sense, he is honest.
Secondly, I think you need to reread my post. I have never badmouthed his girlfriend. I said he doesnt like anything she likes, which is true because he told me so. In fact, I've strangely been supportive of his girlfriend. I told him I think she's pretty (I asked to see a picture out of curiosity). I also felt sorry towards her because her bf is doing all this and I felt sorry for making out with her bf even though I did not know he had a gf time. I feel very offended that you're trying to paint me into being a Jealous, badmouthing side-piece sl*t which I am not.
"I meant that he was honest in the sense that he at least even told me before we got serious or had sex. He could've easily slept with me and then told me or worse, not told me at all. In that sense, he is honest" wow your standars are so low that i kinda feel sorry for you, I will explain it to you because I'm on stand by and deeply borred:
Honest is: the first time you meet he would say "i think you are great however I do have a gf, I would like to know you more but it would be inappropriate from me if I don't mention my gf right now".
The classiest way to deal with the situation you are in is: stop talking with him the minute you realize he has a gf.
You didn't know then but you do know now. Everything you do from now on is entirely up to you, including talking about someone who *again* who do not know, you only heard from her from his cheating boyfriend.
Spin it in whatever way makes you sleep at night, if you wanted validation there is a forum for that, if you wanted an opinion you got it so stop whining about a different point of view from yours.
Wow you are incredibly rude and judgemental to someone you also don't know. For the record, I am not seeing him anymore until he cleans up whatever situation he has with the girlfriend. What I was asking was, what I should do when he becomes single. I was never intending on continuing anything with him while he's still with her. I appreciate all opinions, but there is no need to be so incredibly rude.
*Clearly* I don't know you. I commented on what you wrote that is different, if you obviously don't see the difference I'm done explaining. Now you are planning to wait to be with such a fine gentlemen?!
Unlike you I do think there is a need to be rude. However I'm tired to explain class and moral, I'm not your mother ffs, bye.
Unlike you I do think there is a need to be rude. However I'm tired to explain class and moral, I'm not your mother ffs, bye.
For someone who talks about class, the way you speak to people states otherwise. I'm not sure why you feel the need to be rude to me? If you think it's just a harsh way to get me to "see" your perspective, you can easily do that without feeling the need to be condescending. Goodbye and good riddance, as much as I welcome other people's opinions, people who can't state their opinions calmly and maturely are not welcome on my thread.
What's your sign?
sometimes in the moment, you may catch feelings. I think its hard for you to be objective, and that's why you have these doubts. sometimes what we want/our desires vs reality can be blurred. Trust me, he doesn't want a relationship with you. A real, honorable man would have been straight up from the beginning. The fact that he lied about having a girl while he entertained the idea of getting intimate with you is already a red flag.
Posted by theinsomniacPosted by biosynthesis
^sorry Idk why this got cut off...so what I wanted to say was, he is using you. It's better to just cut off this interaction so things don't become complicated.
How are you so certain? I mean yes, I understand that anytime a guy cheats on his gf, its not a good look. But there must be some cases where it's not so black and white right? I mean, he does some things for me as well. Like I mentioned that i'm having a hard time with a subject at school and he'd look up a tutor for that and give me the number. You know small gestures like this that seem quite genuine.click to expand
as an aries, I will just tell you this straight up...he is using you because, when an aries is NOT straightforward, there is an agenda. Usually we're pretty honest.
You're a desperate, silly bitch.
I had a skeezy Sag guy try to get me to date him after he planned on breaking up with his girlfriend.
"When I dump her, we should go out."
...that's supposed to make me interested? He threw a damned fit when I turned him down.
What is wrong with you that you think this is any sort of valid option for you other than your pathetic desperation to settle for a douchebag?
I'm serious- why do you think you should even consider someone who's already lining up options IF he decides to ditch his girlfriend?
What if this was you? You were with someone and he decides to break it off and he ALREADY has an option waiting in the wings? You'd better think about that aspect because he could do the very same thing to you if you were to get with him.
You're just as stupid as he is and you should be ashamed of yourself for even considering such bullshit. It's rude on your part because he has a girlfriend, and it's degrading your worth to whore status.
I had a skeezy Sag guy try to get me to date him after he planned on breaking up with his girlfriend.
"When I dump her, we should go out."
...that's supposed to make me interested? He threw a damned fit when I turned him down.
What is wrong with you that you think this is any sort of valid option for you other than your pathetic desperation to settle for a douchebag?
I'm serious- why do you think you should even consider someone who's already lining up options IF he decides to ditch his girlfriend?
What if this was you? You were with someone and he decides to break it off and he ALREADY has an option waiting in the wings? You'd better think about that aspect because he could do the very same thing to you if you were to get with him.
You're just as stupid as he is and you should be ashamed of yourself for even considering such bullshit. It's rude on your part because he has a girlfriend, and it's degrading your worth to whore status.
Posted by Rambunctious76
Be like a stubborn assed Scorpio and STICK TO YOUR GUNS.Keep asking him for a definite answer.
If he can't give you a definite answer, say buhbye and leave.
And like a Scorpio, they think they will shrivel up and die if they aren't in a relationship, which is likely why she's clinging pathetically like this. Omg he's an option that made her lady bits tingle. IT'S MEANT TO BE. FUCK THAT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ATM, I COULD BE IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!!
Don't waste your time in idiots who lie, cheat and get defensive. And starting a relationship with someone who does that is NEVER a good start. You will constantly be wondering if he's doing the same thing to you.
Do you want that—click to expand
I can only imagine what trainwreck it would turn into knowing Scorp's paranoia and control freak tendencies. I think that's why she's considering this so much- he's willing to ditch his girlfriend for HER. She's getting a thrill out of the power trip that gives her ego.
Won't last for long though. It will be replaced by that paranoia that he'll cheat on her. She's just setting herself up for misery, really. I have no idea why Scorps are so notorious for garbage like this. Their logic is broken like whoa. They'd be a hell of a lot happier in most of their relationships if they weren't sabotaging themselves from the beginning. In her instance, she's willing to consider a relationship with a lying loser.
I seriously don't understand the mentally defective women that come here. I say that because it's SO damned obvious how bad something like this is- WHAT makes you even consider something like this aside from pure delusion and desperation?
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by Rambunctious76
Be like a stubborn assed Scorpio and STICK TO YOUR GUNS.Keep asking him for a definite answer.
If he can't give you a definite answer, say buhbye and leave.
And like a Scorpio, they think they will shrivel up and die if they aren't in a relationship, which is likely why she's clinging pathetically like this. Omg he's an option that made her lady bits tingle. IT'S MEANT TO BE. FUCK THAT HE HAS A GIRLFRIEND ATM, I COULD BE IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!!
Don't waste your time in idiots who lie, cheat and get defensive. And starting a relationship with someone who does that is NEVER a good start. You will constantly be wondering if he's doing the same thing to you.
Do you want that—
I can only imagine what trainwreck it would turn into knowing Scorp's paranoia and control freak tendencies. I think that's why she's considering this so much- he's willing to ditch his girlfriend for HER. She's getting a thrill out of the power trip that gives her ego.
Won't last for long though. It will be replaced by that paranoia that he'll cheat on her. She's just setting herself up for misery, really. I have no idea why Scorps are so notorious for garbage like this. Their logic is broken like whoa. They'd be a hell of a lot happier in most of their relationships if they weren't sabotaging themselves from the beginning. In her instance, she's willing to consider a relationship with a lying loser.
I seriously don't understand the mentally defective women that come here. I say that because it's SO damned obvious how bad something like this is- WHAT makes you even consider something like this aside from pure delusion and desperation?click to expand
.....😆 first of all you need to calm down. Jeez louise, I've never seen anybody get so worked up and angry over someone that they don't even know! You wrote an entire essay as if you know me and you know what I want. Get your head out of your butt and quit arrogantly assuming things about stranger's lives. He is not willing to ditch his girlfriend for me, he made that very clear. He's leaving her because they already had their own issues. I have nothing to do with that. So no, I'm not power-tripping. In fact, I don't want a relationship. I already wrote him off as boyfriend
I already wrote him off as boyfriend material as soon as he cheated on his girlfriend. I am leaving this city within 6 months so I have no time to be in a relationship anyway. What I want is entertainment within these next 6 months but because I'm sentimental, I don't want him to think of me as a bootycall even if I think of him that way. Selfish of me? Absolutely. But it is what it is.
Aries with VIG..Sounds like the aries I met at work.. said he was single and had been hurt in his past so was not looking for anything..I am like cool neither am I..and for 8 months we were getting familiar with each other, flirting, kissing, hugging, all that shit..
The chemistry and magnetism was on point. The butterflies in our stomachs from both of us..Through the months some things were off. He would only talk to me here, no dates or hang outs, or phone calls. Three weeks ago he told me he is married but him and his gf are in separate bedrooms and waiting for a divorce after a year.
I am like no wonder everything is done here at work.. Do I condone in reltionships at work. Love affairs up the ass here. Hell no for this very reason.. I have to see you around and no one here knows about it... I detached myself and told him I trusted him and he was like oh so you are mad now.. Nah I am disappointed..I was shocked and in shock that he would lie to me just to talk to me ..I am smh because I love consistency in a relationship, and he said the exact same thing. Could have easily had sex with you..I am thinking like calm my MIT down because it was going well in the beginning then the hot and cold shit happened.. Not doing the co worker thing, too much baggage around me..
The chemistry and magnetism was on point. The butterflies in our stomachs from both of us..Through the months some things were off. He would only talk to me here, no dates or hang outs, or phone calls. Three weeks ago he told me he is married but him and his gf are in separate bedrooms and waiting for a divorce after a year.
I am like no wonder everything is done here at work.. Do I condone in reltionships at work. Love affairs up the ass here. Hell no for this very reason.. I have to see you around and no one here knows about it... I detached myself and told him I trusted him and he was like oh so you are mad now.. Nah I am disappointed..I was shocked and in shock that he would lie to me just to talk to me ..I am smh because I love consistency in a relationship, and he said the exact same thing. Could have easily had sex with you..I am thinking like calm my MIT down because it was going well in the beginning then the hot and cold shit happened.. Not doing the co worker thing, too much baggage around me..
Has a few red flags and ignored them to give him a chance. I gave my trust in him and this is what I get..POS
Aw jeez I'm sorry that happened to you FirstDecan 😢 Thank you for sharing your story with me.
Posted by feby
So I think the general consensus is what I originally felt: RUN.
tbh I feel sorry for his gf.
You have to understand that this kind of posting from anyone can evoke emotional responses in others, so try not to take it to heart. Many women have either been in the gf's shoes, or they have little or no tolerance for men who pull this kind of shit and think they can get away with it.
I was trying to be gentle about it, but I'm glad that others chimed in.
I understand that but I don't understand why they are projecting that hate towards me. I also felt immensely guilty after I realized he had a girlfriend because I know too well what it's like to be the girlfriend. That said, I don't feel I have done anything wrong to get this backlash from the DXP community. I only made out with her boyfriend because I didn't know. Once I found out he had a girlfriend I told him I wanted to stop seeing him. Currently I am wondering if I should continue this once he's broken up with her, but I definitely won't see him while he's still with her. Contrary to what people may think of me from this short internet preview into my life, I'm actually fiercely loyal to my boyfriends and believe strongly in faithfulness and monogamy. I have never cheated on anybody in my life nor have I homewrecked any relationships. The only reason I am still considering this guy now is BECAUSE I don't want a relationship with him, but rather a fun fling. It's sad that we are shamed for wanting to have flings by other women. As if we aren't sl*t shamed enough by men. The only thing that is conflicting me right now is because despite the fact that I want this fling, I also don't want to be seen as just a mere s*x object by him and I would like for there to be some genuine friendship involved in whatever this is. That's what this post was about, trying to figure out his intentions and whether he really just sees me as an object or not. Not whether I want to get into a relationship or not.
Posted by theinsomniac
.....😆 first of all you need to calm down. Jeez louise, I've never seen anybody get so worked up and angry over someone that they don't even know!
el oh el. I was "angry" over your silly drama? Stating an opinion and being assertive about it is far from angry, which something your comprehension clearly cannot grasp.
It just amazes me that this site draws in an insane amount of moronic women who have no idea how to weed out loser guys. It's freaking depressing for the entire gender, tbh.
The Aries forum is suffering from another bug infestation again...
Wtf, this was supposed to post earlier but didn't. :/
+1
It's amazing how often we get women coming here with situations like this, foolish enough to believe the dude's bullshit and lies.
Something they all need to ask themselves is why the hell they think they need someone like this in their lives? It's starting out with deceit and lies and they want to know if there's some secret, squishy grey area that means he REALLY wants her!!! OH IS HE TESTING ME?? SHOULD I CONSIDER HIM?
WHY? Why would you want someone like this around? You ruled him out as boyfriend material? Then WHY are you here asking about this guy?
Sometimes, these women need to write out their posts, and read it before they post and ask themselves how crazy it sounds. They don't want advice, they want validation in continuing on with something that they KNOW is wrong/bad/no good for them. But their crotch region decides that they need this guy because being alone is oh so bad.
These women need to simmer down, enjoy life, and maybe they wouldn't be considering such mentally defective guys who think they can pull this shit.
Btw, ladies, when you tolerate this crap, you're telling this guy it's okay to do such things. He'll do it with you, and any other woman who wants to treat real life like some romantic comedy.
And OP, you're pissed about backlash? Then quit trying to make excuses and dig stupid reasons out of your ass why you should contemplate this guy because you felt some sort of connection with your vagina. It's not your heart, it's your vagina. Your gut and brain have more common sense. You should listen to it.
Posted by feby
So I think the general consensus is what I originally felt: RUN.
tbh I feel sorry for his gf.
You have to understand that this kind of posting from anyone can evoke emotional responses in others, so try not to take it to heart. Many women have either been in the gf's shoes, or they have little or no tolerance for men who pull this kind of shit and think they can get away with it.
I was trying to be gentle about it, but I'm glad that others chimed in.
+1
It's amazing how often we get women coming here with situations like this, foolish enough to believe the dude's bullshit and lies.
Something they all need to ask themselves is why the hell they think they need someone like this in their lives? It's starting out with deceit and lies and they want to know if there's some secret, squishy grey area that means he REALLY wants her!!! OH IS HE TESTING ME?? SHOULD I CONSIDER HIM?
WHY? Why would you want someone like this around? You ruled him out as boyfriend material? Then WHY are you here asking about this guy?
Sometimes, these women need to write out their posts, and read it before they post and ask themselves how crazy it sounds. They don't want advice, they want validation in continuing on with something that they KNOW is wrong/bad/no good for them. But their crotch region decides that they need this guy because being alone is oh so bad.
These women need to simmer down, enjoy life, and maybe they wouldn't be considering such mentally defective guys who think they can pull this shit.
Btw, ladies, when you tolerate this crap, you're telling this guy it's okay to do such things. He'll do it with you, and any other woman who wants to treat real life like some romantic comedy.
And OP, you're pissed about backlash? Then quit trying to make excuses and dig stupid reasons out of your ass why you should contemplate this guy because you felt some sort of connection with your vagina. It's not your heart, it's your vagina. Your gut and brain have more common sense. You should listen to it.
Posted by Rambunctious76
Flings - you mentioned in your original post that you're an emotional Scorpio - what's your moon sign? Most of the Scorpio women I know who tried flings usually ended up with the person they were flinging with, only 1 Scorpio I know (she had an Aqua moon) could manage it successfully with little or no drama. All good if you want to try a fling with him, but if you're looking for a genuine friendship as well, be ready for him to persist in pursuing a relationship with you. Aries are like that, we're mostly persistent if we want something and we won't stop so easily for anything.
IMO, looking for a genuine friendship in view of a fling or whilst in a fling, is emotional suicide. For that reason most of my flings were either people I barely knew (and didn't wish to know after the fling ended), or friends I'd known for years before we decided to fool around.
What do you want?
Seriously. She's trying the usual female approach to a fwb situation by using the fwb situation as a sounding board to turn into a relationship.
Short answer- no. Just no.
You think shit is bad now with the confusion and hurt that he lied and you're not sure what you want to do? You're going to fall in love by osmosis of his dick and then it'll just get worse. He'll get his cake and eat it too and you're the one stuck in emotional hell.
Like I said.. no one knows he is married maybe a few of my coworkers know he has a gf outside of work.. so when I came along I had no idea until the no calls or hanging out, and a few red flags.. not to mention I asked some one about him at work and confirmed he had a gf but not married...he used to tell me and others I'm sure..he was living with his sister. he does not.haha...
funny thing now that his marriage isnt working well and already in the process of divorce.. he no longer wants to be in a relationship at all.. haha too bad I am looking for mine..so sad..
I've been cheated on.. and I fucking hated the other girl he was cheating on me with.. met her face to face. I always said I will not be a home wrecker or a cheater even though it happened..not me at all..
Every now and then he will flirt me or try to kiss me..haha what he doesn't know is this isn't my cup of tea. In fact it's a deal breaker..and I keep it civil because we work together.. same shit I went through with my ex Aries bff and now another Arian lying ass..started out good for a minute.. now once a user or manipulator or cheater always will be.
funny thing now that his marriage isnt working well and already in the process of divorce.. he no longer wants to be in a relationship at all.. haha too bad I am looking for mine..so sad..
I've been cheated on.. and I fucking hated the other girl he was cheating on me with.. met her face to face. I always said I will not be a home wrecker or a cheater even though it happened..not me at all..
Every now and then he will flirt me or try to kiss me..haha what he doesn't know is this isn't my cup of tea. In fact it's a deal breaker..and I keep it civil because we work together.. same shit I went through with my ex Aries bff and now another Arian lying ass..started out good for a minute.. now once a user or manipulator or cheater always will be.
Posted by Rambunctious76
Here's my suggestion to you-
Straight up ask him at point blank range if he is going to leave his gf.
If he says yes he is going to leave her, ask him WHEN.
This is when he will go on the defensive.
Be like a stubborn assed Scorpio and STICK TO YOUR GUNS.Keep asking him for a definite answer.
If he can't give you a definite answer, say buhbye and leave.
+1
THIS!!!!!!!
Ram is absolutely correct. If you want to know something just ask. I'm a scorp and I dated an aries( majority of men I was in a relationship was heavy in Aries...ijs). He was a pretty straightforward guy, but he did lie at times. I never hesitated to ask him anything, but every time I caught him in a lie he would get defensive and try to shift the blame on me. When he got caught doing something and he saw me coming, his eyes would buck and he would run off in the other direction. I would shake my head, but would laugh so hard about it. I will tell you this though, Aries mean what they say. If he's asking you for sex, then that's what he wants. SEX. If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, he would've been broken up with her. He's just telling you bullshit to keep you near.
The thing about some scorps, is that we tend to over think things, instead of just paying attention to what is in front of us. Just take it as it is. He told you what he wants, there's no need in even asking him anything.
Posted by NoreallynowPosted by Rambunctious76
Here's my suggestion to you-
Straight up ask him at point blank range if he is going to leave his gf.
If he says yes he is going to leave her, ask him WHEN.
This is when he will go on the defensive.
Be like a stubborn assed Scorpio and STICK TO YOUR GUNS.Keep asking him for a definite answer.
If he can't give you a definite answer, say buhbye and leave.
+1
THIS!!!!!!!
Ram is absolutely correct. If you want to know something just ask. I'm a scorp and I dated an aries( majority of men I was in a relationship was heavy in Aries...ijs). He was a pretty straightforward guy, but he did lie at times. I never hesitated to ask him anything, but every time I caught him in a lie he would get defensive and try to shift the blame on me. When he got caught doing something and he saw me coming, his eyes would buck and he would run off in the other direction. I would shake my head, but would laugh so hard about it. I will tell you this though, Aries mean what they say. If he's asking you for sex, then that's what he wants. SEX. If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, he would've been broken up with her. He's just telling you bullshit to keep you near.
The thing about some scorps, is that we tend to over think things, instead of just paying attention to what is in front of us. Just take it as it is. He told you what he wants, there's no need in even asking him anything.click to expand
+1
I think she knows what she has to do, but wanted us to validate her desires to get the guy. Why else would she go back and hide the OP? She knows the entire thing is wrong and a waste of time.
Posted by rockyroadicecreamPosted by NoreallynowPosted by Rambunctious76
Here's my suggestion to you-
Straight up ask him at point blank range if he is going to leave his gf.
If he says yes he is going to leave her, ask him WHEN.
This is when he will go on the defensive.
Be like a stubborn assed Scorpio and STICK TO YOUR GUNS.Keep asking him for a definite answer.
If he can't give you a definite answer, say buhbye and leave.
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THIS!!!!!!!
Ram is absolutely correct. If you want to know something just ask. I'm a scorp and I dated an aries( majority of men I was in a relationship was heavy in Aries...ijs). He was a pretty straightforward guy, but he did lie at times. I never hesitated to ask him anything, but every time I caught him in a lie he would get defensive and try to shift the blame on me. When he got caught doing something and he saw me coming, his eyes would buck and he would run off in the other direction. I would shake my head, but would laugh so hard about it. I will tell you this though, Aries mean what they say. If he's asking you for sex, then that's what he wants. SEX. If he didn't want to be with his girlfriend, he would've been broken up with her. He's just telling you bullshit to keep you near.
The thing about some scorps, is that we tend to over think things, instead of just paying attention to what is in front of us. Just take it as it is. He told you what he wants, there's no need in even asking him anything.
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I think she knows what she has to do, but wanted us to validate her desires to get the guy. Why else would she go back and hide the OP? She knows the entire thing is wrong and a waste of time.click to expand
Yes, she knows. What I don't get is why she is still communicating with him. He has a GIRLFRIEND. Just because he's being disrespectful to his girl, it doesn't mean that she has to. I hope she doesn't find out....
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