Aries Kids

Anyone raising and Aries kids? Any problem areas or ways in which you have used their sign to understand them better in raising them?

ugh can tell you a lot as im 19, find a right way to motivate them when they are around 12, dont be a helicopter parent, rather give them mature tasks, at age of 12 kid should be fully able to do any task.. by the time i was 12 believe it or not i was traveling alone across Atlantic transferring in Poland, without mommy.. Teach them languages, if you can - get them a spanish or german or french or russian speaking nanny and tell her to speak their native language, that way your child will be VERY greatful later, like i am greatful to my parents.. Now, if teachers tell you your child has ADD, and they will tell you that, disregard it, you might go through little hell while they are first years in school, but to waste up their energy and potential get them to play instruments, dancing, acting, singing, i did all that when i was a kid, i was kept home a lot, and never really studied, so prepare to get tutors for sciences, it will pay off and will seem easy for them in college and thats the direction they will steer in. You can also get them to take karate classes its good for anger management and they will be able to stand up for themselves, karate first of all teaches how to avoid conflict, and the sooner he will realize it the best, i realized it when i was 14.. dont let them be lazy, if you know they are hiding pornographic pictures when they are 10 dont go harsh on them -__- cause i was waken up to a slap and the same day someone stole my cat.. just get them involved in artistic things, we aries, or at least me, can do ANYTHING, i play violin, i know 4 languages, i can dance professionally, i can still sing and with a high pitch like justin bieber (believe it or not), i read the bible and i know it throughout, im a therapist, i read people because ive read the bible it gives lots of lots of abilities, its a very deep book, not advertising lol but just saying.. i was an altar boy, i was singing in choirs, i can act, i can be a lawyer, and etc. so dont be afraid to make them pay the bills, i started paying our phone bill when i was 10, i remember going to the postal office and giving the receipt and money and they gave me receipt back and i brought it home, it was in a different country but non the less.. you can teach them how to do it on the internet, dont be afraid, it will give them authority and trust me it tastes amazing..

and teach them to understand.. when i was about 4-5 we were in a store with my mom, we didnt have much money at that time and my father was away, so we went to that store and they were selling a toy train, it was just one car but it could drive aroud, had many lights and couldnt fall off the table, i really wanted it, and they showed me how it works i was really excited and wanted it really badly, kept asking my mom to buy it, she told me she had no money and that she has money home and that she would get it for me next time.. one night i was asking her again to buy it and got upset, so she took me to that store to buy me that toy train, we got there and she asks me igor do you want it? the cashier was all smiling saying look how nice it is, it doesnt fall off the table, oh he wont break it, it has batteries, blah blah blah and im looking at that train and i felt so bad i just told my mom i dont want it lets go home, I WAS 4. Also teach them to kiss and hug you because my parents never taught me that, probably cause my parents were like that, and now i feel very weird hugging or kissing my mom, even though when i see other kids do it it looks very adorable, give them freedom, if you dont want him/her to smoke tell them "i dont believe that you will never smoke, smoking is bad and you will smoke" something in that spirit, they will swear that they wont do it and they will never do it, say that at age 4-5, dont be a helicopter parent, and give them love, otherwise they will wait for their highschool to end, and then they will try to get as far away in the states as possible, so many of my classmates who were so nice and nerdy (girls) straight A students turned out to be dirty little sluts after graduation, now im looking at their facebook pics and thinking wooww... so give them freedom and love and dont let them get over your head, there must be discipline and a mans hand.

With Aries children it can be quite simple and then quite complicated. You can spot an Aries child anywhere. They are very smart, outgoing and natural leaders. With Aries kids you have to make sure that you are completely honest with them because they are extremely gullible only because they love to load up on information because it makes them feel more mature and even more smart. Keep your child VERY, VERY active in creative and stimulating type activities. They can be very artistic and athletic but bore very easily with one thing. Let them spread their wings by giving them choices so that they won't try and be rebellious because, they won't want to think that YOU thought of the idea or activity. Aries cannot be MADE to do anything. Remember they are proud and natural leaders. If they bore too easily, they will find trouble. If they don't have activities and/or love and doting, they will try and find it among friends or (for young girls) men. Even though they will never want to admit it, they really do need their parents approval and admiration. Aries kids are awesome. The key is to pretend that they are running the show (not when they've been mischievous of course) when really you are giving them options and praising them for it.

Give them plenty of independence and responsibilty. My mom let me spread my wings from early on, and I never had a curfew either, the only time she would really restrict me was when I wasn't keeping my grades up. Don't yell and lecture them,but explain to them the why and the how. Growing up everyday my mother would come home at 4 oclock and start yelling as soon as she walked in the door, about shoes at the door or dishes in the sink. I hated it and started to make myself super busy after school. She worked in the Board of Ed and made sure to be home when we were, which I appreciated as many poeple didnt have there parents around that much because of there work hours. I started working really early like 6th grade or something, and I learned to take care of myself from a young age. My mom took my bro and me down to the basement and showed us how to wash our clothes at like 8. my brother and I had alot of extra ciricular activities, and also continued to work with us even after we got home from school. Good penminship was a must as was spelling. Do fun things with them too, ice skating, movies, travel anything really because we like to try new and diff things. Share stories and experiences with them, because yes we are naive and need to know what and who to look out for and avoid, as we can be very trusting people, we see the good in everyone. I was a balanced kid I would say, I wasn't super good or bad but I did experience alot and that I don't regret.

and we do need discipline and to know the importance of it in one's life.

buy them encyclopedias, i LOVED graphic encyclopedias, when i was little i had 3 huges ones and i read them all, first was looking at pictures then reading