Aries chicks and love for 2012!!

My love life sucks! Last yr I split with the mother of all wack job aquas (resulted in a fractured hand for me and an harassment order for him). In true Aries style I've bounced back and he is almost out of my mind despite having the most unreal strong feelings for him when I loved him.

So you know, now I'm getting a bit frisky, restless and needing some damn hot man attention lol! But this time I want something for keeps. Will it come in 2012? Surely the dream man is about due?

How did other Aries chicks love hold up in 2011?? I'm a late, actually on the last day of Aries. But come on now, surely were due some good times??

Ha are you kidding me— I'll take the red pill...and turn it into a blue pill. I don't believe it's going to be the worst year, that was 2011 for me. Nothing can beat how pants the last 2 yrs in fact have been.

Well that's cheered me up lots!!!

Love life is the last priority on the list for 2012 for me! I just want a job or direction to head in.... Or at least a sign board with arrows letting me know which way to go!

Love, men, whats that?

Posted by bkbella86
Love, men, whats that?

I think they're things you can eat... Not sure myself... Heard about that love thing before though!

Ha aquas...run now!!!! Im not saying their all the same but mine was a complete clown. Cheating, online cheating, lying, abuse. Took me a yr to get rid of the nightmare, then he came back and repeated all the behaviour again and added a little violence into the mix this time. Even if I met someone I thought was amazing, sadly if they were aqua it wud put me off?!?

Oh come on some of us must have had a good yr in the love department? I'm v early 30's and tbh, have given up on finding my perfect man. I live exceedingly well with out him but you know, sometimes it's nice to have something to look at for a bit ha!

My friends had the best comment "walt Disney is a freakin liar...no girl gets a prince like that, he's deluded us all". So true

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by bkbella86
Love, men, whats that?

I think they're things you can eat... Not sure myself... Heard about that love thing before though!

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Lol

The past I can't even count now years in the love dept. have been rough. But this year takes the cake, I am now being ignored by two of my ex lovers. But I really don't even want to rehash it, talking about it makes me cry. This year I don't want to focus on love at all, my heart is not open, and rightfully so. I want to focus on getting rid of my emotional baggage, getting a tighter bond with fam and friends , as I have been distant in some of my relationships with them, it's was hard to because I was dealing with heartbreak. Also just going with the flow of things, having less expectations. I know while I'm working on myself surely I'll stumble upon someone or vice versa. I think in the past due to not having much luck with men I always found myself dwelling on it, why it wont happen, where is my Mr right, blah blah blah. Now I just dont want to think about it. Only thing I can think about is career, school, personal growth and fun!!

Posted by bkbella86
The past I can't even count now years in the love dept. have been rough. But this year takes the cake, I am now being ignored by two of my ex lovers. But I really don't even want to rehash it, talking about it makes me cry. This year I don't want to focus on love at all, my heart is not open, and rightfully so. I want to focus on getting rid of my emotional baggage, getting a tighter bond with fam and friends , as I have been distant in some of my relationships with them, it's was hard to because I was dealing with heartbreak. Also just going with the flow of things, having less expectations. I know while I'm working on myself surely I'll stumble upon someone or vice versa. I think in the past due to not having much luck with men I always found myself dwelling on it, why it wont happen, where is my Mr right, blah blah blah. Now I just dont want to think about it. Only thing I can think about is career, school, personal growth and fun!!

Dude, they are your EX's. It's your job to ignore them. No EX in next.

Oh hang on, yes there is.....

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson

Posted by bkbella86
The past I can't even count now years in the love dept. have been rough. But this year takes the cake, I am now being ignored by two of my ex lovers. But I really don't even want to rehash it, talking about it makes me cry. This year I don't want to focus on love at all, my heart is not open, and rightfully so. I want to focus on getting rid of my emotional baggage, getting a tighter bond with fam and friends , as I have been distant in some of my relationships with them, it's was hard to because I was dealing with heartbreak. Also just going with the flow of things, having less expectations. I know while I'm working on myself surely I'll stumble upon someone or vice versa. I think in the past due to not having much luck with men I always found myself dwelling on it, why it wont happen, where is my Mr right, blah blah blah. Now I just dont want to think about it. Only thing I can think about is career, school, personal growth and fun!!

Dude, they are your EX's. It's your job to ignore them. No EX in next.

Oh hang on, yes there is.....

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But that the way they decided to end things, ignoring me. It not like they broke up with me face to face or even on the phone, they both vanished. No explanation, nothing.

Posted by MeMeMe
I'm v early 30's and tbh, have given up on finding my perfect man. I live exceedingly well with out him but you know, sometimes it's nice to have something to look at for a bit ha!

My friends had the best comment "walt Disney is a freakin liar...no girl gets a prince like that, he's deluded us all". So true

Word sista! Always nice have someone who is hella easy on the eyes! A night is not complete with out one!
The wisest words I've ever heard when it comes to choosing men is this:
Find a man who loves you
Find a man who you can talk to
Find a man who is cosmic in bed and sexy as all hell
Find a man who makes you laugh
Find a man who doesn't mind fixing things around the house
And most importantly:
Make sure these men NEVER, EVER meet each other!

Also... Audrey Hepburn once said that she didn't think men and women were made to live together and that instead, they should just live next door and visit each other every now and then!

It sounds like you and I are on the same vibe when it comes to guys!

Word sista! Always nice have someone who is hella easy on the eyes! A night is not complete with out one!
The wisest words I've ever heard when it comes to choosing men is this:
Find a man who loves you
Find a man who you can talk to
Find a man who is cosmic in bed and sexy as all hell
Find a man who makes you laugh
Find a man who doesn't mind fixing things around the house
And most importantly:
Make sure these men NEVER, EVER meet each other!

And then there is that old one, but which still seems applicable right here. "Every woman wants to be with at least three men. One to cook, one to clean, one to drive the kids around."

Posted by dofacc

Word sista! Always nice have someone who is hella easy on the eyes! A night is not complete with out one!
The wisest words I've ever heard when it comes to choosing men is this:
Find a man who loves you
Find a man who you can talk to
Find a man who is cosmic in bed and sexy as all hell
Find a man who makes you laugh
Find a man who doesn't mind fixing things around the house
And most importantly:
Make sure these men NEVER, EVER meet each other!

And then there is that old one, but which still seems applicable right here. "Every woman wants to be with at least three men. One to cook, one to clean, one to drive the kids around."

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Haha... For sure! That would bring it to at least eight men we want to be with... Lol.

Which one are you dofacc?? Hee hee

Posted by lotuslily

Posted by dofacc

Word sista! Always nice have someone who is hella easy on the eyes! A night is not complete with out one!
The wisest words I've ever heard when it comes to choosing men is this:
Find a man who loves you
Find a man who you can talk to
Find a man who is cosmic in bed and sexy as all hell
Find a man who makes you laugh
Find a man who doesn't mind fixing things around the house
And most importantly:
Make sure these men NEVER, EVER meet each other!

Which one are you dofacc?? Hee hee

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Being a multiple faceted person, I am all those things. I also am also quite an accomplished cook, and can give a remarkable whole body massage.

And my number is !!!!censored for my own safety!!!! Give me a call.....

Ok, Ok, Ok....

Truth in Advertising!!!!

I am on the other hand a slob, and don't take orders worth a damn.

i can see how 2012 will be tough for aries relationships. last year was all about new beginnings (for me at least) so it seems natural that this year will be about getting down to business. i dont foresee a fun year but i got some shiz to buckle down with!

Posted by i love ewe
i can see how 2012 will be tough for aries relationships. last year was all about new beginnings (for me at least) so it seems natural that this year will be about getting down to business. i dont foresee a fun year but i got some shiz to buckle down with!

where did you see that?

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Posted by MeMeMe
I'm v early 30's and tbh, have given up on finding my perfect man. I live exceedingly well with out him but you know, sometimes it's nice to have something to look at for a bit ha!

My friends had the best comment "walt Disney is a freakin liar...no girl gets a prince like that, he's deluded us all". So true

Word sista! Always nice have someone who is hella easy on the eyes! A night is not complete with out one!
The wisest words I've ever heard when it comes to choosing men is this:
Find a man who loves you
Find a man who you can talk to
Find a man who is cosmic in bed and sexy as all hell
Find a man who makes you laugh
Find a man who doesn't mind fixing things around the house
And most importantly:
Make sure these men NEVER, EVER meet each other!

Also... Audrey Hepburn once said that she didn't think men and women were made to live together and that instead, they should just live next door and visit each other every now and then!

It sounds like you and I are on the same vibe when it comes to guys!

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too funny and I
I agree with Audrey

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Maybe it's good for you to be single for a while?

Me?

Me? I been single for like four year now. Quite content being single too. I'm single because I want to be too, not because I don't have options. Just nobody awesome enough for me and I don't see the point in time/space fillers when I know I deserve better.