Aries Man Capricorn Moon Man

I met this Aries guy on a dating site. He seemed very laid back and career oriented. He asked me for my number and we've been texting every other day for a week now. He's usually the one who initiates the conversation by saying "just thought of you and wanted to see how you were" and always says that he's been busy. I haven't initiated contact with him for fear that he'll lose interest after reading all of these forum postings and blogs on Aries men.

My question is: Should I start initiating contact with him since he has a more laid back moon sign? Also, is he genuinely too busy that I only hear from him every other day or is he just bored? What's a good way to turn things around and get him to text more and finally even call(I've never heard his voice btw).

I'm Pisces Sun with Aries moon and Gemini ascendant

He's Aries Sun with Capricorn moon and Cancer ascendant.

Posted by Dapadon
I met this Aries guy on a dating site. He seemed very laid back and career oriented. He asked me for my number and we've been texting every other day for a week now. He's usually the one who initiates the conversation by saying "just thought of you and wanted to see how you were" and always says that he's been busy. I haven't initiated contact with him for fear that he'll lose interest after reading all of these forum postings and blogs on Aries men.

My question is: Should I start initiating contact with him since he has a more laid back moon sign? Also, is he genuinely too busy that I only hear from him every other day or is he just bored? What's a good way to turn things around and get him to text more and finally even call(I've never heard his voice btw).

I'm Pisces Sun with Aries moon and Gemini ascendant

He's Aries Sun with Capricorn moon and Cancer ascendant.

*His Venus is in Aries and mine in Capricorn*

yes you should. I have a cap moon too, so I know where he is coming from. In this case, I think he also is afraid that he might come off too clingy and doesn't want to annoy you. He may also be busy. If you initiate the text, I think it would surprise him and show him that you cared.

Posted by biosynthesis
yes you should. I have a cap moon too, so I know where he is coming from. In this case, I think he also is afraid that he might come off too clingy and doesn't want to annoy you. He may also be busy. If you initiate the text, I think it would surprise him and show him that you cared.

I plan to contact him but not just yet...and when I do it won't be an open ended question or anything. It'll probably just be "I hope you're enjoying your day handsome"...I'm just too worried that he'll lose interest if I do it too soon. My question now is do you think he will lose interest if I wait too long to contact him? I prefer to be chased but I don't want him to think I don't care and lose interest.