Posted by truecap
Just be patient. Caps are a lot slower than you Aries. There is a lot of factors to consider in your case. He could be cautious because you are still techinically married and it sounds a little as if you might be wanting to work that out. So, he's going to be cool and observe, see what shakes out. Don't give up on him, but understand his viewpoint too.
Hope that helps. I was still separated (divorce papers filed - took us 1 1/2 - 2 years to finalize our divorce) when I started dating my aqua. He was a little leery. But, as soon as that divorce was granted and final, our relationship changed drastically. Come to find out, he was just being cautious in case I got back with my ex.
Just build the friendship. And caps get distracted/busy/working/family/etc and we don't always contact every day when a relationship is new. The first couple of months, every three days is fine. Now, once it becomes exclusive, that's a different story! I expect daily communication then!
Posted by Nala13
I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.
Anyway, I was married to a Cap. He worked a lot. In fact, all the time. I rarely saw him of course he bought amazing gifts after my complaint sessions.
He was a great cook and always made my plate and would set the table whenever he wasn't working. He was thoughtful.
He was into quality not quantity.
He was sensitive. He was traditional.
He is going to make another woman a wonderful husband just not me. He will still give me anything I need if he has it. He is a good man.
Posted by rootstudioPosted by Nala13
I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.
Anyway, I was married to a Cap. He worked a lot. In fact, all the time. I rarely saw him of course he bought amazing gifts after my complaint sessions.
He was a great cook and always made my plate and would set the table whenever he wasn't working. He was thoughtful.
He was into quality not quantity.
He was sensitive. He was traditional.
He is going to make another woman a wonderful husband just not me. He will still give me anything I need if he has it. He is a good man.
Oh that's so sad! I have heard that Aries and Capricorns are a hard fit.....but I was also married to a Virgo for 23 years which is another astrological no no!!click to expand
Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by Nala13
I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.
Yes and no. If she wants to actively try to be with another guy, she needs to get her affairs in order, but I'm pretty sure she already knows that.
Aries,
You were honest with the Cap about your situation. That makes you a decent person. You also just used your husband in the past tense. Sounds like you know it's over, but you feel you should try for his sake. Or maybe you still have kids at home. Whatever. If you're a decent person and you've still managed to get in this deep with somebody else and your marriage has already been on the rocks for a while, it sounds like you've already left. Mentally, at least.click to expand