Aries Woman in Possible? Affair with Capricorn Man

Ok. Will try to explain situation here. I am an aries woman who just turned 50 and am currently separated in a marriage that I'm not sure will continue or not. About two months ago I met a Capricorn man, 51, just out of the blue-literally bumped into each other-I've never dated/been in a relationship w/Cappy man....anyhow we hit it off right off the bat. We think the same, finish each others sentences/thoughts etc. and have alot in common. I'm an artist and he's really the first person I've met in years that understands me. He has helped me with my latest exhibit and seemed to relish the time spent on it. Problem is: some days he is SO attentive-caring-etc., then he will go several days without even texting me. I wonder if it is the fact that I am in a very questionable marriage situation Or is it just the way these fellows roll? I would appreciate any feedback as even having a Capricorn friend is new to me.....my son AND my mum are both Capricorns tho as an Aries, I've never had a close friendship or relationship with one. Thanks so much!!

Just be patient. Caps are a lot slower than you Aries. There is a lot of factors to consider in your case. He could be cautious because you are still techinically married and it sounds a little as if you might be wanting to work that out. So, he's going to be cool and observe, see what shakes out. Don't give up on him, but understand his viewpoint too.

Hope that helps. I was still separated (divorce papers filed - took us 1 1/2 - 2 years to finalize our divorce) when I started dating my aqua. He was a little leery. But, as soon as that divorce was granted and final, our relationship changed drastically. Come to find out, he was just being cautious in case I got back with my ex.

Just build the friendship. And caps get distracted/busy/working/family/etc and we don't always contact every day when a relationship is new. The first couple of months, every three days is fine. Now, once it becomes exclusive, that's a different story! I expect daily communication then!

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Just be patient. Caps are a lot slower than you Aries. There is a lot of factors to consider in your case. He could be cautious because you are still techinically married and it sounds a little as if you might be wanting to work that out. So, he's going to be cool and observe, see what shakes out. Don't give up on him, but understand his viewpoint too.

Hope that helps. I was still separated (divorce papers filed - took us 1 1/2 - 2 years to finalize our divorce) when I started dating my aqua. He was a little leery. But, as soon as that divorce was granted and final, our relationship changed drastically. Come to find out, he was just being cautious in case I got back with my ex.

Just build the friendship. And caps get distracted/busy/working/family/etc and we don't always contact every day when a relationship is new. The first couple of months, every three days is fine. Now, once it becomes exclusive, that's a different story! I expect daily communication then!

Thanks for some awesome advice......yes we aries can be a little impatient!!

I know! I've lived with one almost all my life - my daddy and my son are both Aries!!

I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.

Anyway, I was married to a Cap. He worked a lot. In fact, all the time. I rarely saw him of course he bought amazing gifts after my complaint sessions.

He was a great cook and always made my plate and would set the table whenever he wasn't working. He was thoughtful.

He was into quality not quantity.

He was sensitive. He was traditional.

He is going to make another woman a wonderful husband just not me. He will still give me anything I need if he has it. He is a good man.

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I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.

Anyway, I was married to a Cap. He worked a lot. In fact, all the time. I rarely saw him of course he bought amazing gifts after my complaint sessions.

He was a great cook and always made my plate and would set the table whenever he wasn't working. He was thoughtful.

He was into quality not quantity.

He was sensitive. He was traditional.


He is going to make another woman a wonderful husband just not me. He will still give me anything I need if he has it. He is a good man.

Oh that's so sad! I have heard that Aries and Capricorns are a hard fit.....but I was also married to a Virgo for 23 years which is another astrological no no!!

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Posted by Nala13
I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.

Anyway, I was married to a Cap. He worked a lot. In fact, all the time. I rarely saw him of course he bought amazing gifts after my complaint sessions.

He was a great cook and always made my plate and would set the table whenever he wasn't working. He was thoughtful.

He was into quality not quantity.

He was sensitive. He was traditional.


He is going to make another woman a wonderful husband just not me. He will still give me anything I need if he has it. He is a good man.

Oh that's so sad! I have heard that Aries and Capricorns are a hard fit.....but I was also married to a Virgo for 23 years which is another astrological no no!!

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I'm not an Aries but I am a Fire sign.

It's only sad if I think of it as wasted time, which it wasn't. I learned a great deal about myself and the choices I make. I have no delusions that it was supposed to happen any other way then the way it did.

Well..I'm almost in the same situation..next to our "normal" jobs ( the ones which bring the money in) we're both artists. He's getting more and more successful and I'm helping him with climbing and his exhibitions. "Our" situation is taking 5 months...and he's doing the same thing. I was getting used to it, accepted it but always thought that at one moment of time the aloofness, backing off etc. would stop because he felt comfortable enough... Nope..no deal..and I'm too old to waste my time!

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Posted by Nala13
I hope you are a thick skinned Aries. I doubt you will get much help here, just people telling you to go home and work on your marriage which may or may not be bad advice.

Yes and no. If she wants to actively try to be with another guy, she needs to get her affairs in order, but I'm pretty sure she already knows that.

Aries,

You were honest with the Cap about your situation. That makes you a decent person. You also just used your husband in the past tense. Sounds like you know it's over, but you feel you should try for his sake. Or maybe you still have kids at home. Whatever. If you're a decent person and you've still managed to get in this deep with somebody else and your marriage has already been on the rocks for a while, it sounds like you've already left. Mentally, at least.

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You are bang on correct about me. I think I mentally left our marriage a few years ago but have stayed because my husband, who is VERY needy, is scared butterless to be on his own and I have stayed for his sake. Our son is an adult and on his own.

The capricorn man I have met whom, like I said, I've been totally honest with, is still in my life and our relationship is getting deeper. Time will tell. I would like to leave this marriage but also want to make sure my husband doesn't do anything nutty which is quite possible. Feeling very stuck.

BTW funny thing is my husband is a Virgo....another rocky choice, I've heard and know to be true, for Aries!!

like truecap said..be patient.