Any other fellow Capi's dating an Aries?

Hi everyone, i recently joined this site, love it! Looking to relate to other Capi's who are dating Aries or other fire signs. ((My story: We were friends with benefits for 2 years until he moved in and we've been dating and living together or 4 months now. I can definitely say I let him move in because I wasn't against having good d**k in my house (hehe)& for other reasons, just needed a change, life was stale I guess you could say. But then I think I fell in love with him, he's got a great job, wonderful with my 5 year old Capricorn daughter and we both have the same hopes and dreams.)) Perfect right? Heck no, I mean, close to perfect but sometimes he's super emotional, if we fight, he cries and will sometimes punch the couch or throw temper tantrums but nothing too extreme. I honestly just don't get him, it seems like it's always a tug of war with emotions and feelings, i want more of an emotional connection with him (even though we have always had one) i'd like it to be stronger... I just need to figure him out more or something. If it helps his birthday is the first day of Aries. Anyone have any tips or anything at all? Would love any shared comments 🙂 Thank you!

I am a leo which is another fire sign. I can say that I am very intense, but I don't mean anything by it. It's just that when I care, I would give anything...literally. So it may be frustration. To go from FWB to living together is a big leap. I can say as far as myself, that I can be showy, but it's how I show emotion. I can't always say it (although we def try) but I want to make sure you know it. Just be careful. If someone is showing anger through any act, it can def escalate. Hope it all works out!!!

Well as an Aries, seeing me cry is almost like striking the lottery. It happens but it's very rare. He seems more of a Pisces to me but that's only if you ask me.

My dad and son are both Aries. It's a battle for control sometimes because we're both bossy, cardinal signs.

But Aries are sweet, caring, generous, will fight for you, protect you, take care of you, etc. They do have that temper, and it can be brutal, but when it's over, it's over. No grudges. They said what they had to say and get it all out, whereas we hold grudges. Let him throw his temper tantrums and learn not to take it personally and you'll be fine.

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I honestly just don't get him, it seems like it's always a tug of war with emotions and feelings,

the passionate Aries with the calm, collected Capricorn 😉 ...

I somewhat disagree with truecap. Always trying to not take things personal and the cool exterior (which many Caps have) sometimes may give off a sense of detached-ness and the impression that the Capricorn does not really really care.

Just my opinion. 😉

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True, we have our faults too. It goes both ways and if both can learn not to take it personal, then it would make a good match.

I really think that Aries and Caps do get along well. Heck, most of my exes are Caps.

I have had relationships with Aries in past. What I find with them is while they bring alot of fun and creativity into a relationship, life is never dull with an Aries, their possessifness and jealousy make it impossible for me to deal with. As a Cappy I need my time alone to recharge and think things out. I was married to a Sagitarious for more than 20 years and they are nothing like Aries. As gor displaying emotions, ya well! Alot of signs do that! Walk away! Atleast you can sit down with an Aries when the storm has passed and discuss things. With time he will learn that you can be flexible and caring just don't know how to feal with all the emotions.