Aries men behavior

We haven't gone out yet or anything but he seems really cool. We talk everyday. The only thing I hate is we text more than talk on the phone. I have a really great conversation with him but sometimes he gets a lil cold. I know we just met so I'm not expecting anything from him but he's just hard to read. One minute he says he is looking for someone and then the next he will say there's things I'm trying to do right now so I'm not looking. Im Just confused. I haven't said anything because I don't want him to think I'm pressuring for more. Do they want a buddy at first or how should I even know he may be slightly interested—

No. This is a sign of an immature guy who has no idea what he wants.

Why are you even considering the dude?

You also need to stop determining interest in a man based on "good conversation."

That was your bit with the last Aries guy you were fawning over, wasn't it?

You also need to stop determining interest in a man based on "good conversation."

That was your bit with the last Aries guy you were fawning over, wasn't it?



Actually no. That guy wasn't over his ex so that was over before it started.

This one doesn't seem immature to me quit the opposite. But then again every Aries man I have known seems hot and cold to me. So this was more of a general question of is this a normal Aries trait and if so how do u deal with this?

Posted by impressmee

Posted by MIZUNDERSTOOD
We haven't gone out yet or anything but he seems really cool. We talk everyday.

Why?

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We're both been busy. Different work schedules and we both go to school and it's still new to

Posted by impressmee
Well it's still new. Just have fun with it. Don't stress too much about it.

Agreed. You start to ponder and fret over trivial stuff when things haven't even lifted off the ground into dating territory.

However, the fact remains that he keeps changing his story about what he wants in regard to relationships. THAT is very immature and you're equally immature if you can't see that. The fact that you're telling us "he's not immature!" says a lot about how you're approaching this. I've been with guys who seemed mature initially, but the way they handled things and small comments similar to what this guy said told me that they were far from the mature facade I had experienced.

Correction- he sounds EMOTIONALLY immature. You may want to keep this friend zoned for the time being.