Younger Aries man interested or just friendly?

I met him 2 mths ago at work. We work in different depts, so I only work closely with him twice a week. In the past month I've noticed a shift in his attention towards me. He flat out told me I smell good and asked what I wear. He touches me all the time: either a slap on the shoulder or a poke in the ribs, or even my stomach! He always laughs at things I say, even the dumb stuff! He asks me questions about things I like and always replies with 'me too!'
The thing is, he is married and I am in a relationship, and also he is 15 years younger than me...is it even possible for a man to like a woman that much older?? I am pushing 40 and he is in his 20s!

thoughts??

Posted by capricornmoon
You know what the responses are gonna be, I'm just gonna keep it short. Girl, he's gonna play you.

It always starts off good and sweet and romantic then in the end it crashes and burns like a high speed car chase, leaving you with bitter tastes of regret. Oh,and he works with you too? HELL NO, HELL NO, HELL NO!

Yes, it's hell when they work with you.

Posted by spokat
I met him 2 mths ago at work. We work in different depts, so I only work closely with him twice a week. In the past month I've noticed a shift in his attention towards me. He flat out told me I smell good and asked what I wear. He touches me all the time: either a slap on the shoulder or a poke in the ribs, or even my stomach! He always laughs at things I say, even the dumb stuff! He asks me questions about things I like and always replies with 'me too!'
The thing is, he is married and I am in a relationship, and also he is 15 years younger than me...is it even possible for a man to like a woman that much older?? I am pushing 40 and he is in his 20s!

thoughts??

Approaching age 40, I would like to think you would already know that answer. You've been where he's at now, and on top of that he's a YOUNG man, so you already know more than likely what his game plan is. I imagine the flattery is exciting, so have fun with it, but don't take it any further. It's an accident waiting to happen. Oh..And YES, young dudes are extremely attracted to older women and there's nothing wrong with that as long as you're both available, in which this case, neither of you are.

yes, I suppose I know that any attention from him could only mean one thing - he wants sex. The thing is, and I know I'm going to catch hell for this...but, I only want sex from him ...and friendship?? FWB? I'm not sure I know how to play that game. Listen you guys, I KNOW it's wrong! OK, I know. But I haven't had good sex in a looooong time. I want this boy! I just didn't know if he was being friendly with me or maybe interested.

Are aries touchy feely with just any random person?

Posted by spokat
yes, I suppose I know that any attention from him could only mean one thing - he wants sex. The thing is, and I know I'm going to catch hell for this...but, I only want sex from him ...and friendship?? FWB? I'm not sure I know how to play that game. Listen you guys, I KNOW it's wrong! OK, I know. But I haven't had good sex in a looooong time. I want this boy! I just didn't know if he was being friendly with me or maybe interested.

Are aries touchy feely with just any random person?

Well, at least you're being honest..LOL..can get at mad at ya for that🙂
I have several Aries family members and even though we bump heads on a regular, they are truly a fun loving passionate group of folks. Most of them are outgoing and love to have fun, so they can be considered touchy and feely if they really like you, but they can also switch out on you without a moment's notice as well.

Posted by spokat
yes, I suppose I know that any attention from him could only mean one thing - he wants sex. The thing is, and I know I'm going to catch hell for this...but, I only want sex from him ...and friendship?? FWB? I'm not sure I know how to play that game. Listen you guys, I KNOW it's wrong! OK, I know. But I haven't had good sex in a looooong time. I want this boy! I just didn't know if he was being friendly with me or maybe interested.

Are aries touchy feely with just any random person?

Spokat

You're in your late thirties. Can't you find FWB somewhere more reasonable? This has drama allllllll over it. Don't you care about your rep at work? The awkwardness if things don't go well?

I don't know maybe it's me but once you mature and grow up these kind of situations just seem like a disaster waiting to happen

dont shit where you eat

I am in a living arrangement for many years. Many long, looong years. I love my man, but the thrill is gone. I don't want to leave him. I just want a fucking fling. I'm an Aquarius, btw. I for some reason think that this aries guy at work would keep his mouth shut. We are now friends on FB and he liked one of my profile pics.

Posted by spokat
I am in a living arrangement for many years. Many long, looong years. I love my man, but the thrill is gone. I don't want to leave him. I just want a fucking fling. I'm an Aquarius, btw. I for some reason think that this aries guy at work would keep his mouth shut. We are now friends on FB and he liked one of my profile pics.

You're a disgusting, selfish cunt.

Go find a single guy to fuck around with and ditch the boyfriend if you're so miserable. You're pathetic for trying to project your misery onto his wife like this. If you want to be a miserable trainwreck and fuck a random dude, so be it. Leave people's marriages alone. It's not THEIR problem you're fucked in the head.