ohhh ive heard this all before by all my friends, but my gutt says wait,,,i had a milestone b/d recently and he didnt even acknowledge it, no card no nothing, just ordered in.................
what's your definition of commitment... if it's too different from his then it probably won't happen the way you want it.
If he's 9yrs older, then he has probably set in his ways...
so what sort of commitment do you want? seek it... If things are not working out or you're not compatible enough, it's no reason to hang on and waste time... end up bitter about it - and all men of the same sign... what's the point?
trust me, if Aries men see what they hope for in a woman, commitment is not hard... like every other sign, if they've been hurt enough, they'll just take precautions --- if you're not the woman to shake away those precautions away, sooner or later *shrugs*
Why can't you see the man only wants your panties. If am aries REALY likes you, he'll fantasize about the future since the 2nd date. ----------------- this is universal, no matter what sun sign: IF A MAN DOES NOT WANT TO COMMIT, HE'S NOT THAT INTO YOU AND HE ONLY WANTS SEX! and all you ladies can do is to keep your pants on and be indifferent regarding him THANKS!!! Didn't see that earlier 🙂 says it all!
Yep, that's why he doesn't want to go out and just wants to stay in.
Sex ... that's it. This really isn't that confusing.
I'd bet you if one of your girlfriends was going through this, you'd be able to see clear ... so, when life confuses you like this, step outside of yourself, and view from a different perspective ... and the truth will be right there.
"hes just not opening up.. ok need an expert on cap aries relationships"
What you mean is ... you want someone to tell you how to obtain what you want, which is to crack him open.
You already recognize that he just wants the kitty from you .. but, you don't want to accept this, and say you need a cap/aries expert to come help you.
What you want is for someone to tell you how to change this man, change him in so that he will want to be with you as girl/boy friend, and not just as a fuck-buddy.
You're not going to change this man, and nobody in here is goig to be able to tell you how to change how he feels about you .... the only thing you can do is change yourself.
You're trying to figure out how to emotionally bind a man who doesn't want you as his girlfriend ..... quite frankly, you sound pretty desperate.
"ive mentioned my feelings he says hes just not there, the same way, yes cares yada yada, but not what i feel."
And you're just glossing over that ^^^^^
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