Cappy with Aries for first time.. *nervous*

Hi all,

Just started sorta going out with aries for not too long.. about 2 and a half weeks? He's been pretty good so far.. calls everyday, emails everyday.. soemtimes we meet for lunch or coffee and well, I've stayed over at his place about 4 times now. Very Arian indeed.. he leads.. he calls.. and such. He's a NEAT FREAK. likes things to be in absolute order and very funny. we have such a good time talking.. laughing and joking about everything and anything. I'm not a typical cappy in a sense that I am very aggressive sometimes (i just let the arian take the lead for a bit) and a big risk taker too.

Compared to some signs like scorpio.. he doesn't talk much about emotions but he does care. He's pretty warm to me which is good and we're still in the beginning stages.. so I guess it'll take time. I just hope he doesn't.. well, turn out to be an asshole.

Although I must say.. this morning, we walked to work together and I bumped into my roommates friend. He was like "I saw a hot asian and I had to check her out.. but it turned out to be you!" We joke alot because we've known each other for a while too.. and wow, my arian was so cold towards this guy.. wasn't even funny!
I just mentioned he was my roommates friend and ex-bf.. and he didn't want to acknowledge the guy! lol. My arian is trinidadian and the other guy was jamaican.. i was waiting to see who would punch who!

arian.. pretty protective huh? He told me that I ought to check my cute butt because it's stamped with his name on it!
No one's ever really told me that... lol.

I'm sorta enjoying this.. any tips for me on how to handle the arian later on?

erm... nobody has any insight..? 😢

* He's a NEAT FREAK. likes things to be in absolute order

You're lucky. All the aries men I know are slobs. Actually, almost all the fire sign men I know are messy with *very* few exceptions. 🙂

* Compared to some signs like scorpio.. he doesn't talk much about emotions but he does care.

He won't. If you want someone who talks about feelings and emotions go to a water or earth sign, as he won't unless you pull it out of him which will eventually wear on both of you. You will eventually both feel betrayed, unloved, and misunderstood. You will wonder why he doesn't love you, which he probably will, and he will wonder why you can't accept him for who he is and why you need to pry into him so much. Why you can't just be secure in the relationship and accept his love without being told constantly.

* laughing and joking about everything and anything.

He will also do this about any problems that come along. I find this annoys most earth signs. They are serious and want to be taken seriously and his making light of your problems may seem like he making light of you but he will just be trying to lighten your mood and distract you, ease your burdens for awhile. This will probably drive you crazy and make you wonder why he doesn't care about what happens to you. He does. He just shows it differently than what you need/want.

This is just my prediction about what will happen. Even if you get together ultimetly you won't fufill each other's innermost needs because your emotional and mental setup is just different.

I could be wrong but just based on what you have already said, I think this is the way it will ultimetly go.

Interesting.. I see that and I see what you mean. I have been with signs that talk about feelings that annoy the hell out of me.. but those that don't talk at all about it.. intrigues me.

I just need to know if i can trust him thats all... I have been cheated on in the past by two sag's and i am slightly jaded but I don't want to bring that kind of baggage with this guy. he seems straight up and tells me like it is. like, that he's never been with a malaysian girl and I'm the first one which is cool.. and I've stayed over at his place numerous times... so I am doubting that he's with anyone.

from what i've read on these boards.. arians seem rather direct? I just hope he doesn't.. flake on me or something....

* but those that don't talk at all about it.. intrigues me.

But that is a competitive thing not a compatible thing. You find it intriging because it "challenges" you. You wanna win. That automatically sets up a conflict.

JMO.

In my experience, Aries are very honest, direct, heart on their sleeve people.

savagetai,

I am an Aries woman and get on great with Cappy men and women - reason being, my moon is in Capricorn. I believe that it is our moon that governs our emotions?

I had an astrologer once tell me that my "perfect" mate would be a man whose sun is in Capricorn (like my moon) with a Libra rising, moon in Aries (like my sun), mars in Pisces and venus in Gemini.

Do you by chance know your and his moon signs?

My moon sign is in pisces. His is either in Taurus or gemini because I am not too sure of his birth time. He seems to be more of a taurus the way he is.. (reminds me of my dad who's a taurus) but i could be wrong.

my emotional side comes from my pisces moon i'm sure. lol. cappy's are supposed to be less emo!

And to answer about asians... TOTALLY. That's why this arian has told me that my butt has a stamp that says that he was here and he'll come back for what's rightfully his. LoL. i somewhat like that possessiveness.. and I must be doing something right.. 😉

Im a female aries dallying with a cap guy. I am yet to decide whether the potential for a long term thing is DYNAMITE and all... but I guess if the energy is right, then the energy is right. I really, really have an affection for cap women. I think they are more generous with their emotions than the guys, so far, what I've gathered. Alot of ARies have pisces in them and alot of Caps have aquarius in them so they kind of would fill each others holes, per se..so I dont see why this pairing would not be attracted.

interesting insight everyone... and freebird, his moon is in taurus. like i thought. 🙂

yeah.. the sex is phenomenal.
we both yearn for each other that way too...

he emailed me in paris at some cafe.. it's pretty sweet of him when he really doesn't have to when he's on vacation. Ahhhhh... *joy*

So he came back from Paris and bought me a present

No... not a keychain.. postcard or something souvenir-ish

he got me a silk Pashmina.

*swwwoooonnn*