Chasing and loosing interest

are you an aries too?
but regardless what your sign is avoid talking to him about his feelings, we aries are not very good at it, we rather show then talk about it. if you start cornering him with these kind of talk ( what you thinking , how you feel about us and blah blah blah ) than he might want jump ship, he might see you as emotionaly needy and weak, but as long you are not letting him go all the way and he keeps chasing after you im sure he is in euphoria right now and even though he wants to move to another level of the chase he will keep after you as long you give him positive feed back and he is sure of himself that he will get with you eventually, basically dont shut him out and dont slam the doors in his face an you cool
i remember that the longest relationship i ever had was with a girl who when i was with her drove me crazy but made me wait like 8 dates or some ridiculous amount of time like that lol but that made me want her even more and i wanted to keep her forever

are you an aries too?
but regardless what your sign is avoid talking to him about his feelings, we aries are not very good at it, we rather show then talk about it. if you start cornering him with these kind of talk ( what you thinking , how you feel about us and blah blah blah ) than he might want jump ship, he might see you as emotionaly needy and weak, but as long you are not letting him go all the way and he keeps chasing after you im sure he is in euphoria right now and even though he wants to move to another level of the chase he will keep after you as long you give him positive feed back and he is sure of himself that he will get with you eventually, basically dont shut him out and dont slam the doors in his face an you cool
i remember that the longest relationship i ever had was with a girl who when i was with her drove me crazy but made me wait like 8 dates or some ridiculous amount of time like that lol but that made me want her even more and i wanted to keep her forever

hi am3!
yeah aries man, sag woman its a perfect match....but the other way around im not so sure
i think aries woman might be better of with a leo or an air sign, so she can have to upper hand and control lol
but yeah wwilson
i wuldn t worry about it, just be your self and this guy will stick to you like glue, if he is any good
but him being single parent as well i think you guys will be fine, dont sweat the little stuff

wwi, if things are fairly new, why rock the boat?

Sounds like your hands are tied by your schedule eitherway - maybe try to find out when you're more sure of how much time you're wanting to input?

If I know anything about Aries men which I don't 😉

Are you assuming he's going to be interested in someone else because you're not as available as you think he wants you to be? Or do you know he's dating others? One of the longest relationships I've had was with a sag (I'm a female Aries, he was the Sag). Don't apologize for giving your family a priority, the right man for you is one who recognizes how important that is. If the Aries man doesn't appreciate it, find someone who will.

I don't "know" that he is dating others. He actually brought exclusivity stating that he wasn't dating anyone and understood that we were exclusive. This conversation was brought on by an argument that my daughter's father and I had earlier in the day. I think my aries was simply saying those words to make me feel better. Who knows. We met through a dating website and he still has his profile up and very active. Obviously, it doesn't sit well with me but if he was truly interested I suppose he would have taken it down.

"I think my aries was simply saying those words to make me feel better."
Unlikely- most Aries wouldn't waste their breath w/ such a statement if it weren't true.. Diplomacy is also not our cup of tea..

"We met through a dating website and he still has his profile up and very active."
I think women tend to ready WAY too much into this kinda stuff but either way sounds like its early in the relationship so I wouldn't worry about it. Just have fun with it and see what happens. Hold off on any deep relationship conversations, trust me it drives Aries even crazier than you could imagine to keep wondering what your status is which will intensify his interest.

What?

All this worrying and concern over what is up with this man, where a standing is, whether he might date others ..... when in the OP, you said ..

"I was really hurt in my past relationship thus I have kept a wall up with him."



^^^^^^^^^^ that is why you don't know any of these things and have to come us strangers about why your confused.

You want to know all these things?

Take your wall down, and let him in ... then you'll shall know.

"We met through a dating website and he still has his profile up and very active. Obviously, it doesn't sit well with me but if he was truly interested I suppose he would have taken it down."



You have a wall up, preventing him from coming in .. and I'm sure that doesn't sit well with him either .. and I should think that he feels the same way you do ... if you truly were interested in him then he probably thinks you would have taken it down.

I'm really baffled here, to tell you the truth. You want him to keep chasing you, while a wall you built stands between you. You are a tad upset because he is active on a dating website, and think he shouldn't do this if he were interested in you, while a wall you built stands between you.

How deep of an interest do you expect him to go .. if a wall you built stands between you?

Isn't that kind of ..... unfair on your part?

You would expect him to give more than you are willing to do yourself?

Thanks for the insight.

Funny this just came up because last night, he took his profile down. He communicates with me daily via phone, text or email. I am so glad that I didn't bring up the fact that I was uneasy with his profile being up. I really wanted him to take it down on his terms. I was just being a little impatient🙂

This might sound odd but I have a wall up because I really see potential. He is respectful to me and others, I feel good about myself when I am with him and the chemistry is amazing. I guess I feel that if I don't trust you, you can't hurt me. It may be my mind playing games with me but I feel as if there is something he isn't telling me. I am aware that his sign may have nothing to do with it but do Aries men typically hold things in?