Aries...

This topic was created in the Leo forum by sunnynight on Monday, August 4, 2008 and has 10 replies.

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@sunnynight
20 Years

I got to know this aries boy through internet....we have never met.This was the first time for me to know any aries.He's younger to me and is extremely funny,interesting and full of new ideas..he is so much fun to talk to.He was a perfect gentle man at first then turned into a naughty boy..he always flirts but in a very cute way..not at all offensive..then suddenly he got all possessive!!!He didn't talk to me if I was talking with another friend ..I thought it was little childish..hahaha but still he's very cute.Then suddenly he shared his life story with me,sang some songs for me and constantly flattered...then again..he was gone for several days,didn't reply to any of my messages and then yesterday once again we talked for like 3 hours..it was fun..now I think he's gonna disappear again..is this a typical aries behaviour? I just wanna know out of curiosity coz this is the first time I have ever talked to an aries.

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

''...now I think he's gonna disappear again..is this a typical aries behaviour?''

Yes it's almost typical I have to say - we suck the juice out of every new experience almost immediately, get bored and need some new distraction...but we always come back, well most of the times.

Inject some mystery, something for him to look forward to, yes almost childish but that's one of the Aries character too.

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Hey RFL and Zen thanks a lot for your posts...
" Just have fun and stay busy"
That is a good idea...I just want to see what his next move will be...I was messaging him but now I think I should stop and let him take the lead..

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Oh one more thing,when I don't message him he acts sulky and needy and whenever I do, he replies with very short answers which I think indicates that he's busy....does he do this on purpose? Should I still stop messaging? or keep on?gosh...so confusing...

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@zenalchemy
18 Years5,000+ Posts

''Oh one more thing,when I don't message him he acts sulky and needy and whenever I do, he replies with very short answers which I think indicates that he's busy....does he do this on purpose? Should I still stop messaging? or keep on?gosh...so confusing...''

this one sounds like a guy thing. Keeping it short.

Oh and Aries generally love to do the chase as they also like attention so very confusing. If you chase, they withdraw/resist or feel smothered, if you don't give enough attention they sulk, etc...hence up to you sunnyn to do what you're comfortable with.

Good luck

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@firebabe
19 Years

yeah this is aries male behaviour ,but they come back and they are so sweet and nice you can forgive them,dont contact them too much just now again to show you care,you missed them etc
let them do the chasing,and let him know you have a life ,keep him guessing what youve been up to,but show him he,s your love
they need to know they can go off do their thing etc safe in the knowledge you,ll be there for them when they come back.
if you can,t cope with these absences ,then he,s not for you.

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Thanks firebabe....I have decided to wait and give him a little time...but I think I will reply him whenever he calls or messages...can't ignore him..lol I don't want to hurt the child inside him who craves attention..😉