Do I scare aqua guy?

So i've kinda been with this aquarius guy for 6 months, the 1st 2 months we we're the best of friends talked and text everyday. I kinda liked him but being an Aries i'm very proud and would never tell a guy i like him. So 1 day after 2 months he text me and told me he liked me and that i set him on fire lol. He told me he wanted 2 be with me but "no strings" sorta thing, which is fine with me. Any who, we've had lots of phone sex lol i have asked for the real thing and he completely changes the subject?

I've been very patient but WTF? I have a huge sex drive. What is the problem? I've been waiting for 6 months for sex and he won't give it up— Give it 2 me already!!!! I'm an Aries! I don't want 2 talk about it! I want 2 do it!!! The last aqua guy i was with i nearly had 2 rape him every time i wanted sex! I hope this guy puts out soon! lol

This past weekend, he invited me 2 a cookout i was excited 2 see him BUT he completely ignored me? WTF! He said hey thanks for coming when i got there but no convo the rest of the time i was there? He just sat there and stared at me the whole time— It was a very intense kind of stare it was sooo deep it made me shiver! WTF? When i left he gave me a super tight hug he moaned a little lol. As me and my friends drove off he just stared at me deeply the whole time until i could no longer see him, u know like in the movies lol. That night he called me i asked him why he didn't talk 2 me or pay any attention to me, he said u make me nervous— I don't get it? why? he quickly said i have 2 go and hung up?

Also he always says "I love you" but i never say it back becuz he said no strings? Should i just forget this guy? I hate 2 hear that I make him nervous, I've heard that so many times and it makes me think that there is something wrong with me? Any advice?

I posted this over on the Aqua board 2 LOL

Maybe, but why does he always say "I love you" when we agreed "no strings" I REFUSE 2 say it back. Also, why all the phone sex? I see no point in phone sex if it's not followed by the act?? Hmmmm......Maybe I'm the crazy one? lol

I agree. He should say exactly what he wants and if we want the same things we can continue. I don't like being in a constant state of confusion! It annoys me. I hope he isn't all talk and sucks in bed?? That would be such a waste of time and I would feel like charging him!! hahaha just kidding lol

True! He probably sucks in bed! lol

Even though astrologically Aries & Aquarius should get along, I don't think it works in a romantic relationship unless the Aqua has fire signs in other placements & there's lots of air in the Aries chart.

I was meeting tons of Aqua's (before I found my Taurus) and had a brief relationship with one. I realized quickly that I couldn't deal with their sudden disinterest when things were actually heating up. They probably need a lot more finesse in dealing with their psychological needs than an Aries can provide. As an Aries, we need to know where we stand quickly and hate to waste our time. We respond to those who respond openly to us and Aqua's have no problem doing that in the beginning of a relationship but seem to suddenly change in the midst leaving us feeling confused. Sounds like this is your problem. It isn't anything you did or should do, it's just the way they are. It's up to you to decide if you want to deal with this or not.

And, the 'no-strings' comment couldn't be more clear. You're not scaring him, he just wants to screw around. Be glad he told you and MOVE ON!

firegurl, you gotta chill... listen to gemtaur.

If he goes quiet, he's thinking, at the moment, switch the topic from sex... talk about something else, trust me, aries know a lot of random crap that keeps air signs entertained.

Sex doesn't really last that long so don't get the rush to the finish line. Unless you don't want anything serious with him?

Fire signs can get Air signs to act more effectively than Water and Earth but they will live in their head every now and then. When they do, go with them or be patient, get busy with your own thing.

Aquas are very stubborn and their unpredicatability results in them controlling a lot of situations, people's actions (i.e. people get afraid to act in case Aqua disappears or something like that). For Aries and Sag, this control-freak nature of Aqua does not work or is not effective, as Aries and Sag live and breathe unpredicatability 🙂

Also, Aqua like all air signs may say things they have not realistically thought through what actions are to follow. Aries are one of the signs that question this talk as talk for fire signs need to be backed up with actions. This is generally a big problem as fire signs are NOT patient and Air signs will talk without realising they are expecting to act not just think life 🙂

So if you like him as anything more than sex-buddy, chill a little if he goes in to think... you have made your point to him so he knows what you want.

If you are available whenever he wants for phone-sex, that's not his issue, it's yours 😛 Get to know him better, learn to speak some of his language before expecting him to speak yours. If you speak in the language he can understand, trust me, you'll get him in bed before you know it.
He's a guy who will hit it when available but looks like he wants more with you. Let him be the guy, you be the lady 😉

LOL thanks guys! I will take it sloooow...As for the begging for sex? I have never begged for it I am an Aries and way to proud to lower myself to ask for sex. I have kept these feelings of wanting sex NOW to myself. I would never tell him or any guy that I want sex from them. Funny thing is that one time at a party he was a little tipsy and he humped my leg & grabbed my ass. The next day he told me he was so embarrassed by this and I told him, I liked it and thought it was cute..I'm a wierdo I know lol. He just laughed and said gurl I love yur crazy ass!! lol

I have known him for over ten months and we've been seeing eachother for six. So if he wanted JUST sex he would've taken it by now lol

He is very shy and very sweet, I just want him to atleast kiss me damn give me something! lol
I know I make him nervous tho because he tells me ALL the time but is that good or bad? or both?

Gemtuar, I did ask him once for it but since he changed the subject I've never brought it up again lol. I have heard that I am 2 much woman for just one man lol. Well last night was magical he finally kissed me!!! It was amazing!

After he gave me a funny look, he had a huge smile on his face and asked me, are you wearing mens cologne?? I said yes I am I like mens cologne it smells better than that flowery shit they make for women! He laughed so hard his drink came out of his nose it was hilarious!! He said you're crazy and I like it! hahaha

He has a thing for the crazies! LOL

See, Aqua dudes are fairly easily entertained! 😛

I know what you mean about those flowery perfumes though... I lean towards the masculine notes too...

Even though 'I love ewe' wears Paris Hilton pink bottle perfume! *go stand at the naughty wall ewe*

Zen I thought u were a dude? Sorry, u were mens cologne 2? what are u wearing these days? My Aqua was tickled pink that I wear mens cologne but, he liked it LOL

lol... yea, everyone thinks I'm a dude 🙂

I love Burberry London for men.
Dior Farenheit... not sure if this is for men only, never bothered checking, my dad uses it also (he's Aqua) 😉

Haven't used them in a while though but in general, I like the male perfumes more than the female ones.

As of a few weeks, I'm using D&G The One. Its new so still fascinates me...
My staple is La Prairie Midnight or Silver rain. They last forever so always have it.

What are you using?

LOL I'm using Burberry London 2 loves it and Eternity Summer they smell sooo good. Sex in a bottle LOL
I'm going 2 go give D&G The one a sniff and if I like it I'll def pick it up. LOL On every1 thinken yur a dude. I have a very deep voice and I get YES Sr. over the phone alot? Use 2 piss me off but I'm just used 2 it now LOL

hahaha... no I mean every1 on dxp thinking I'm a dude... prolly cos of my avatar.

In real life, I used to dress like a tomboy until I was about 19... then my taurus venus kicked in I guess. My voice is low and girly... curse my taurus rising and venus! My mind's very aries though, I can just hide it well.

Still have more jeans than dresses but the jeans are less tommy 😄

Iknow what u meant, on dxp LOL