Falling for a Aries woman, assistance please...

I walk into a local bar after working out to grab some food. I'm single guy with unlimited freedoms, but I'm old fashion and believe in doing what is RIGHT. I'm a Virgo man on the cusp of Libra, I consider myself a rare find. I meet a young lady and within the first 5 minutes I knew she was awesome. Ball buster, laughing, intellectual, not stupid but tends to thing others are in her control. I kept it light with her, but after a few months I just was getting more and more attracted to her.

She worked at the restaurant, as I was in the same field as well, almost the same amount of years. We both stood loyal, both are leaders, are trusted by many, and have a wide network with successful people. Being a Virgo, I thank it through, this was to good to be true! I found out later her boyfriend broke up with her. So I stood up to the plate and asked her out. She said yes...twice. As time passed its stood still. No calls, no returns, txts, little convo. By valentines day I had found out she got back together with her ex, we never went out. I never felt so broken, she treated me so good making me feel special, I couldn't believe it, I was a fool. I remember retreating to the foot of my bed on the floor in a ball for 2 hours, just hurt.

Moving on, I always cut off any of my interest after being hurt, all of them; but I couldn't with her. We kept it light as it was before and I just did my own thing. Its about two years after we first met, I found out she broke up with her boyfriend. She did the breaking this time, not him, huge difference. So, I swung back into the picture and its even better than before.

More attraction towards me, inviting me with her fiends, getting more involved in her life, as well as mine. We both grew up a lot from those 2 years. Latest trouble I'm having is this...

Aries suppostly doing the chasing, I like to "be the man". Massive confusion because she is very sensitive! We would hang out, these are the signal I get...First off, she tells me to sit next to her, legs pointed towards me, leg is rubbing next to mine, touching her hair, her lips, more animated actions when she speaks to me, hair tossing, mirroring my images. I mean EVERYTHING! I left to go to the bathroom, walking back to the table she looks for me 2-3 times. I offer to take her home, she declines to help her GF with a friend because she live in the same building as her.

I honestly have a burning in my gut for this young lady. This is my plan. I have to get reno

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I honestly have a burning in my gut for this young lady. This is my plan. I have to get renovations done on my condo, I told her when they are done we would go together to a new restaurant I once went to (it came up socially, I told her I went once by myself, she responded, "why dint you call me, I would have went with you". The sensitive side I guess came out) So when we go out I just plan to have a great time as we usually do, don't cross any huge lines, but defiantly get a much craved kiss from it.

I hope she feels the same......

Sounds good. Goodluck, hope she feels the same. Come back and tell us what happens. 🙂

good luck

So.. i am an aries woman and am seeing a virgo man. I love how honest and tender he is. H es such a sweetheart. I am totally hooked on this guy! The thing is with me, as an aries, being direct and to the point, i dont play games, well, this guy is a challange. And i can't understand how he can control himself. We were togethrr for 4 weks. I know hr was into me as much as i am to him. Something happened and bam. He didnt talk to me for a bit. A stupid mix up, which i wont get into. Anyway. We barely talked and itt made me crazy, not being able to control this. Well, he said we got to close, and he can't be n relationship n we need to slow down. Ok. So we have. We still talk and hang out, just not at the emotional level as much as we did. I miss ot so much, but jus makes me more determined to get back where we were. So, as an aries, i'd say u gotta make her think she chasing u. I don't recomend playing head games, you can be totally honest about yout intentions. But the virgo "disappearing act" will drive her crazy. Believe me. And when she starts being irrational.. then you know you got her. So spend time with her, be sweet, say nice things smile, let her knw u r n 2 her.. then bam.. dissappear. Then when shes has been calling , msg. Etc. Come back n her life and tell her, u r feeling strong feelings n u jus needed time to thnk ahout things.. hook line and sinker!

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So.. i am an aries woman and am seeing a virgo man. I love how honest and tender he is. H es such a sweetheart. I am totally hooked on this guy! The thing is with me, as an aries, being direct and to the point, i dont play games, well, this guy is a challange. And i can't understand how he can control himself. We were togethrr for 4 weks. I know hr was into me as much as i am to him. Something happened and bam. He didnt talk to me for a bit. A stupid mix up, which i wont get into. Anyway. We barely talked and itt made me crazy, not being able to control this. Well, he said we got to close, and he can't be n relationship n we need to slow down. Ok. So we have. We still talk and hang out, just not at the emotional level as much as we did. I miss ot so much, but jus makes me more determined to get back where we were. So, as an aries, i'd say u gotta make her think she chasing u. I don't recomend playing head games, you can be totally honest about yout intentions. But the virgo "disappearing act" will drive her crazy. Believe me. And when she starts being irrational.. then you know you got her. So spend time with her, be sweet, say nice things smile, let her knw u r n 2 her.. then bam.. dissappear. Then when shes has been calling , msg. Etc. Come back n her life and tell her, u r feeling strong feelings n u jus needed time to thnk ahout things.. hook line and sinker!

so you suggest he plays BS games with her to get her? not good at all