@wateryram80
13 Years
Huntress
Aries Women and the Hunter Spirit in Dating
Aries women often see themselves as hunters in dating, enjoying the thrill of pursuing someone they are interested in. They tend to take initiative, ask for numbers, and enjoy the chase. However, this approach can lead to challenges in building stable, long-term relationships. Understanding this trait can help in balancing pursuit with relationship stability.
Haha, I stopped chasing men because it never worked out for me in the long run. I do a little play and tag to see if they're interested, just to pull them a little closer. 😄
I'm the same way... I love the rollercoaster ride of the Chase.. the hunt. Makes me feel in control! And if a guy is chasing me, I just don't really like it, feel like they are trying to take something from me.. is that wierd?
Posted by raerae2one8
I'm the same way... I love the rollercoaster ride of the Chase.. the hunt. Makes me feel in control! And if a guy is chasing me, I just don't really like it, feel like they are trying to take something from me.. is that wierd?
YES! I feel the same way when guys are too into me real fast. My first thought is what does he want from me? lol! I like the feeling of being in control of how things are moving as well. It's fun. This is why I love water signs. They let me think I'm in control. 🙂 Other fire signs won't let me be great! 😉 They like to be the one calling the shots.
Posted by starlover
Aries rising here 🙂 I always did the initiating until i met an Aries man ~~ my karma LOL
I'm sure that he was all over you Don Juan style lol! That's how we roll.
Posted by IridescenceMorpha
Haha, I stopped chasing men because it never worked out for me in the long run. I do a little play and tag to see if they're interested, just to pull them a little closer. 😄
I agree with you. Too much chasing is not healthy. It's just because I want to win, not necessarily because I'm so in love. A little healthy tag is never bad. 😉
Amen to that! I've never had a relationship with a fire sign. I still wonder what it would be like but I can never get beyond one or two dates.
It fizzles for me or them. I've only dated a few though. Water signs are very attracted to me and as I am to them.
I was in a relationship with a Scorpio for a few years. He's the only guy that I could see myself with long term. There were a lot of issues in the beginning though that never gave us a solid foundation. We tried for so long to get it right but just couldn't. The sex was amazing though... Intense and passionate. I don't think I'll every completely shake him from my system. He's just as hopeless. Our relationship ended 6 years ago and over these six years we've randomly tried to get back together.
He admitted a few months ago I am the only woman he's ever really wanted to marry. That broke my heart.
Posted by wateryram80
This question is for my Aries ladies. Do you see yourself as a hunter when dating? I am! I think it's so funny that even though I fear a lot of things, I don't fear pursuing men. I get a kick out of it actually. I'll ask a guy for his number first. I like to call first and ask about the initial date. That butterflies feeling is exciting. This is only with guys that I'm *really* interested in though. If I'm not interested, I'll let them chase me and then decide if I want to be caught. Sometimes when I catch my guy and I have his attention, the game is over. I'm bored and want to move on to the next guy. THIS is why being in stable, long-term relationships is better for me. My way of dating is not healthy. I play too much.
My, my, you are so bold! I could never work up the courage to ask a man for his phone number lol
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This question is for my Aries ladies. Do you see yourself as a hunter when dating? I am! I think it's so funny that even though I fear a lot of things, I don't fear pursuing men. I get a kick out of it actually. I'll ask a guy for his number first. I like to call first and ask about the initial date. That butterflies feeling is exciting. This is only with guys that I'm *really* interested in though. If I'm not interested, I'll let them chase me and then decide if I want to be caught. Sometimes when I catch my guy and I have his attention, the game is over. I'm bored and want to move on to the next guy. THIS is why being in stable, long-term relationships is better for me. My way of dating is not healthy. I play too much.