its not bad but you're probably gonna have to open up first. i never seem to find the right words to say what im thinking so i tend to get very quiet during emotional talks
Uhm yea, They want to know everything. My Aries man always tells me "Its very important i know how you feel and whats wrong, if i dont know whats wrong i cant fix it" As a cancer woman its hard for me to open up. Only one man has been able to do it, and thats my Aries man. Just do it! It will be okay, trust me!
you guys are all great, thanks. i'm scared though! i've brought up feelings and issues before and though he listened and handled it well the other day when we were hanging out he told me he wanted to go before i started bringing up things again. i was like gee, thanks. the aries i've been seeing is pretty much a huge jerk, or so he comes off. but i still can't tell if he's just brutally honest like aries are if he's being mean. whenever i call him out on being a jerk he doesn't understand what i mean. you aries men are definitely interesting... hot one moment and cold as ice the next.
second, you might need to ease into things in the emotional department. dont laugh at me because this is a lame story but i totally remember the first time a guy ever lit a candle in the room when we had sex (a capricorn) and i got embarrassed but i thought it was cute and i was glad he did it first haha. i do small things when i really care about someone, ill write little notes that say "i love you" and put them in the guys wallet or his pant pockets or i write him little notes on the mirror in the bathroom when its steamy. actually i always write him notes on the napkins at bars and restaurants and draw hearts and pictures of kittens or something lol. if i say something lovey dovey ill say it quick and then hide under the covers or hide my face in his chest. i suck at this stuff!
It's been 8 months and i'm still waiting for my aries man to open up. I appreciate that he does so many cute things to show his feelings toward me. But sigh! I m looking forward to the day he utters those three magical words.
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.