Grey Asexual confused about Saggi guy

The sag I've been hanging out with is very clear about not believing in monogamy, I think he's been disappointed before.

We kiss and cuddle, he seems to feel weird the morning after and at school because I don't do PDA unless I'm in a relationship. He basically just follows me around from several yards away and tries to be nonchalant about it....

Seems to confuse him.

He also makes odd points of my ex of 6 years and another of 3, as if they weren't important to me or something.

He also acts like I'm not going to see him again of my own choice.

I usually just flatter him at some point after and that seems to smooth him over.

Why do some people say they don't want a monogamous relationship but still try to adhere to the progression of those behaviors?

I don't see anything special about people overcoming emotional boundaries they set on themselves.

Posted by PhytoLilith
The sag I've been hanging out with is very clear about not believing in monogamy, I think he's been disappointed before.

We kiss and cuddle, he seems to feel weird the morning after and at school because I don't do PDA unless I'm in a relationship. He basically just follows me around from several yards away and tries to be nonchalant about it....

Seems to confuse him.

He also makes odd points of my ex of 6 years and another of 3, as if they weren't important to me or something.

He also acts like I'm not going to see him again of my own choice.

I usually just flatter him at some point after and that seems to smooth him over.

Why do some people say they don't want a monogamous relationship but still try to adhere to the progression of those behaviors?

I don't see anything special about people overcoming emotional boundaries they set on themselves.

He sees you as a challenge and falling all over his Sag ego. He's about to bust his fronts on the concrete with you. And, I know this bothers you but, it's not your concern you are being you. He can't believe he's run into someone as uniques as you and is testing your uniqueness.

His chase doesn't necessarily mean he wants a relationship. Keep that in mind. He may see you as the ultimate conquest. People often see asexual people as the ultimate conquest. Do not compromise who you are for anyone. Does he know you are asexual and autistic....Shame on the Sag! He's playing games... and doesn't realize he's playing with himself.

They hate to commit and give all these glorious philosophical declarations against monogamy and when they find themselves with a unique woman, they contradict themselves.

I saw you posted on the Sag board, sorry your fellow Aries are always out and about. Our board is probably the deadest of all the sign boards.

I share some if your traits and think you are so cool.

Please update on how things are going. Stay true to yourself.