Ok after two weeks My Aries has stopped the ice storm and responded to my texts. And he didn't take hours! :-) I have been reading his horoscope, his lines of communication are open and he has been thinking about second chances with a romance that he had a falling out with! I understand that this a rarity dealing with an Aries and I don't want to mess it up. I didn't come on to strong, I complemented him, let him know I respected him, took hours to text him back, told him I did want to talk about what happened and gave him enough to think about. Now I am going to fall off his radar again. Still give him his space. But if he reaches out, I don't want to mess it up. Is there any Aries that has went back to an ex after a big falling out. What did they say to make you feel safe. What could someone do to regain your trust. I need all the advice I can get. This is the first guy I have been impressed by in 30 years. I messed up because I ended the chase to soon and got clingy. I know giving this big ads I 've learned my lesson speech is not going to work. I just need to show him I respect his feelings and he can trust me. Please Help!
Help me! He texted me back, now what?
*I told him I did not want to talk about what happened

Love is not a game. A man is suppose to chase you because you are the prize not him! All that back and forth is dealing with a insecure man who wants power over your emotions!
Stay aloof.
Don't be so avaliable.
Make him chase you til you get a commitment other than that keep dating. That hot and cold crap is red flags. When a man is into you he will do WHAT EVER it takes to show you are on a high pedestal.
Stay aloof.
Don't be so avaliable.
Make him chase you til you get a commitment other than that keep dating. That hot and cold crap is red flags. When a man is into you he will do WHAT EVER it takes to show you are on a high pedestal.
He did! I was! His ex wife left him while he was at work. Then I got mad and told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. And he started shutting down which drove me crazy and I became clingy. He stopped having sex with me and said we were starting over as friends, which really made me
mad then i Catfished him and asked him was he seeing anyone and he said no. Then I went offffffffff! Then we stopped talking. His friend said that he is just mad and wait him out. I did really care about him and I hate to lose a friend. And I just wish we could go back to how we were.
mad then i Catfished him and asked him was he seeing anyone and he said no. Then I went offffffffff! Then we stopped talking. His friend said that he is just mad and wait him out. I did really care about him and I hate to lose a friend. And I just wish we could go back to how we were.

Just take it slow you did said his ex left him he needs emotional space. Dong overthink go with the flow and he needs you to be a friend first so be just that. You can't rush something that you want to last forever. Also lasting love comes from a friendship and understanding don't Rush a commitment
Be patient. You have nothing to fear because if he's not the one someone else is.
Be patient. You have nothing to fear because if he's not the one someone else is.
I know I just miss him.

Posted by Octoberbaby91
Love is not a game.
Posted by Octoberbaby91
Stay aloof.
Don't be so avaliable.
Make him chase youclick to expand
😆
Be who you are. Anything other than that is a game.

But first, maybe get some control over your "going offffff". Emotionally volatile people...no bueno.
You're friend with a troll though, so I question the validity of this post.
You're friend with a troll though, so I question the validity of this post.
a troll?
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →

