Help me! He texted me back, now what?

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amberbrown
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11 Years

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Ok after two weeks My Aries has stopped the ice storm and responded to my texts. And he didn't take hours! :-) I have been reading his horoscope, his lines of communication are open and he has been thinking about second chances with a romance that he had a falling out with! I understand that this a rarity dealing with an Aries and I don't want to mess it up. I didn't come on to strong, I complemented him, let him know I respected him, took hours to text him back, told him I did want to talk about what happened and gave him enough to think about. Now I am going to fall off his radar again. Still give him his space. But if he reaches out, I don't want to mess it up. Is there any Aries that has went back to an ex after a big falling out. What did they say to make you feel safe. What could someone do to regain your trust. I need all the advice I can get. This is the first guy I have been impressed by in 30 years. I messed up because I ended the chase to soon and got clingy. I know giving this big ads I 've learned my lesson speech is not going to work. I just need to show him I respect his feelings and he can trust me. Please Help!
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Octoberbaby91
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11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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Love is not a game. A man is suppose to chase you because you are the prize not him! All that back and forth is dealing with a insecure man who wants power over your emotions!

Stay aloof.
Don't be so avaliable.
Make him chase you til you get a commitment other than that keep dating. That hot and cold crap is red flags. When a man is into you he will do WHAT EVER it takes to show you are on a high pedestal.
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amberbrown
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He did! I was! His ex wife left him while he was at work. Then I got mad and told him I didn't want to be with him anymore. And he started shutting down which drove me crazy and I became clingy. He stopped having sex with me and said we were starting over as friends, which really made me
mad then i Catfished him and asked him was he seeing anyone and he said no. Then I went offffffffff! Then we stopped talking. His friend said that he is just mad and wait him out. I did really care about him and I hate to lose a friend. And I just wish we could go back to how we were.
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Octoberbaby91
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Just take it slow you did said his ex left him he needs emotional space. Dong overthink go with the flow and he needs you to be a friend first so be just that. You can't rush something that you want to last forever. Also lasting love comes from a friendship and understanding don't Rush a commitment

Be patient. You have nothing to fear because if he's not the one someone else is.