What it's like to be an Aries?

Lately, I have had encounters with the people around me that I find weird.
My temper is almost uncontrollable , even for the littlest things.
It's like I'm boiling from deep within, like a fire's about to explode.
I hate being with weak minded people, but I hate being bossed around either.
I just got into this job three months ago and I am the only newbie in the group. As early as now,
I am not liking it, the work and the people. I feel like they're a bunch of dictators and jealous people talking behind my back.
Also, because of that new found job, I have to leave the city where I am staying and be back with my family. Most of the time when I'm home,
I and my mom just fight and argue. She's an Aries as well but the total opposite of me. She moves and talks too slow and she makes decisions
that aren't similar to mine. It frustrates me a lot.
Earlier, I was texting with this guy. I could say we were having a nice time not until he asked me to send him
a picture of myself. In normal circumstances, it's not really much of a deal to send a selfie, is it?
But to me, I felt like I was being told what to do so I said, Im not gonna send it just because you asked me to do it.
He thought I was weird. (ok, I was weird but idk lol!)

With these few examples, I just came to realize that maybe, it's the Aries in me that's make me act like that.
Is it? I'm not sure. I came to this site with high hopes that I understand myself better. Know more about the things I do and don't like, etc.

Lady Ram:

Your job doesn't suck as bad as you think, you just do not gel with your coworkers. At the end of the day that is all they have to be rather they like, love or lump who you are. Those who are meant to be more may not show up for quite some time.

Remember sometimes we are in teaching phases and others we are the teacher. We can not expect everyone to be as aware of life's process or who we are initially. Get the monies and drop them at your car door. Complete your tasks and do not take it home with you.

Your mom being an Aries has become slower as she aged. We do that, also there are other things she moves the same on, it is your focus.

Younger Aries (in the fact that she is the older Aries in this scenario) tend to try spotting kinks in the armor of older Aries and nit pick small things they believe the other Aries just brushed over...funny thing is the younger Aries knows they themselves hate that. Not saying mom is right and you are wrong but slow down with her and only take it all with a grain of salt.

You're not certain of that guy. Give yourself more space to deal with you, if he wants to be with you there is a way to do that without ending it. If he does not want to wait on you just move forward in focusing on you.

A lot of new things are in your life and you feel uncomfortable. Do not try to control everything, try to understand yourself through it all. Hope this makes sense

Posted by Rambunctious76

My mum is the exact opposite of Lady Ram's mum. My mum nitpicks at everything I say and do, and we fight a lot as a result.

You'd think at her age (she's 62) she'd have mellowed somewhat. But no. Still feisty, emotional and impulsive. However I think I have mellowed by comparison. Not so hot-tempered anymore, still emotional but in measured amounts. And my risks have become more calculated.

It's probably the work of the moon signs, I think. My mum is Cancer moon while I'm Scorpio moon. Could be the same for Lady Ram and her mum?

Maybe, I'm Libra moon. Could be that you are growing at different rates as well.

All my conflicts have been like the above in dealing with Aries women, I have a Pisces mom, so I can not speak on the mom dynamic directly

Either way we hate nit picking, cause we hate other people's not asked for advice

Also you both go through the same Arian seasons at the same time so it could complicate it a little more. This is also interesting to note in Aries who marry Aries.

So you basically have a giant chip on your shoulder?

Grow up and get over yourself.

Try being an Aries with a Cancer Moon and Mars -_- now that's a moody/short tempered ass combo *sigh* I hate having planets in Cancer...

Cancer moon = boo

Do not tell me "silence." I have a Cancer moon. I can say what I want about it.

I've learned to embrace who I am. I like being an aries, no actually I love it

I don't dislike being an Aries, I dislike being a fire sign with a water moon. It's a constant keeping oneself in check because of the watery aspects.