How to get an aries back—

I am a sun-cap and moon-gemini girl and dating a sun-Aries and moon-scorpio guy for about 3 months now. He is soooo sweet and loving to me but he has a communication issue and going through a lot of stress with business and money. I have been trying to be very supportive and try to talk to him but he doesnt seem to like to talk about his stress or problems. So last week i was pmsing and moody so i asked him if he was happy with me and he told me he was very happy with me and i told him i felt there was something missing in our relationship and that i feel he doesn't communicate with me and so he told me he doesnt want me to be stressed with his problems and that he is not very good at communicating. He likes to deal with his own problems. So he said maybe i am not the right guy for you and we should have a break. So i told him ok. I didnt want a break. All i wanted was communication from him. I wanted to help him with his stress and talk to him about it not a break from him. I know he really loves me and wants to be with me but he is just really disapointed at himself for not making me happy. And i felt really bad and realized i want to be with him. I was pushing him away because he was moving so fast. He was talking about buying a house and moving in together and getting married. I got really scared but i realized i do love him and that i want to be with him. So the next day i texted him and i told him i was really sorry for giving him more stress and i felt really bad about it and he repied with " it's ok" and then i called him and text him that i am sorry and please forgive me and to call me but he never called or responded. And it's been 3 days now and he hasnt responded nor text and i am not sure what i should do. Should i leave him alone and wait until he contacts me or should i call him? I havent talked to him for 3 days now and it really hurts me that he is not contacting me. He said he wanted a break but i am not sure if this means we are broken up or we are just taking a break from each other. But why isnt he talking to me? Please help!!!!

He probably feels added stress now because he feels now that he wasnt making you happy, when he thought he was. Idk if it were me id probably be like f it all since im so stressed. Hell probably be back soon. Just give him space dont become clingy.

i dont discuss my problems with people because I feel i can handle everything on my own, goes back to Aries independence. it may not be true but I still have to attempt to sort shit out for myself. I dont think it has much to do with control though.

Space, its only three days. You asked for the break initially so he is processing if his stress made you feel unwanted.

Thanks everyone!!! I am just really sad that he is not talking to me. It's been 4 days now and this is not like him. He always calls me and text me. How long should i wait?

Flavia: He was the one that initated the break not me. But i know i pushed him to.

I agree with everyone here. Aries is uber independent. I personally get angry at the mere suggestion that I need help. Fuckaround and add to my problems and I'm ghost. You're not only dealing with a Mars Ego but also a Mars Moon.

Scorpio Moon likes to "punish" for missteps. Scorpio Moon males will bring you under submission with control, manipulation, and reversed psychology. "I'm moving too fast? Watch how slow we go now."

Nothing like disagreements that bring out the Moon in a man. Now, you see how he operates under these circumstances (if this is the end). Do you like his response? Is his way of "dealing" okay with you?

Aries wants no help until the walls come falling down.
Scorpio relief from the storm - not a reminder.

Feminine Moon males have a really hard time with portrayals of "weakness." It's a sore spot for feminine moon males. Do not rub it.

You can't push a man away from what he clearly wants (moving in together) and then force him to talk about what he clearly doesn't want to do (talk about his problems).

Why did you want to talk about his problems? You had a solution?

@xxnightbynight i like the way you word things. lol. Definitely straight no chaser. You desribed my aries sister, grandmother, cousin to a T. lol. Made me think of how i should continue to treat my Aries guy...hmmm...thinking.

No i am not ok with him giving me the silent treatment but i also do understand i was the one that pushed him away and i think he needs time to think. But i dont know how much time should i give him. I texted and called the first 2 days after our break and then i havent texted or called him for 5 days now. How long should i wait until i contact him again or should i just not contact him anymore.

I wanted to talk to him about his problems so i can help him with his problems. But now i know that Aries just like to talk about problems and likes to deal on his own. I know now and understand now. So how do i get him back?

Posted by VenusAquarius
I agree with everyone here. Aries is uber independent. I personally get angry at the mere suggestion that I need help. Fuckaround and add to my problems and I'm ghost. You're not only dealing with a Mars Ego but also a Mars Moon.

Scorpio Moon likes to "punish" for missteps. Scorpio Moon males will bring you under submission with control, manipulation, and reversed psychology. "I'm moving too fast? Watch how slow we go now."

Nothing like disagreements that bring out the Moon in a man. Now, you see how he operates under these circumstances (if this is the end). Do you like his response? Is his way of "dealing" okay with you?

Aries wants no help until the walls come falling down.
Scorpio relief from the storm - not a reminder.

Feminine Moon males have a really hard time with portrayals of "weakness." It's a sore spot for feminine moon males. Do not rub it.

You can't push a man away from what he clearly wants (moving in together) and then force him to talk about what he clearly doesn't want to do (talk about his problems).

Why did you want to talk about his problems? You had a solution?

I called and texted him the first 2 days after our break but he didnt respond. It's been 5 days now that we havent texted or called each other. You really think i should text him again? I tried that for 2 days and he didnt respond. I dont want him to think i am this crazy girl either.

Posted by xxnightbynight
ehhh I'd text him. he could be waiting to hear from you. stubborn.

I dont think you should make contact. You've done enough. You let him know your sorry and how you feel if he's still distant its because he wants to be. It may have nothing to do with you, most of the time with Aries its all about them anyway, this is his issue. He wanted space, so give it to him. I'd give it more time, and when i do text i'd only check and see how he's doing just to let him know i still care for him and i haven't abandoned him, but i wouldn't mention us or the situation. I would leave that up to him.