i am in love with aries but i she said she cant

she said she loves me but cant forgive me for being possessive and controlling
she said she was tramatize by it.
but then she unblocked for aim. she had block me for like 6 moths cause she said i was being a dick head telling her about my sex life and how good my life was with out her.
she assumed i was trying to manipulate her into making her want me and she cut me off.
and now that she has unblocked me i m confused she wants or not. can she forgive or not. wtf .
aries girls help me out. is she confused, does she want me to keep trying or what?
i love this girl and now i dont know what to do. do say hi to her on aim or not.
we have had some short converstaion already like hi how are and stuff but i keep it short.
cause i dont know what she wants.

how is that going to help me at all,

just give time i guess ha

😢

Posted by geminiinlove
she said she loves me but cant forgive me for being possessive and controlling
she said she was tramatize by it.
but then she unblocked for aim. she had block me for like 6 moths cause she said i was being a dick head telling her about my sex life and how good my life was with out her.
she assumed i was trying to manipulate her into making her want me and she cut me off.
and now that she has unblocked me i m confused she wants or not. can she forgive or not. wtf .
aries girls help me out. is she confused, does she want me to keep trying or what?
i love this girl and now i dont know what to do. do say hi to her on aim or not.
we have had some short converstaion already like hi how are and stuff but i keep it short.
cause i dont know what she wants.

LMFAO!!! This sounds so familiar. I'm with an Aries now who always says that to me when I'm not nearly as controlling or possessive as half the men out there. The best thing you can do is pretend to be friends with benefits and "let her do the talking" so to speak while you continue to be a good man to her. In due time she will respect how open and free she feels with you, which tells her you accept and love her for who she is and she will associate you with freedom as well as love and happiness. Trust me, I've been doing my homework.

They always are quick to play the manipulation card on you even if you are not being manipulative. Relationships are the only thing they are cowards at. If you love her and desire her, there's a chance you might have to let her go and be free. Show her the door with a smile. Give her a subtle hint how you can have any woman you want, but don't say it rudely. This will show her confidence just don't be a dick about it.

The only thing that will guarantee this not to work is if she really just wants to play and be a player. Aries women have a huge problem with thinking ahead sometimes. Sorry ladies, but you just do and I'm not being offensive about it. And sometimes they just want to go be free and get it out of their system. They are "fleshy" by nature so try to introduce her to God so she can also think with her soul and spirit too. Whatever you can do to give her balance she will be attracted to - at least that's how mine is.

She should be intrigued by you all the time so don't be saying hi any more. Tell her something shocking and intriguing. Get her atten

FUCK! It cut me off.

Basically get her attention all the time and don't say "hi how are you" any more because that's boring and not intriguing. You're a Gemini so being interesting should be hard. Spontaneity should come natural to you as well. And you better be every man for this women cause holy fuck they get bored real easy. I'm also gonna get my Aries girl to give you some advice as I'm positive she has something useful to say here as well. But I'm probably 90% sure but she should correct the other 10% for you. I wish you luck. Aries women are the shit. I fall for every Aries I meet.

"You're a Gemini so being interesting should be hard."

Should not be hard*

Posted by ImpressMe
Teflon, you're right about one thing. Some Aries really suck at relationships and are cowards. When an Aries fall they fall hard because they love just as hard. So, an Aries will not test like a Scorpio, but keep a person at a distance until the person has proven themselves truth worthy. An Aries in love is a pretty sight to see. Everytime I see a ram in love it makes me laugh.

The trick to Aries not being bored is to keep them moving. Aries is a physical sign so activity is the key.

Really? That's the only thing I was right about? 😛

I know, I know I'm really learning because I want to. Proof takes time for most people, but the good thing is Aries are pretty impatient so it doesn't take so long with them when they're young. Which is good for me because I am genuine with mine. But bad for them because most people are not with them. So sassy and sexy though. You ever thought someone was sooooooooooooooo fucking cute that you just wanted to punch them? I know that's weird to say but it's how I feel.

Like GOD YOU'RE SO FUCKING ADORABLE AND SEXY and then just start strangling them in a sexual way.

K. Gonna go fuck now 😛

No, it's only been me saying that. LOL!

But in order for me to be her sight, doesn't she also have to submit and trust some? I get what you're saying, ya'll aren't complex to me and I'm learning.

Which is a good thing.

I'm waiting for Amethist to come say shit for no reason.

TeflonDon

thank you what you said really helps me understand and cope with things better.
she actually joined a church about six months ago. i dont think much religion i am more into meditation but i see your point.
her church seems to very strict and new. i dont like the fact that she belongs to it. cause i think those people are lying to them selfs. its not main stream religion.
its part of the reason we are having problems now.

we were in talking terms about 3 months ago.

she told me about her church and i didn't really think much of it. also i was going through a lot of changes spiritually as well. i follow my own beliefs about spirituality but i dont believe in jesus as the christians do. to me he was just a dude.

i like buddhism the most out all religions cause it makes some sense to me and i feel it is less base on fairy tales and more on truths.
but i accepted she was part of this so called religion but i felt like she was being manipulated and duped by it.
she didn't believe i God when we were going out about 2 years ago.
anyways one day one of her church member here at school came up to me and her while we were talking.
and was trying to convince me to believe in their religion i was basically made him look like an idiot. bad move on my part cause she was right there.
i told him he was lying to him self and all kind of things that made me look bad. anyways things were fine i guess she came back around.
but then she asked at another time. what i thought of her religion honestly. everytime someone asks me that the mad at me lol
so i gave it to her full honesty i told her i though it was a cult and she was being manipulated. she said no and we had an argument about it. i left thinking i had won the argument.
but the next week it feels like all her little church friends told her i was no good for her. but that same week she unblocked me on aim. so she basically stop coming around but open another line of communication. can you see how this can be confusing? and she didnt send a message or anything/

I think you shouldnt just say hi I think you should go harder than that you should write her a letter or an email impress her we Aries love to think we are the center of our lovers Universe the fact that youre even writting on this forum about her shows that you like her allot if she knew how much you care she would be flattered you should tell her your feelings and to give you a proper chance tell her you cant stop thinking about her no matter how hard you try and youre sorry and that you would like to take her out on a date I think you should be as honest to her as you are on this forum and she will be ALL YOURS. If you just write her a simple hello shell just think you thought about her for two seconds and that you arent really putting in any effort and the fact that she already doesnt trust you and had you blocked for 6 months oh geez Ive blocked so many dudes on aim facebook etc and all that when im done Im really DONE but a simple hello just wont due but the fact that she unblocked shows that you crossed her mind and she thought about you and she is ready to let her guard down to you TRUST ME ON THIS ONE 🙂