I think I came on too strong

Is der any way back from comin on a little strong with an aries. He flirted all evening with me and id had a few drinks so i asked for a kiss which he immediately obliged. That was all that happedn then the next night I was out he made it his business to be in my friends house again somewhere he wouldnt normally be. This was fine. We went out and he asked why I hadn't talked to him in the house...i was nervous...then later that night after a few drinks i again asked him for a kiss. too which he obliged. two days later we were all going out again but no him. i text him asking where he was we spoke for a little while and i said good night. i didnt get his last message until the next morning so i text back and we began talking again but then he sort of brushed me off after a few messages...after that ive heard nothing...i think i might have scared him off..im wondering is it possible to back peddle—

Haha okay fine if thats the way this is going to go i will ask no further...gud advice maybe

You can't scare off an aries by being too forward, or at least not with me. Don't feel bad pursuing an Aries if you want them, they can surely give you clear responses that its not going to happen.

Now mind you, all I can maybe say, is that we don't like playing luke-warm with anyone, it feels fake and unlike ourselves to be half-passionate with a dating situation, so maybe he/she is trying to find a way to be very passionate with you, or is having trouble letting you down, because they don't want to seem like a heartbreaker and ruin a possible friendship.

I don't ever want to let someone down, especially if I think the person might take the let down in a fragile way. If you want to know if he wants to still date etc, and you truly want to know what he feels, be ready to ask up front and be ready for him to tell you honestly and straight forward.