Just a romantic fantasy or means something more?

I met an Aries boy on a flight about two months ago. It was a short one hour flight, and he started chatting with me. We had the most engaging conversation, there was this instant spark, and chemistry. After we landed we exchanged numbers, hoping to meet if we're in the same cities ever. We kept in touch through the occasional text, one a week or so.

Last friday he texted saying he's visiting my city for work, asking if I'd like to meet that evening as he was flying back next day. I had dinner plans that night, so we decided to meet around midnight, spend time around town, and that I'd drop him off to the airport.

We met around one, it wasn't the least bit awkward. Drove around, went by a lake for a romantic walk holding hands, then picked up alcohol and got drunk. Since we didn't have a place to go, he parked the car up some alley and was all over me. I wasn't sure how to react since I barely knew him and wasn't sure what he'd think of me if I seemed so available so easy.

So I stopped, and forcibly pushed him off. He then got really forceful and tried a few more times, but I told him that this wasn't the way it should happen. He then came back to senses, and apologized. And started driving back to the airport. We laughed about what had just happened, he said he'll come back to see me, how we should talk more, atleast once a day. That we should be together on New Year, and how he's crazy about me. Finally we kissed and he left, and before leaving he took my hand and said he loves me. I laughed it off saying I wish he meant it. He just smiled, and kissed me again and left.

Now it's been five days, I haven't heard from him. And I'm okay. He's probably just a player who does this around alot. And In my head I had accepted this just as one romantic night, and fantasy. But could it mean anything more?

Seems to be another fantasy alright. Didn't you marry that Pisces boy you knew for a few weeks after all?

The only real and scary part of your current fantasy is that you both got drunk and then drove - best to step into reality at this stage.

Oh why can't men romance women anymore??
This happened to me a few weeks ago...some guy trying to get all forceful with me too, in his car when he dropped me off..
I swear..where has respect gone? It was gross.

Celtic have you heard from Hot Irish Guy? Update us..

Posted by sunshine222
Oh why can't men romance women anymore??
This happened to me a few weeks ago...some guy trying to get all forceful with me too, in his car when he dropped me off..
I swear..where has respect gone? It was gross.

Celtic have you heard from Hot Irish Guy? Update us..

Hey Sunshine, few messages back and forth but nothing else - i've officially given up even though people (in real life) are telling me he's interested, not enough action for me - he's deleted :-)

Oh sooooooooooooo sad...the romantic in me wanted it to work out!

I don't know..lots of women lately telling me they are having the same experiences with men..and they have pretty much given up..

I work with a girl who was married, had two kids together..recently she found the nastiest of nasty porn hidden all over the house. In suitcases of his, etc...For real and true. Sickening

I know this crap goes on and men like porn and all that, but when you hear it from close friends and co-workers it hits home. Another co-worker checked her husbands history on the net...of course he was visiting nasty sites and other stuff too. A male friend of mine telling me at parties at his house he would put something in his wife's drink, she'd go to bed all knocked out and he would cheat/f*ck downstairs with women at the party while she slept. I could go on...it makes me sick.

And that creep from Penn State with the little boys..I'm beginning to think men just don't want a regular woman anymore.
I have lost my faith and trust in men..for me it started right around the Tiger Woods thing, and all the creepy politicians and Arnold Schwartzenaggar(sp)with the maid.

Yea so that's it...I'm done with them!!

Hey Sunshine, LOL I wanted it to work out myself and can't say i'm not sad and hurt over it - but I can't keep being an ego boost for him or whatever it is he sees me as, so have to move on with sadness. I know I've allowed this to happen and facilitated his behaviour so its up to me now to put a stop to it.

I know what you mean by the lack of romance - I have a friend who you would imagine is, from outward appearances and actions, so overly in love with his girl that its sickening - yet he is on a dating website and flirting with loads of women there - he is on it constantly, saying he gets a kick from it and its harmless - but his girl gets all the hearts and flowers off him in real life - bleh! Ah well, maybe this is her Karma coming back to bite her.

My romantic soul won't allow me to be done with men (just yet!) so I will optimistically carry on and "know" that there is the perfect mate out there for me :-)

LOL! I know starlover, maybe we'll have to turn to the other side ourselves :-)

LOL! I know starlover, maybe we'll have to turn to the other side ourselves :-)

Ha ha ha ha I still like and I am attracted to men, I can't go to the other side...I just wish their "character" was better.

Court sounds old school, but some consideration and being at least gallant would be nice...not just "Hey open your legs"

LOL, not sure I'd even trust women now at this stage. So fooping sick of feeling this hurt 😢