Just when I write you girls off..one comes back

Well I had written off Aries women since I didnt get along with most of the ones I knew. Including my mom..but things are better with her now that I'm older. Anyway, I was eating lunch today at my fav spot when one of my childhood friends came to my table. I hadn't seen or talked to her in 10 years. We both went on about how we looked the same. I was a little on edge because she stopped talking to me and didn't tell me why. And I know Aries never have a problem with telling you if you did something wrong. So I didn't know what happened. I just thought it was because she got married and she cut contact with single friends (you know how some women do that). And because when we were little we used to always play wedding at her house, so i thought marriage was a big deal for her.


Well that wasn't the reason why. She is divorced now. And the jerk she was married to said that I came on to his little shit head behind. He told her some stupid story about me being stupid drunk and I grabbed his belt buckle and kissed him. I was shocked that was the reason why she stopped talking to me. She just dont believe everything she hear, so I'm surprised by that. And I thought she knew me better than that. I remember the party, it was at my apartment, the police came and no liquour in this world can ever make me do that to that short little bald headed man. I'm 5'10 he was what 5'1. What did i do reach down and crab is crotch....please!!!!

Now what he said did happen, but I wasn't the girl kissing him. it was her cousin. And that is why she is divorce. He and the cousin were getting it on behind her back and now she is pregnant. So they live together now.

She apologized for not double checking. She said she should have known better but she was in love. I cant help but hold a little grudge. We've known each other since we were 2 years old. And she didnt double check this or confront me on this. I guess I have to get over the hurt. I prefer to think it was what I assumed, not what she told me today. Any of you ladies ever did something like this?

What a fucking dog! Oh my god! Men like that need to have their balls chopped off, because clearly they don't deserve to be walking around with a pair because they're not 'men'!
I think ur holding a grudge on the wrong person dear. Did you ask her why she stopped speaking to you when she stopped speaking to you?
You can't blame her for not speaking to you if you just assumed you knew why and didn't bother trying to find out once through all of the years. Doesn't say much about how highly you value your friendship with her. She's apologized. She's accepted responsibility. You really shouldn't hold a grudge. You didn't feel this way when you didn't know so why should you feel this way now? It's like crying over spilt milk 10 years after someone knocked the glass over by accident. It doesn't make sense. Your ego is telling you to feel that. Tell ur ego to take a chill pill and chillax and call ur friend up to do something! shame..... She sounds like she missed you and needs you back if she went to the trouble of explaining the whole situation!

Posted by lotuslily
What a fucking dog! Oh my god! Men like that need to have their balls chopped off, because clearly they don't deserve to be walking around with a pair because they're not 'men'!
I think ur holding a grudge on the wrong person dear. Did you ask her why she stopped speaking to you when she stopped speaking to you?
You can't blame her for not speaking to you if you just assumed you knew why and didn't bother trying to find out once through all of the years. Doesn't say much about how highly you value your friendship with her. She's apologized. She's accepted responsibility. You really shouldn't hold a grudge. You didn't feel this way when you didn't know so why should you feel this way now? It's like crying over spilt milk 10 years after someone knocked the glass over by accident. It doesn't make sense. Your ego is telling you to feel that. Tell ur ego to take a chill pill and chillax and call ur friend up to do something! shame..... She sounds like she missed you and needs you back if she went to the trouble of explaining the whole situation!

thats lotuslily, I miss her too so much.

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Posted by lotuslily
What a fucking dog! Oh my god! Men like that need to have their balls chopped off, because clearly they don't deserve to be walking around with a pair because they're not 'men'!
I think ur holding a grudge on the wrong person dear. Did you ask her why she stopped speaking to you when she stopped speaking to you?
You can't blame her for not speaking to you if you just assumed you knew why and didn't bother trying to find out once through all of the years. Doesn't say much about how highly you value your friendship with her. She's apologized. She's accepted responsibility. You really shouldn't hold a grudge. You didn't feel this way when you didn't know so why should you feel this way now? It's like crying over spilt milk 10 years after someone knocked the glass over by accident. It doesn't make sense. Your ego is telling you to feel that. Tell ur ego to take a chill pill and chillax and call ur friend up to do something! shame..... She sounds like she missed you and needs you back if she went to the trouble of explaining the whole situation!

thats lotuslily, I miss her too so much.

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oh i am mad at him, i was just disappointed be would believe that garbage. but i got something for that little jerk. 😄
we had lunch again today...still the same funny person i remembered.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
What horoscope sign is her ex husband? That is gross that he was banging her cousin, yuck.

Any of you ladies ever did something like this?

Cut off a friend because a significant other lied about them? no.

he is a pisces.

If there is that much history then I would have to be wary of her. I'd say give it another chance, if that appeals to you, but I would keep firmer boundaries until trust was gained. Tell her exactly how you feel about it and how hurt you were. Inform her it might take time. If she's truly remorseful and serious about re-connecting then she will understand.

I have had people do that did that to me after years of friendship. I have reconnected with a couple of them but things will never be the same. That's life though. You change a lot in 10 years.

I agree with lotuslily, if you valued your friendship, you should have asked her what was wrong, instead of the assumption. At least to try to connect.

As an Aries woman myself, I wouldn't throw away my relationships if I got married. Sure maybe I'd get lost in the moment for a month or so, but life goes on. If a girl, friend or not, grabs my husband's belt buckle, I will kick her ass. No joke.

If she didn't beat the crap out of you for messing with her man, (shoot now, ask later), then she must have really liked you. She didn't want to hurt you, or cause conflict. She just disappeared.

and Aries Female, Pisces male...this relationship is always destined to fail. And suck in bed.

Posted by iheartnerdyboyz
I agree with lotuslily, if you valued your friendship, you should have asked her what was wrong, instead of the assumption. At least to try to connect.

As an Aries woman myself, I wouldn't throw away my relationships if I got married. Sure maybe I'd get lost in the moment for a month or so, but life goes on. If a girl, friend or not, grabs my husband's belt buckle, I will kick her ass. No joke.

If she didn't beat the crap out of you for messing with her man, (shoot now, ask later), then she must have really liked you. She didn't want to hurt you, or cause conflict. She just disappeared.

and Aries Female, Pisces male...this relationship is always destined to fail. And suck in bed.

Of course I tried to contact her to see what was going on. When her number change I lost all contact and her mother gave me nothing.
I understand her reasoning more. She said the same thing about not wanting to fight and disappearing instead.
" And suck in bed" LOL she said that too.

Posted by ninjamu
If there is that much history then I would have to be wary of her. I'd say give it another chance, if that appeals to you, but I would keep firmer boundaries until trust was gained. Tell her exactly how you feel about it and how hurt you were. Inform her it might take time. If she's truly remorseful and serious about re-connecting then she will understand.

I have had people do that did that to me after years of friendship. I have reconnected with a couple of them but things will never be the same. That's life though. You change a lot in 10 years.

thank you.

Of course he was a Pisces...ughh

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
What horoscope sign is her ex husband? That is gross that he was banging her cousin, yuck.

Any of you ladies ever did something like this?

Cut off a friend because a significant other lied about them? no.

he is a pisces.

Do you happen to have his dob? As for your situation, I haven't been in it on the Aries woman side... but that Aries who posted by iheartnerdyboyz is spot on. If you are this Aries woman true friend... you would step back from your own emotions and put yourself in her shoes. Her husband lied to her about you saying he was fucking you... this put her in a state of confusion and shock. She had to make a decision fast and when it comes down to it, the Aries woman will do everything to save the marriage and put anything she thinks is going to break it out. You have a right to your emotions and she apologized. It is your choice on whether you forgive... if you do forgive, you are a strong person.

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I don't know his dob. I just know its the last week of February. I remember that because she had a bday party for him. I agree with iheartnerdboyz too. I can move on from this. especially now i know where she is coming from. having lunch with her everyday since i saw her had helped too. 🙂 it will take some time but i know we can become closer. and she said she should have known better, he is not my type.

and coming on to a friends man is wrong. of course. But I'm not into sharing no body fluids with a man that my friend shares body fluids with. 😛 that just gross to me. she know that too.

Posted by bkbella86
Of course he was a Pisces...ughh

😢 yea they are something else

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
What horoscope sign is her ex husband? That is gross that he was banging her cousin, yuck.

Any of you ladies ever did something like this?

Cut off a friend because a significant other lied about them? no.

he is a pisces.

Do you happen to have his dob? As for your situation, I haven't been in it on the Aries woman side... but that Aries who posted by iheartnerdyboyz is spot on. If you are this Aries woman true friend... you would step back from your own emotions and put yourself in her shoes. Her husband lied to her about you saying he was fucking you... this put her in a state of confusion and shock. She had to make a decision fast and when it comes down to it, the Aries woman will do everything to save the marriage and put anything she thinks is going to break it out. You have a right to your emotions and she apologized. It is your choice on whether you forgive... if you do forgive, you are a strong person.

I don't know his dob. I just know its the last week of February. I remember that because she had a bday party for him. I agree with iheartnerdboyz too. I can move on from this. especially now i know where she is coming from. having lunch with her everyday since i saw her had helped too. 🙂 it will take some time but i know we can become closer. and she said she should have known better, he is not my type.

It sounds like you both had a good friendship before this. If you walk through this obstacle with her, the bonds with your friendship will strengthen. Good luck and I wish you both well.

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thanks 😄