lAries - blind—

I know that looks aren't everything, so please don't anyone flame me. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

Ok so I am looking for my "the two" (can't have "the one") apparently we get several - this is still a bit of a gray area for me.
Admittedly I am getting older, so the guys in my appropriate age bracket are getting on - that's ok, I don't look 18 anymore either.

I am having trouble sourcing cute/hot/handsome/whatever looking guys. my "the one" wasn't a Brad Pitt lookalike but to me he was the hottest creature that ever walked the earth.

Is it possible we have Aries blinders that tell our brains "that's my guy/gal, he/she is the only one"?? (which would be some sort of clever anti-screwing around device we have installed so we don't behave like Geminis)(not that we need it - loyal creatures we are.)

Or is it the world telling me to be a bit more patient, "the one" really is "the one" so chillax and let it happen.

Does anyone get my drift, or am I just having a day out on Planet Weird today??

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
I know that looks aren't everything, so please don't anyone flame me. Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder.

Ok so I am looking for my "the two" (can't have "the one") apparently we get several - this is still a bit of a gray area for me.
Admittedly I am getting older, so the guys in my appropriate age bracket are getting on - that's ok, I don't look 18 anymore either.

I am having trouble sourcing cute/hot/handsome/whatever looking guys. my "the one" wasn't a Brad Pitt lookalike but to me he was the hottest creature that ever walked the earth.

Is it possible we have Aries blinders that tell our brains "that's my guy/gal, he/she is the only one"?? (which would be some sort of clever anti-screwing around device we have installed so we don't behave like Geminis)(not that we need it - loyal creatures we are.)

Or is it the world telling me to be a bit more patient, "the one" really is "the one" so chillax and let it happen.

Does anyone get my drift, or am I just having a day out on Planet Weird today??

The hottest guy that I ever saw was a complete ass hole who took advantage of me.

The man I'm in love with was "alright" when I met him, I even suppressed feelings for him because of this shallow want for a gorgeous man.

Now all other guys just pale in comparison to him completely, and I can't imagine thinking a guy looks better (even though I know all my friends/family disagree). The only reason why I wish he looked better to OTHER people is because then he'd have the same confidence with them as he has with me, and he could get more out of life.

Physical attraction is a weird thing to me, but just wait for the right guy. It'll happen if your patient.

RNAP ... I remember when I met the guy I like now ... I wasnt attracted to him because he was the blonde sort of handsome, and I was attracted more towards dark looks (girls are always chasing him, but back then I found him normal, since I never fancied blonde guys) ... but when i started to like him, he started to become more and more handsome in my eyes, and I started to see why the other girls are chasing him, but you are right, when I found myself liking this guy, he became the most handome guy on earth and if a gorgeous guy pass by he would never strike my fantasy ... i think it is about the feelings ... for me feelings are the main reason to fantasy someone ... I wont go fooling around with someone based on their physical appearence ... emotions have to be involved :p

you can yoink my anytime babe🙂