LaReina23
@LaReina23
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Needing to reconcile with my ram
Yeah, gotta agree with Miha...the promotion is a big deal and you send a message just saying "you couldn't make it"? Not good. If it was such a big deal, a phone call explaning and apologizing for the unforeseen problem would have been the way to handle the situation. You made him feel unimportant with that message and you hurt his feelings - that's why he backed off. He's hurt and pissed. If he's checking your status on FB than he's not totally checked out, but he's waiting for you to contact him - and not via text, pick up the phone and call!!
I'm an aries female who was married to a leo male for 11 years - operative word is "WAS"...egos too big, we didn't learn how to compromise with putting the other one first at times. Us aries are selfish but we give what we get 10 fold.
Reach out to him - show him you care and you'll get it in return - just keep it honest.
I'm an aries female who was married to a leo male for 11 years - operative word is "WAS"...egos too big, we didn't learn how to compromise with putting the other one first at times. Us aries are selfish but we give what we get 10 fold.
Reach out to him - show him you care and you'll get it in return - just keep it honest.
wow are you socially retarded? who sends a text message nowadays with "sorry i couldn't make it" i would be so pissed off that id drive to your house and punch you and then go back, reading this made me really pissed off and since its an important event im sure he was even more pissed off, why didnt you call—
Hey look, another Leo chick who half assed her side of things and is BAFFLED as to why she's run off another man...
Here's the solution to all your problems - quit being inconsiderate and doing inconsiderate things to others. Maybe, just maybe, you'll stop scaring guys off. The indifferent half assed approach would turn anyone off.
I don't blame him for ignoring you. I would to. What a bitchy, inappropriate thing to do for the situation. Texting? Wtf people? There's a fricken time and a place for texting.
You do NOT say goodbye via text (another Leo female here did this).
You do NOT say you cannot make it when the situation deserves more of an explanation than that. It makes you look like you don't give a fuck. Which you don't. You're just upset he's not chasing you anymore. It's now just a challenge to conquer, isn't it?
Here's the solution to all your problems - quit being inconsiderate and doing inconsiderate things to others. Maybe, just maybe, you'll stop scaring guys off. The indifferent half assed approach would turn anyone off.
I don't blame him for ignoring you. I would to. What a bitchy, inappropriate thing to do for the situation. Texting? Wtf people? There's a fricken time and a place for texting.
You do NOT say goodbye via text (another Leo female here did this).
You do NOT say you cannot make it when the situation deserves more of an explanation than that. It makes you look like you don't give a fuck. Which you don't. You're just upset he's not chasing you anymore. It's now just a challenge to conquer, isn't it?
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Also, sorry if I came off a bit harsh. It just baffles me that Leo chicks behave in such a way that turns people away and then they just DON'T get it. :/
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Hey look, another Leo chick who half assed her side of things and is BAFFLED as to why she's run off another man...
Here's the solution to all your problems - quit being inconsiderate and doing inconsiderate things to others. Maybe, just maybe, you'll stop scaring guys off. The indifferent half assed approach would turn anyone off.
I don't blame him for ignoring you. I would to. What a bitchy, inappropriate thing to do for the situation. Texting? Wtf people? There's a fricken time and a place for texting.
You do NOT say goodbye via text (another Leo female here did this).
You do NOT say you cannot make it when the situation deserves more of an explanation than that. It makes you look like you don't give a fuck. Which you don't. You're just upset he's not chasing you anymore. It's now just a challenge to conquer, isn't it?
+4
Posted by rachelsnow12
I too agree. My best friend is Aries, and he is very sensitive when it comes to flaking or putting other people first (though he will never tell you). I made the mistake of doing that once, and I called to apologize, I sent him a text and I told him in person. He was distant for a few weeks. It's been a month, and we are finally back to normal. I had to earn his trust back, not just with words, but with my actions.
Bingo!!!
He is still watching, and waiting. We Aries types can be incredibly forgiving, but we need to have trust first. And as rachel says, your actions will speak much louder than words. Be honest, be sincere, and just a little bit patient.
I third agree with Rachel! Actions speak louder than words. At least have the courtsey to explain the reason why you could not make it. Aries are pretty understanding and forgiving and will see your POV. Then let him decide where or what to do from there.
Good luck!
Good luck!
Sorry folks, had school this week. I am transferring my cell phone over to a new provider because of my work so I could not call. He was aware of the phone issue before the fact, so that rules out me being an insensitive social retard. Also, I did explain to him what happened and he knew that I wouldn't miss his promotion except for an extenuating circumstance such as my car careening off of an overpass. Getting in a cab and going from my house to the promotion would have cost me $ 130 one way. That unfortunately is $ 260 dollars a starting business owner and a full time college student does not have. I should have expounded but I know how I feel when I have to read a bunch of useless details in a lot of these boards. So got anymore questions?
You text him that your car careened off an overpass and he didn't contact you after that? Good to know you??re ok. That's kind of scary.
Sooo have you had any contact or spoken to him since that incident?
Sooo have you had any contact or spoken to him since that incident?
Hi there Love,
My car was shaking on the overpass it didn't flip over. I was just joking around in spite of it. He and I talked about what happened and he apologized. I like the guy a lot and for me, I usually don't believe in doing half measures for people I care about, and normally I would call if something happened unfortunately I picked a great time to switch over my phones. We are good now, just a bit distant with all the work and school things going on. I really should have gone in more detail but I know that I go into the tl;dr category when I see like two or three boxes of text. I'm tickled that I got the flaming got. lol
My car was shaking on the overpass it didn't flip over. I was just joking around in spite of it. He and I talked about what happened and he apologized. I like the guy a lot and for me, I usually don't believe in doing half measures for people I care about, and normally I would call if something happened unfortunately I picked a great time to switch over my phones. We are good now, just a bit distant with all the work and school things going on. I really should have gone in more detail but I know that I go into the tl;dr category when I see like two or three boxes of text. I'm tickled that I got the flaming got. lol
By the by, read all of those other boards with the Leo ladies dropping out of existence with messaging/ chasing after married dudes/ making out or fucking their best friends, ect. and I don't relate. I see why there is such animosity. lol
Where did you read that?
It's further back in the Aries forums. Almost each and every one of us Leo girls were coming in with some off the wall stuff and wondering why people were high tailing it. I'm a bit of an odd one (July 23) and enough water in the chart to drown a shark. lol
Oh! well I think any woman of any sign is capable of that.
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