Oh..what am I going to do with this Aries

Well I posted on this awhile back about this Aries man. Long story short, He's moving away to another country in September for a year and I knew this from the start so we knew it wasn't going anywhere serious.

We ended up dating for 4 months and we really liked each other. Things were getting serious like a relationship. I think he freaked out. He ended it as his reasons were that there was no spark and that he wasn't ready for anything serious. I understand where he was coming from so I left it as that, but I knew the spark was never gone.

2 months later, we both started talking again. I asked him why now. He said he missed me and that he was wrong about the whole thing but he's still moving away so there's no point making this serious. I was happy enough for him to admit that he cared and that he missed me.

I'm not pushed for a relationship. We both said if he wasn't moving, this would be something. Anyhow in that 2 months period we weren't talking. I moved on but I never stopped thinking about him.

So when we met in person after not seeing each other for awhile.. well you know what happened there.

Long story short again. We are back texting and spending time with each other until he goes.

He told me that he never moved on and I believe him because he's so honest and up front and fair with everything. The past few weeks have been amazing. I really do love him as a person and I want us to stay in touch.

I guess what I'm asking from you guys is that. How to keep this going in the nicest way without forcing him or me to commit. I know he's moving away but I don't want to be someone that he used to know in the future. I still very much like to have him my life even if we talked just once a month.

The time I spent with have been amazing and he's truly the closest thing to Love.

I don't want to say I love him in that sense but I do love him as person.

I don't know what to say.

That is the thing with Aries men I think. They come and go, they came and go until they are gone for good or they stay forever (or nearly).

I don't think we can force it. The more attach you become the faster they run. You just have to love them and let them be until it comes impossible for them to be without you. They don't like to commit or feeling that they are loosing their freedom.

My first boyfriend was an Aries and I don't know how many times he broke my heart in the beginning. Then one day I had enough and he realized that I was the only one for him.

It shucks! But if you really think whatever you have means something, it is worth it.

Posted by LibraJackson
Well I posted on this awhile back about this Aries man. Long story short, He's moving away to another country in September for a year and I knew this from the start so we knew it wasn't going anywhere serious.

We ended up dating for 4 months and we really liked each other. Things were getting serious like a relationship. I think he freaked out. He ended it as his reasons were that there was no spark and that he wasn't ready for anything serious. I understand where he was coming from so I left it as that, but I knew the spark was never gone.

2 months later, we both started talking again. I asked him why now. He said he missed me and that he was wrong about the whole thing but he's still moving away so there's no point making this serious. I was happy enough for him to admit that he cared and that he missed me.

I'm not pushed for a relationship. We both said if he wasn't moving, this would be something. Anyhow in that 2 months period we weren't talking. I moved on but I never stopped thinking about him.

So when we met in person after not seeing each other for awhile.. well you know what happened there.

Long story short again. We are back texting and spending time with each other until he goes.

He told me that he never moved on and I believe him because he's so honest and up front and fair with everything. The past few weeks have been amazing. I really do love him as a person and I want us to stay in touch.

I guess what I'm asking from you guys is that. How to keep this going in the nicest way without forcing him or me to commit. I know he's moving away but I don't want to be someone that he used to know in the future. I still very much like to have him my life even if we talked just once a month.

The time I spent with have been amazing and he's truly the closest thing to Love.

I don't want to say I love him in that sense but I do love him as person.

I don't know what to say.

You said "without making him or you commit" why this pressure? Aries do NOT like pressure. Be light, be easy going, but strong and keep standards. Remember they are in a way the kids of the zodiac. An Aries man want s a friend before a gf/lover/wife.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by LibraJackson
Well I posted on this awhile back about this Aries man. Long story short, He's moving away to another country in September for a year and I knew this from the start so we knew it wasn't going anywhere serious.

We ended up dating for 4 months and we really liked each other. Things were getting serious like a relationship. I think he freaked out. He ended it as his reasons were that there was no spark and that he wasn't ready for anything serious. I understand where he was coming from so I left it as that, but I knew the spark was never gone.

2 months later, we both started talking again. I asked him why now. He said he missed me and that he was wrong about the whole thing but he's still moving away so there's no point making this serious. I was happy enough for him to admit that he cared and that he missed me.

I'm not pushed for a relationship. We both said if he wasn't moving, this would be something. Anyhow in that 2 months period we weren't talking. I moved on but I never stopped thinking about him.

So when we met in person after not seeing each other for awhile.. well you know what happened there.

Long story short again. We are back texting and spending time with each other until he goes.

He told me that he never moved on and I believe him because he's so honest and up front and fair with everything. The past few weeks have been amazing. I really do love him as a person and I want us to stay in touch.

I guess what I'm asking from you guys is that. How to keep this going in the nicest way without forcing him or me to commit. I know he's moving away but I don't want to be someone that he used to know in the future. I still very much like to have him my life even if we talked just once a month.

The time I spent with have been amazing and he's truly the closest thing to Love.

I don't want to say I love him in that sense but I do love him as person.

I don't know what to say.

You said "without making him or you commit" why this pressure? Aries do NOT like pressure. Be light, be easy going, but strong and keep standards. Remember they are in a way the kids of the zodiac. An Aries man want s a friend before a gf/lover/wife.

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Humm..you are really getting the hang of this Aries Man thing hehe

If i see we can't be freinds...someone that i can't share all my *stupidity*...no deal.. 🙂

The more *stupid* i can be with you...the better hehe

Make me laugh..let me make *you* laugh..and then we can start thinking about something else...it will happen naturaly.

After that, if i see you really are that of a woman...that's it 🙂

OP, you have better odds of keeping this guy, even when he is away..if you just keep being good freinds for now.

Eventualy he will think..."wait...i got this woman that i have tons of fun with...good talks....why in hell am i searching for something else...why am i not making her only mine..."

Do not talk about rships or clingy stuf...this will *doom* you 😉

Posted by pisceswoman123
That is the thing with Aries men I think. They come and go, they came and go until they are gone for good or they stay forever (or nearly).

I don't think we can force it. The more attach you become the faster they run. You just have to love them and let them be until it comes impossible for them to be without you. They don't like to commit or feeling that they are loosing their freedom.

My first boyfriend was an Aries and I don't know how many times he broke my heart in the beginning. Then one day I had enough and he realized that I was the only one for him.

It shucks! But if you really think whatever you have means something, it is worth it.

Yeah I think there's something there for sure. I will let him go. I think I'm getting better dealing with him but It's hard sometimes. Thank you for getting back to me. It was really helpful.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by LibraJackson
Well I posted on this awhile back about this Aries man. Long story short, He's moving away to another country in September for a year and I knew this from the start so we knew it wasn't going anywhere serious.

We ended up dating for 4 months and we really liked each other. Things were getting serious like a relationship. I think he freaked out. He ended it as his reasons were that there was no spark and that he wasn't ready for anything serious. I understand where he was coming from so I left it as that, but I knew the spark was never gone.

2 months later, we both started talking again. I asked him why now. He said he missed me and that he was wrong about the whole thing but he's still moving away so there's no point making this serious. I was happy enough for him to admit that he cared and that he missed me.

I'm not pushed for a relationship. We both said if he wasn't moving, this would be something. Anyhow in that 2 months period we weren't talking. I moved on but I never stopped thinking about him.

So when we met in person after not seeing each other for awhile.. well you know what happened there.

Long story short again. We are back texting and spending time with each other until he goes.

He told me that he never moved on and I believe him because he's so honest and up front and fair with everything. The past few weeks have been amazing. I really do love him as a person and I want us to stay in touch.

I guess what I'm asking from you guys is that. How to keep this going in the nicest way without forcing him or me to commit. I know he's moving away but I don't want to be someone that he used to know in the future. I still very much like to have him my life even if we talked just once a month.

The time I spent with have been amazing and he's truly the closest thing to Love.

I don't want to say I love him in that sense but I do love him as person.

I don't know what to say.

You said "without making him or you commit" why this pressure? Aries do NOT like pressure. Be light, be easy going, but strong and keep standards. Remember they are in a way the kids of the zodiac. An Aries man want s a friend before a gf/lover/wife.

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Yeah I'm getting used to him and his ways of thinking. Sometime he surprises with the sweetest but I just have to remember that it's more in the moment with him that long term.

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

Posted by LibraJackson
Well I posted on this awhile back about this Aries man. Long story short, He's moving away to another country in September for a year and I knew this from the start so we knew it wasn't going anywhere serious.

We ended up dating for 4 months and we really liked each other. Things were getting serious like a relationship. I think he freaked out. He ended it as his reasons were that there was no spark and that he wasn't ready for anything serious. I understand where he was coming from so I left it as that, but I knew the spark was never gone.

2 months later, we both started talking again. I asked him why now. He said he missed me and that he was wrong about the whole thing but he's still moving away so there's no point making this serious. I was happy enough for him to admit that he cared and that he missed me.

I'm not pushed for a relationship. We both said if he wasn't moving, this would be something. Anyhow in that 2 months period we weren't talking. I moved on but I never stopped thinking about him.

So when we met in person after not seeing each other for awhile.. well you know what happened there.

Long story short again. We are back texting and spending time with each other until he goes.

He told me that he never moved on and I believe him because he's so honest and up front and fair with everything. The past few weeks have been amazing. I really do love him as a person and I want us to stay in touch.

I guess what I'm asking from you guys is that. How to keep this going in the nicest way without forcing him or me to commit. I know he's moving away but I don't want to be someone that he used to know in the future. I still very much like to have him my life even if we talked just once a month.

The time I spent with have been amazing and he's truly the closest thing to Love.

I don't want to say I love him in that sense but I do love him as person.

I don't know what to say.

You said "without making him or you commit" why this pressure? Aries do NOT like pressure. Be light, be easy going, but strong and keep standards. Remember they are in a way the kids of the zodiac. An Aries man want s a friend before a gf/lover/wife.

Humm..you are really getting the hang of this Aries Man thing hehe

If i see we can't be freinds...someone that i can't share all my *stupidity*...no deal.. 🙂

The more *stupid* i can be with you...the better hehe

Make me laugh..let me make *you* laugh..and then we can start thinking about something else...it will happen naturaly.

After that, if i see you really are that of a woman...that's it 🙂

OP, you have better odds of keeping this guy, even when he is away..if you just keep being good freinds for now.

Eventualy he will think..."wait...i got this woman that i have tons of fun with...good talks....why in hell am i searching for something else...why am i not making her only mine..."

Do not talk about rships or clingy stuf...this will *doom* you 😉

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Yeah totally agreed with every words you said there. I have been having so much fun with him so I'm going to take it as it is and just roll with it.