Aries man gone silent but still FB friend—

So I've been online friends with Aries male for about 3 years now. We have a mutual friend. Aries and I communicated often over the years solely thru social media and phone calls (we live in two different states). 3 years back we both were going thru a divorce at the same time and connected at that level. Also we think a lot alike! Aries has usually sent gifts in the mail and always invited me on trips with him but I've never really gave into anything because I never thought anything serious could ever come from someone I've meet via FB. However, fast forward to early February this year he messaged me that he was going to be in CA for V day and really wanted to see me. Given that he was going to be close and my sister encouraged me to give him a chance so I went to visit him. He was about a hour away from me and we meet for dinner (the connection and conversation was amazing!!). I never felt so comfortable around someone in my life after a first encounter. Also during our meet up I ended up getting two flat tires (my luck) but he was so calm and convinced me to park my car and go with him to a pool hall. At the pool I bet him in a few rounds of pool and the chemistry between us intensified! One thing led to the next we ended leaving the pool hall and going back to his hotel since it was closer and around 4am in the morning. We made love for two days straight. It's was mesmerizing. We about a week later we both acknowledge that the experience was unlike anything either of us have ever felt and he asked me to be exclusive. More time passed and I found out I was pregnant with twins. Hell we both didn't expect it!

Now he's the dilemma, we talked multiple times about us and moving together. the plan was for me to move with him after I complete my maternity leave which is a big deal for me to even consider given that I'm an Aquarius and we hate depending on others and the feeling like we're losing our independence. the problem is that he's been hiding our relationship from his family and friends. Also he has more than 5 thousand friends on FB which are mainly woman that I can see when his flirting over the pictures. I told him I would rather not move out of state and where I'll have support and be a single parent if he continues to flirt with other woman and not acknowledge our relationship. He tried to justify his behavior as saying it's just his entertainment, I'm hormonal, and what goes on in his personal life is no one else business! So I was like fine u can continue feeling that way but that not the type of behavior I tolerate with during a relationship so I'll be happy to co-parent. Last thing he sent was we can co-parent and we'll talk tomorrow. That was a week ago. He hasn't called and won't talk to me. But we're still FB friends and I see that's he's still active and flirting with Other woman. I have no idea how to approach him at this point

Posted by d0s3r
i don't think an aries would have the patience to read through it all

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Posted by Mike79

Posted by d0s3r
i don't think an aries would have the patience to read through it all

True

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Makes sense, i suppose... ?

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Read through what? My post?

It's not reasonable behavior! But no matter what we're gonna have to talk at some point and his behavior isn't helping getting through this

Posted by d0s3r
i don't think an aries would have the patience to read through it all

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yea, I need a summary of this

OP, you stepped in it with this guy. He probably had the most amazing, mesmerizing experience ever in his life with about 500 of his FB friends.

I've sent a message stating we still need to talk about the children and he's still ignoring me.

At this point I for sure don't want to be with him but it hurts so much knowing that my children won't have a father they need.

Thanks for your advice!

Bricks195 it turned out that you were so correct about him! When I posted our sonogram I had multiple women letting me know about him. Even one woman that is in an open marriage told me that they have been involved 11 years. He's gone through two marriages in 11 years.

He only communicated to be regarding the women but still won't talk about the children that I'm pregnant with. I'm devastated at all the lies he told me, him denying we were exclusive and no communication about our children.