So I'm a Libra.
10 10 1993 born at Ratchaburi / Thailand at 17.32 pm.
I looked at my birth chart but some gave me different results so I'm quite confused as to what is my moon, sun and etc.. I think it's because of the unusual location.

Anyhow. I've been going through a weird time in my life since I broke up with my longest relationship.
I went out with another Libra for almost 3 years. It was both serious for both of us. We were in love. I trust him like a brother and I had the best laughs with him as best friends and at the time I didn't appreciate him at all. I didn't know how good I had it until I don't have it.

To keep this short, I broke up with him because I selfishly wanted to be single and he was heartbroken. I was cruel because he had to move out of our place and so on and If I could go back I would smack myself so hard. I was so so stupid.

I jumped into a new relationship after I broke up with him and that relationship was fun but it was like a car crash. Too fast and too soon. Throughout my time in the second relationship, I missed him so I stayed in touch with my Libra love. I realized he grew up as a person and he didn't need me. I became irrelevant to his time and I don't blame him for this at all.

It's been 3 years since I broke up with him. We didn't talk much since and I had few flings now and then. Every time I'm seeing someone I would always compare back to him. He was the best to me and I messed it up. I never felt any love like his. He also moved on and had another relationship too but it didn't last for him either but I don't know why it didn't last. I doubt it's anything to do with me.

I told him how I truly feel a few times but whatever way I said it or the time I said. It just hasn't been working out. I treated him so bad I understand he'd moved on to better things.

I just feel like I will never be loved like the way he loved me. I suffered from fail relationships for years and I know it's Karma and I've accepted that. But I just miss the love I had with him. I miss him. I still love him. I would do anything to get that relationship back. I would have dreams about us now till to this date.

Recently we started talking again, I said sorry to him for being a such a creep in the past and not respecting his relationship or his needs when I confessed my feelings to him. My friends used to be close to his friends so I told him that I miss us all hanging out together and that I don't want to pretend that I don't know him and that we are strangers. He's talking to me and messaging me but it's nothing out of ordinary.

I want him back so bad. I want what I once had and I won't messed it up this time. He's the one that got away for sure for me. How can I make this work?

What do I need to do?
Posted by LibraLovesHim
If after one year of dating Aries hasn't told you he loves you...doesn't look great really.


Yeah here I am thinking he was in love with me but he wasn't. It felt like he was you know. ahh lesson learned anyway.
Posted by ariesdames
The difference between women and men is men use their logic, and women use their feeling. When something got emotional then the women will be the one who over-analyse anything, and like to owned the men. So now you have a feeling for him, and you have confessed it, and he said he only likes you.

Now what you do to him is back off, stop contact him, if he chats you, you can answer but don’t read it within an hour, don’t beg him, because we do not like clingy person, we like someone who has a strong character. Let him find out what he really wants, does he wants you or not.

He needs time and space, if he returns to you then it means you are meant to be, if not then let it go.

Yeah I never said I love you to anyone really so I'm heart broken from it but I did what you said there. I just left him be and let him go. So weird, after I posted this he messages me.
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Posted by LibraJackson
All for nothing I supposed.

A couple months I was posting on this regularly asking for advice and feedback for the relationship I had with an Aries man.


We spent almost a year together it's just a bit cruel.



What did I tell you? When I told you forget about him, people called me heartless and ill-informed. Turns out I was right.
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I was just looking back at some of my posts and had a laugh at myself seeing your comment months ago.Speaking of the devil, he still messages me non stop but I had to leave it now. I like him too much. He hurt me once he can hurt me again you know. Just wish it didn't turn out like this.
All for nothing I supposed.

A couple months I was posting on this regularly asking for advice and feedback for the relationship I had with an Aries man.

To keep this simple short, we started dating both wanted nothing serious. As I just got out of a relationship and in September, he's moving away to New York. Things got a little complicated, we both liked each other and spent more time with each other. Things got emotional when he left and yet he kept in touch. It was like a long distance relationship but without the title.

Anyway, it all went down from when he forgot my birthday in October. I got upset because I went overboard on his birthday. The least he could say is Happy Birthday and it was just little small awkward fights after that.
I went on a holiday a month ago and had too many glasses of red wine, confessed my love to him.

he response was 'I like you but I'm not in love with you', I laughed it off knowing that he was simply so blunt about it but it broke me. Anyway, I went back on my words and said I love him as a person not in love with him and gave him the option to stop talking to me because I felt like things were too overwhelming.

Few days passed by. He texted me during my holidays and ended things with us. Nevermind that but months ago I booked a flight to visit him in December. Oh boy, he didn't seem to care and ready to toss that away. He felt bad that I had to look for accommodation and that my friend will join me for the holidays instead of me spending time with him.

Throughout all of this, I didn't blame him for the way my trip has changed. He still wants to see me and offered my friend and I help if we needed when we are in NY.

I just want to punch him in the tit!
I find him so attractive but I feel like it's a one-way street.
I've been talking to him for almost a month and he still sends me snaps and messages.

He said I deserve the best and that this is not the time for us. I'm heartbroken but I know it's not because he's over there and I'm here. But part of me wished he cared.

We spent almost a year together it's just a bit cruel.

I have a Gemini Ex who I went out with for 6 months last year, He broke up with me back in December last year. We still talk every day and we've been going through the toxic loop. I wanted to make things work. I laid everything out on the table and he always says he doesn't know what he wants but he can't stop talking or texting me so we decided to be friends but we were always more than just friends because we still have sex and sex is fantastic with him. At this point, I just want him to cop on because he doesn't want to move on and yet he doesn't want to make things better for us. I this morning I decided to leave him altogether.

On the other hand, since I wasn't in a relationship. This year technically speaking, I've started off as being single. Went on few dates and came across one guy. He's Aries. At the start, we were both just looking for casual dating as he's moving away to NY for a year. Long story short, I fell for him hard. But he's such a challenge. He also has this effect on me where I overthink everything when it comes to him because I like him so much. When he moved to NY last month, I was prepared to be single again even though I was super devasted. He ended up texting me every day and rining me. We got into a bad fight 2 weeks ago because he forgot my birthday and I made a deal about it but he knew it was more than that. I bottled things up with him because I wanted him to be happy. so we laid it all out and he got super mad at me for not telling him how I feel about him. Anyway, he knows I love him. but we never defined the relationship. I'm visiting him in 5 weeks and I can't wait but I don't think he's interested anymore. He's texting me less. I've confronted him before and he said he's stress because he's still looking for a job and get settled in etc..

I think the problem is me. I once had this perfect relationship with a Libra man 5 years ago and let me tell you I was stupid and I didn't treat him right. since then every relationship I've been in I always compared to the one I had with him. He would do anything for me.

I regret it everyday thinking back and wishing I could go back and treat him right. I'm not in love with the Libra ex anymore. I just miss the idea of being loved and loving someone,

I'm so tired of not being able to open up and connect with people. please tell me I'm not the only one.
Any one who's been through this, please tell me there's hope.
I have a Gemini Ex who I went out with for 6 months last year, He broke up with me back in December last year. We still talk every day and we've been going through the toxic loop. I wanted to make things work. I laid everything out on the table and he always says he doesn't know what he wants but he can't stop talking or texting me so we decided to be friends but we were always more than just friends because we still have sex and sex is fantastic with him. At this point, I just want him to cop on because he doesn't want to move on and yet he doesn't want to make things better for us. I this morning I decided to leave him altogether.

On the other hand, since I wasn't in a relationship. This year technically speaking, I've started off as being single. Went on few dates and came across one guy. He's Aries. At the start, we were both just looking for casual dating as he's moving away to NY for a year. Long story short, I fell for him hard. But he's such a challenge. He also has this effect on me where I overthink everything when it comes to him because I like him so much. When he moved to NY last month, I was prepared to be single again even though I was super devasted. He ended up texting me every day and rining me. We got into a bad fight 2 weeks ago because he forgot my birthday and I made a deal about it but he knew it was more than that. I bottled things up with him because I wanted him to be happy. so we laid it all out and he got super mad at me for not telling him how I feel about him. Anyway, he knows I love him. but we never defined the relationship. I'm visiting him in 5 weeks and I can't wait but I don't think he's interested anymore. He's texting me less. I've confronted him before and he said he's stress because he's still looking for a job and get settled in etc..

I think the problem is me. I once had this perfect relationship with a Libra man 5 years ago and let me tell you I was stupid and I didn't treat him right. since then every relationship I've been in I always compared to the one I had with him. He would do anything for me.

I regret it everyday thinking back and wishing I could go back and treat him right. I'm not in love with the Libra ex anymore. I just miss the idea of being loved and loving someone,

I'm so tired of not being able to open up and connect with people. please tell me I'm not the only one.
Any one who's been through this, please tell me there's hope.
Posted by Sheever
Maybe he just got trouble with keeping dates in mind, and wasn't deliberate. He feels guilty and care about you hence trying. Trust me, if he doesn't care he don't try at all.
I am pretty sure he doesn't care about his own birthday either. Maybe just because I don't?
Sometimes i forget birthday 3times on the actual day while busy with something not because it's not important but it was in that moment needed to be sorted so the priority was responsibility over duties.


He doesn't care about his birthday at all. It's all sorted now, but I need to tell him how I feel from now on. He's so straight forward and blunt and I'm just not ha
Posted by Rozaeon
I don't mean to be rude but you're starting to get really annoying with this story
Grow up and take some time to think instead of panicking and posting here everytime something is bothering you


This is why of dealing with things. You are not being, you are entitled to your own opinions.
Like I'm entitled to vent here, I obviously like this site and I love getting feedbacks because I'm an overthinking for sure. I know I can be annoying, If it annoys you personally you don't need to read it just ignore it.

Posted by tctap
stop trying to figure out what to say - you owe it to yourself and him to tell him how you feel and that is that - put it out there because that is what it is - with no expectations of getting anything back

nothing he says will change how you feel so just put it out there - tell him everything and get it off your chest

put the egg in his basket

that will give him the opportunity to express himself - it doesn't sound like you have any idea how he really feels but I suspect he feels the same way although things have changed a bit - you don't talk to someone every day and have a good thing - that sort of thing doesn't happen often so hold on to what you can if you can

work it out Libra - you know the way - but you will need to be open and vulnerable and take tiny steps in the right direction and stop trying to hide to so call save him - he needs to "feel" as well

and you need to know where he stands

deep breaths and god speed





Yeah I'm going to talk to him. You're right. I'm just so afraid of getting hurt and now I'm hurting both of us. I'll definitely try to talk to him later about it.

So I think I messed this up. I'm such an overthinker, It pisses me sometimes.
Two days ago was my birthday, my Aries forgot about it and just didn't make much effort at all. He said sorry few times and I'm willing to get over it.

But it made my blood boils, I was so upset. He's in NY and he moved there last month. He's been texting me every day. We've been seeing each other before he moved away for almost a year. I'm going to visit him in December.

Anyway. He brings the best out of me. When I'm around him I want to be a better person. I know this sounds so cheesy but it's true. He's blunt and honest and I don't speak what's on my mind a lot. That's why I'm writing it down here lol

I got so mad and I told him I was mad and now he's mad because I said he never cared. Technically speaking we haven't labelled ourselves. Oh boy...like he's soooo mad that I kept it this long to tell him that when he first ended things in May it made me insecure about how he truly feels about me.

I don't know what to do. I just told him that things were so good. I didn't feel the need for him to reassure my feelings and a big ALSO. He was going away, I wanted to be there for him and be supportive not pouring my heart out and tell him I love him and that would just make things harder as well.

He's so mad that he said he'll talk to me tomorrow. So butter !! what am I going to say ???

Posted by Gemitati
Why to be paranoid if he is basically like a husband on the business trip...telling you all he does, pictures and stuff...
Even some husbands don't do that!


He's not my boyfriend. It's a bit grey between us but I am overthinking this hhaha
Posted by IamTheRam
It seems that this went as i expected...and that's a good thing

But tbh with you...lol..i don't really understand your *paranoia* about him not being *interested in you somehow* lol

Well i do fully understand your position and the situation...this will be a very hard thing for you if you want to follow it through...and it's not easy at all to be in your position...but it's alo what @LibraLovesHim said..."how old are both of you ?"

Because the thing with LDR is that it requires alot of maturity from both in order not to fall into Paranoia...

But let's get back to him and the not interested thing hehe ^^

Why is that you think that ?...

Wold you rather prefer having him reduce the number of messages, but instead say "I love you and i miss you so much ?"...lol....you know what i wold say to that ?...total bullbutter....lies...it's all about actions

If he increased the number of things he is *doing for you*...it's because he is thinking more about you....if he is thinking about you...it's because he either likes you or he hates you...but you are not indiferent...and on your specific case...he obviously Likes you ofc ^^

Let me give you an example on how i see all of this *things* about people expecting *big words* from other people ^^

Let's say you were with 4 guys in the last 10 years....to all of them you said "I Love you"...to 3 of them you even wrote poems and stuff like that ^^

And now imagine i was the 5th...and you wold also say that you loved *me* and also wrote the poems...lol...tell me...what makes me diferent from the others ?... after all, you did to them the same things you are *doing* to *me*...Why are you not with them if you Loved *them so much* ?..( i know life is complicated lol this is just an example)...Did you really Loved them at the end of the day ?...If so how come you already forgoten them and why ?...Why are you doing to me the same things you did to them?...Am i even Unique to you ?....etc, etc...

So...here is the most important question.....What the treetrunk is Love after all ?... ^^

Love lies on the perception of the individual itself....so expectations is the *real killer* sometimes...and since we are talking about Aries here.....Love is something Extremly Unique and diferent from everything else...Love does not follow Logic or Patterns...Love is the most illogical thing that us humans *have*...a good way to see if you are in Love is...if nothing makes sense at all haha xD (don't take this literally ofc hehe)

Look at his actions...he really likes you...don't push him with the *big words* and expressions thing lool...this things comes with time...try to chill...and hey, if you want to send him a message...just do it,..but understand that in your current situation he might not reply imediatly...it might take time because he is on a new place doing new things...but it doesn't mean at all that he doesn't like you...that is something that for sure it doesn't mean ^^

Take care and again....chill ! lol


Ohh how I miss your advice hahahaha if you were living near me I would buy your a beer !
Yeah I'm going to go witht the flow. I have been thinking that too like I know he cares because he's never the type to say much but he doesn't alot and his actions are obvious.
But as usual I get into this womenly bubble mode haha because I like him so much.

Thanks again and hey if you and @LibraLovesHim ever in Dublin, I'll be your tour guide !!

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Posted by LibraJackson
Heyy so for all of you who have been following my stories, Thank you!
Your feedback has helped me genuinely.

Long Story short, My Aries man is now living in NY. He messages me every day and it's mostly him telling me how he's settling in and what he's up to. I'm also visiting him in December for a week. So it's lovely really that he's keeping in touch more than I expected because we were going out, we were just dating for almost a year knowing he would move away so we both didn't commit.

I packed his bags and helped him look for a place to rent in NY when I'm living in Ireland. He's been so lovely and thankful for all I've done. BUT This is how I feel. I tell him I miss him. he said he missed me too.
he's texting me more than normal. He's sending me pictures and he's getting excited about me coming to visit him.

I love him, I really do but sometimes I feel like he's not interested somehow. I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city. Also if he likes me that much, why is it so hard for him to say I miss you too first sometimes or just end it altogether if he's not interested.

Or maybe I'm just moody and confused. What do you think?


The last part maybe correct lol, I have these too. But I would also find it a little difficult living "in limbo" I am very black and white, and this for me would be living in the grey area-but this is a recent thing for me since i reached 30's. How old are you both? Are you working/studying etc? Keep on with your life doing with your own thing and try not to focus on him too much-I know easier said than done...
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We are both in mid 20's yeah you're right. I feel like I need to let him go in away and do my own thing too. If it meant to be, he'll make it not so grey and white haha

I hope your trip in New work with the family went well, fill me in the news ?

I know it's easier to say what needs to be done.
You love him then you should tell him. It will help both of you.
He will think you're acting negatively when you actually need him the most.
Hi guys & girls
what was wrong with the website for almost 2 weeks ?
Heyy so for all of you who have been following my stories, Thank you!
Your feedback has helped me genuinely.

Long Story short, My Aries man is now living in NY. He messages me every day and it's mostly him telling me how he's settling in and what he's up to. I'm also visiting him in December for a week. So it's lovely really that he's keeping in touch more than I expected because we were going out, we were just dating for almost a year knowing he would move away so we both didn't commit.

I packed his bags and helped him look for a place to rent in NY when I'm living in Ireland. He's been so lovely and thankful for all I've done. BUT This is how I feel. I tell him I miss him. he said he missed me too.
he's texting me more than normal. He's sending me pictures and he's getting excited about me coming to visit him.

I love him, I really do but sometimes I feel like he's not interested somehow. I'm always paranoid that I'm bothering him and letting him live in the new city. Also if he likes me that much, why is it so hard for him to say I miss you too first sometimes or just end it altogether if he's not interested.

Or maybe I'm just moody and confused. What do you think?
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Posted by LibraJackson
Libra is probably the most romantic sign.
However are we faithful?
I never once committed and be loyal to one person before. Saying that of finding the one and I thought I had in the past. But there's always someone or something new distracting me.
Genuinely would give my all to someone when I care, I'm just a firm believer that you can look what's on the menu but not having feelings for it.

Tell me about your most faithful relationships.


I always thought this could be the case. I am loyal/faithful but I cheat on them with life. I was VERY flighty when I was younger and the next big adventure could take me away from any man. Now that I am older, more calm and settled its about wanting someone with me in the game now! Plus I am more focused than ever on nurturing a relationship. Which I never did think would happen.

I used to always question why do I get bored with everyone/everything?!?
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I'm glad to hear that it settles over time but yeah I wish mine can be your case too
Libra is probably the most romantic sign.
However are we faithful?
I never once committed and be loyal to one person before. Saying that of finding the one and I thought I had in the past. But there's always someone or something new distracting me.
Genuinely would give my all to someone when I care, I'm just a firm believer that you can look what's on the menu but not having feelings for it.

Tell me about your most faithful relationships.
For some of you who've followed my posts. Thank you!

He's jetting off in few days. Friday is supposed to be our last night together and now he has invited me to his parent's place on Monday night which is the night before he flys.

I've requested to be off work to drop him off at the airport as he requested plus I want to say a proper goodbye.

He's already planning my trip in December when I'm visiting him for a week.

So I've been thinking about saying I love you to him for awhile but some of you gave me really good feedback when I asked about this a month ago. I'm going to wait. Our actions have been speaking louder than words. I'm just going to tell him how I feel without saying I love you and wish him the best of luck with his new adventures.

Is it possible that he loves me too? I know it such a naive question. I'm a Libra and I'm an overthinker especially when I care about someone and I swear I care about him so much that I can see myself marrying the guy. Believe me, I haven't felt like this in a long time.

I weirdly don't want him to think that he can't-do anything while he's over there. I want him to experience his life and I would actually encourage him to do crazy things.

I just hope in a year's time we can pick up where we left off.

Anyway, All Aries out there. What do you think?