yeah I've heard so many stories like yours as well. I just wish it wasn't like this. You are right, but it's so hard when you're used to someone. How did you do it ?
Posted by Moonbutter
Why did you guys break up?


to be honest, I don't even know. We were fighting over nothing and it didn't feel the same I guess.
It wasn't a bad break up that's why we haven't stopped talking
Posted by Undine
He sounds like my Gem ex, except that we only talk once a week at salsa since I have unfriended him on FB.

I think they don't feel the attraction any longer (especially when the former romantic relationship was otherwise good, but ended). They like us and and the fact that we like them more.

Next thing I would expect to happen (in my relationship) is for him to get a new GF, and for her to ask him to stop talking to me.


He's so confusing and frustrating. I'm glad you cut ties, I wish I was like that.
He's gem and I'm a libra. We were seeing eacother since last year and it ended early this year.
Somehow we never ended. We are still seeing eacother, talking to eachother everyday.
Now and then we would meet up and do couple things. we've had many discussions about getting back together but it ended up with us being friends (more than friends) this has been going on over the year now.

We've tried stop talking to eachother and move on but both of us have no interested. He said he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me. He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want

In fairness, I haven't move on and I couldn't. He's still the love of my life. The chemistry might not be the same but he knows me so well and I'm so comfortable around him. But he's confusing as treetrunk and I don't know what to do to make us both happy.

So all geminis out there. help me please !

Thank you
He's gem and I'm a libra. We were seeing eacother since last year and it ended early this year.
Somehow we never ended. We are still seeing eacother, talking to eachother everyday.
Now and then we would meet up and do couple things. we've had many discussions about getting back together but it ended up with us being friends (more than friends) this has been going on over the year now.

We've tried stop talking to eachother and move on but both of us have no interested. He said he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me. He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want

In fairness, I haven't move on and I couldn't. He's still the love of my life. The chemistry might not be the same but he knows me so well and I'm so comfortable around him. But he's confusing as treetrunk and I don't know what to do to make us both happy.

So all geminis out there. help me please !

Thank you
He's gem and I'm a libra. We were seeing eacother since last year and it ended early this year.
Somehow we never ended. We are still seeing eacother, talking to eachother everyday.
Now and then we would meet up and do couple things. we've had many discussions about getting back together but it ended up with us being friends (more than friends) this has been going on over the year now.

We've tried stop talking to eachother and move on but both of us have no interested. He said he doesn't want to be with anyone else and yet he won't commit to a relationship with me. He said I deserve better and that he can't be the boyfriend he once was. He gets jealous and annoyed if he sees me with someone else or if I was talking to another guy but when I confronted him about it. He said I could do whatever I want

In fairness, I haven't move on and I couldn't. He's still the love of my life. The chemistry might not be the same but he knows me so well and I'm so comfortable around him. But he's confusing as treetrunk and I don't know what to do to make us both happy.

So all geminis out there. help me please !

Thank you
Posted by blackphase
Well there is definitely a strong chemistry between the two.. One I have never experienced with another sign. However I have also never experienced so much drama and bullbutter with any other sign like I have a Libra. The good is amazing and the bad is shattering. This paring encompasses both extremes from my personal experience. The Libra is the one I am praying that I can move on and recover from, but at the same time I know without a doubt he will never be far from my mind, so it has me between a rock and a hard place.


I'm in the same situation, I totally get you. We both decided to take a break I think there was just too much of everything. We had so much passion and love for each other.

The break really helped me to understand him I think. He's a Gemini so I'm sure he's happy with the space
Somehow we can never stopped talking to each other.

I hope it works out for you too, I hope it will result happiness for you.
Make him feel wanted. As a Libra woman we like it when we feel loved.
I also went out with a Libra man had the best relationship with him for 3 years.

He was confusing at the start, but I made enough effort for him to know I liked him.

I would suggest you should do the same and ask more questions, be interested in his life
I'm a Libra and I usually would be the one who would take forever to open up. I don't want to get hurt or come across as too clingy most of the times but sometimes it's nice to just to get to know people first.

Recently I've been told my an Aries man that I became friends through our mutual friends a year ago that I was too much stressful for him. He knew I liked him and he liked me but the games of waiting was too much for him.

I guess you would know if the person is worth your time and trust me we became great friends. I'm still attracted to him but he only sees me as a friend now.

So if it was me. I would just go for it and be honest of how you feel
I've had few serious relationships with Libra, Sag, Gemini and Aries.

I feel like sexually Gemini is a win win !
Aries the waiting game is just a perfect tease
Sag It was fun, lost of funny memories but not lasting
Libra I felt loved and safe

sooo at the moment I've only gone out with one Gemini and I feel like we clicked so much
but sometimes we debate like cats & dogs


What do you think ?
I've had few serious relationships with Libra, Sag, Gemini and Aries.

I feel like sexually Gemini is a win win !
Aries the waiting game is just a perfect tease
Sag It was fun, lost of funny memories but not lasting
Libra I felt loved and safe

sooo at the moment I've only gone out with one Gemini and I feel like we clicked so much
but sometimes we debate like cats & dogs


What do you think ?
I've had few serious relationships with Libra, Sag, Gemini and Aries.

I feel like sexually Gemini is a win win !
Aries the waiting game is just a perfect tease
Sag It was fun, lost of funny memories but not lasting
Libra I felt loved and safe

sooo at the moment I've only gone out with one Gemini and I feel like we clicked so much
but sometimes we debate like cats & dogs


What do you think ?
My mom and dad have been married for 30 years
He's Taurus and She's a Pisces .. They seem really happy to me.

she may be too sensitive at times and my dad can come across as a couch potato.

But all good otherwise
Posted by jane84
That's a lot going on OP. Just let him be. He needs to focus on what is going on in his current life. He will be friendly and back to himself later, you have to realize it's not about you at this point.


I think I will do as you said as well. Thank you for your help
Posted by Deedee86
The one thing that I learned from my Libra is to give him space when he is having a rough time. He prefers to do it alone. For some reason, they feel that leaning on someone is equivalent to burdening them and they hate to be a burden.

Just wait a week or two and send a friendly "hello".


I think I will do that, Thanks for your help
Posted by blackphase
Seriously? He was just dumped and his granddad is sick.. Really inappropriate time to ask if he wants to see you.. And now you are taking it personally. Give him some space and let him reach out when he is ready..


I just wanted to be there for him as when we were going out his granny passed away. But you're right, I need to remember that I'm not his girlfriend anymore.
Love ! for sure
Successful Career can be lonely
I am a Libra myself and 2 years ago I went this Libra man. We are both same age.
It was his first serious relationship and it lasted almost 3 years. I broke it off as I was stupid. I did not appreciate what I had. He was so good and consistent. it came across as boring for me at the time as I was in college and as you know.. College party life consumed my life and got the best of me.

I knew the break up was hard for him as we didn't stop talking until 3 months after I broke it off with him.
Me being foolish and stupid at the time, I've moved on quickly and ended up with another guy.
Who eventually cheated on me. I think it was Karma for sure.

Anyhow, long story short. He moved on too. It took him awhile but he ended up going out with another girl.
When he found out my new boyfriend broke it off with me and cheated on me the day I decided to move out.
He came over and helped me move as friends. He wasn't trying anything as I hope he would.

Anyway, I become single since last year and I messaged him few times just to see how things were. He's happy most of the time and replied back to me every time. As time goes by I knew he doesn't have any interests in me anymore as he was happy in his new relationship.

So I wished for us to be friends but we couldn't as he was going out with someone else and I respected that and never talked to him since.

3 weeks ago our mutual friends have informed me that he just became single. so I was concerned as he's such a nice guy. I texted him and asked how he was. He said he's going through tough time as his granddad is sick so he'll be busy for awhile trying to spend time with him.

I asked if he wanted to see me and he said he was busy.

I think he hates me but he really was the best thing in my life.
No one can lived up to him and I really have tried messaging him but I don't think he cares anymore.

What should I do ?
I am a Libra myself and 2 years ago I went this Libra man. We are both same age.
It was his first serious relationship and it lasted almost 3 years. I broke it off as I was stupid. I did not appreciate what I had. He was so good and consistent. it came across as boring for me at the time as I was in college and as you know.. College party life consumed my life and got the best of me.

I knew the break up was hard for him as we didn't stop talking until 3 months after I broke it off with him.
Me being foolish and stupid at the time, I've moved on quickly and ended up with another guy.
Who eventually cheated on me. I think it was Karma for sure.

Anyhow, long story short. He moved on too. It took him awhile but he ended up going out with another girl.
When he found out my new boyfriend broke it off with me and cheated on me the day I decided to move out.
He came over and helped me move as friends. He wasn't trying anything as I hope he would.

Anyway, I become single since last year and I messaged him few times just to see how things were. He's happy most of the time and replied back to me every time. As time goes by I knew he doesn't have any interests in me anymore as he was happy in his new relationship.

So I wished for us to be friends but we couldn't as he was going out with someone else and I respected that and never talked to him since.

3 weeks ago our mutual friends have informed me that he just became single. so I was concerned as he's such a nice guy. I texted him and asked how he was. He said he's going through tough time as his granddad is sick so he'll be busy for awhile trying to spend time with him.

I asked if he wanted to see me and he said he was busy.

I think he hates me but he really was the best thing in my life.
No one can lived up to him and I really have tried messaging him but I don't think he cares anymore.

What should I do ?
Posted by Lilianni
What are your thoughts on confrontation?


I would try my best to avoid it but If I'm mad. It must be really bad. I usually deal with my problems calmly and politely.

Do I want a best friend ? yes ! I have great number of best friends and I'm thankful for them all.