Posted by tiziani
Sounds like you're not feeling it.
Posted by 777
Air signs can be their own worst enemies.
What is ur definition of emotional connection?
Do you offer the traits u are expecting to recieve?
Or Maybe it's more simple & he's just not ur type?
Posted by Sagicorn
Virgo and feelings after 5 dates? No way. Anyway, what you wrote sounds like typical Virgo, not sure what answer you're looking for?
Posted by DonnaLibraPosted by LibraJackson
thank you for all replies, most are genuinely good, amazingly I don't know what happened but I'm into this Virgo now and the Aries is back! like I wanted this guy for so long and out of nowhere, this Virgo showed up.I didn't expect this at all but all of you are right... if it's meant to be he would have made more of an effort and if he did now, it's a bit too late for me. I'm happy
Look I only told you about the therapy idea because like you I'm a Libra who was lost over an Aries man. It took therapy for me to move on from him. It helped me so much and that is why I suggested it for you. I know you are now with the Virgo but you and I know the Aries is still at the top of your heart and you can't shake it. I've been there. Therapy helped so if you still struggle you might try it.click to expand
Posted by Toastedtoast
I think Virgo and libra combination can work out wonderfully. However, the nagging Virgo trait might come out sooner or later. Just depends on whether or not you can handle it lol I’m a Virgo woman dated a libra man and honesty felt closest to being a princess than with other signs.
Posted by AriesJo
I don’t think the reason should be why anymore, it doesn’t matter, you won’t know, you don’t need to know. I know some things happen to us and they seem unfair and we ask why, and maybe things were great but it stopped, and you want to know why. It’s a normal question to ask, we are only human. But it doesn’t matter, because it can’t matter. What I’m trying to say, is if you want to carry on with your live, then it can’t matter.
We don’t water dead flowers for a reason, they were great but they died, we don’t ask why, we just move on.
I would speculate that he’s insecure. He feels insecure and then he messages you and feels a bit better, but you are either a second option or he isn’t sure about you, and this will never change. Once he feels secure, after you message him back, then he ignores you. At the same time, this just puts you down, makes you obsess and overthink. Then the process repeats until you lose yourself.
The simple fact is, you gave him a chance, and he didn’t take it.
But please look at yourself, and I’m trying to mean this in the best possible way. If something really is capable of knocking you off your feet like this for so long, then you need to think about working out a way to not let it happen again. What kind of future do you want? What kind of person do you want to be? In five years time this Aries will mean nothing to you, but you will have yourself, so who do you want to be? Move on, give this Virgo a fair chance.
Posted by AriesJo
The conversation feels a bit boring, why do you put “or no” on your message, why aren’t there any jokes? And then what happened after he said “yeah sure”
Feels like you aren’t enjoying it at all, even if you do love him, is all this worth it, how good do you feel about yourself? You need a guy you can be yourself with, not nervous about whether he accepts you or not.
Plus something sounds a bit strange from his side, asking if something is a good idea? What does that even mean? He’s scared of something?
Posted by Lalalo
Who initiates these conversations, you or him?
Posted by DonnaLibra
When is your birthday?
It's really hard for us Libras (as you know) to go back to someone. We like to go forward, nor backwards. Just look beautiful, be sweet and charming.