Please Help ( Aries Girl and Gem Guy)

First Time posting here for some reason the website wouldnt let me create a log-in for while. Alas im here!

I an aries girl 4/7/1986 and my bf is 6/11/1986

I work where my bf lives and had been knowing him for about a year yet never talked. A few of his friends attempted to get my number in that time in front of him, I turned them down though. In April I noticed him noticing me and him flirting a bit but he was mysterious which intruiged me, I recently went through a bad break-up with a mind-f******* pisces. My heart wasnt open to another guy and I had been spending time with a ex cancer bf/friend to help me on my lonely days. Then bam one day I just started to really notice the GEm and his eye fucking and hit him up on FB weven been talking ever since. He is strong, affectionate, funny, kind , caring intellectual and despite the things i read about Gem's he is emotional at imes and sensitive too. But he also showed me another side of him that scared me, he became a bit detached during week 3 and I suspected he was lying he assured me that he wasnt but I didnt believe him so I dissappeared for 4 days cutting off all contact while he chased me I gave him a chance to talk on the 4th day and I was back in love again. The following weekend I diaappeared again because I felt like devoting my weekend time to someone I was unsure about, he called me at 5 am on sunday drunk and upset that he couldnt contact me I finally phoned him that night we had a heart to heart and I felt that we had finally reached a point where we werent questioning each others feelings, but I still want ready to fully give myself to him. I fell in love with my guy on the first date and I believe he did too. By the third date he was asking for me to be his girl, I was a bit apprehensive as I have been burned badly in the past and that has left a sour taste in my mouth about men . I still went ahead and said yes although I was still unsure, I felt I could always change my mind later.

Then I started playing mind games with him because I thought he was playing with me, not in my nature as an Aries an honestly this is the most Ive played any games at love, but after what Ive been through I figured that I needed to to protect my heart. He broke down and told me he felt that were were bith playing eah other and that he needed to get his mind right before he could committ. I obliged now fast forward to the drunk call on Sunday morning at 5 am, and the heart to heart we finally had

Posted by bluemoon9043834
So what are you going to do from here? What do you think is the best thing? I think he will be around here and there until you find someone else... is that a possibility?

Bluemoon I need your help please may you do our charts are we compatible and is he trustworthy? He told me he loved me today and asked if I would consider moving with him in a year when he is donew ith school to another state. Im really falling for him and I am scared.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
So what are you going to do from here? What do you think is the best thing? I think he will be around here and there until you find someone else... is that a possibility?

There was way more to the story that I typed but it didnt show up... he said that he wanted to commit to me on Friday and then we spent the almost the whole weekened together. Before he left he told me that I made him feel emotional, sentimanetal and mushy , and then held me for bout 3 min and that he will always love me and be there for me. He said if we continued to date without the possibilty of me moving that he would be depressed and heart broken when it comes time for him to move because Ive laready got his heart. He seemed a bit hurt that I was apprehensive about the move next year but we have only been together for about two months, but ive never been this close emotionally to any man or boyfriend he makes me feel safe to be the emotional person that most people dont get to see. What im getting at is is he serious or is he reeling me in like Gems do. Im crazy about this kid but I am prepared to walk if its not right.

Posted by bluemoon9043834
So what are you going to do from here? What do you think is the best thing? I think he will be around here and there until you find someone else... is that a possibility?

I know my Venus is in Taurus and his in cancer are we compatible in love?

Posted by bluemoon9043834
Geminis seem to have it hard for Aries.

I would say that there can be deception at hand.
http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=7&d1month=4&d1year=1986&d2day=11&d2month=6&d2year=1986>http://astro.cafeastrology.com/cgi-bin/astro/comp2f?d1day=7&d1month=4&d1year=1986&d2day=11&d2month=6&d2year=1986</a>

Watch that his actions match his words.

About three other Gems have tryed to get me in the last 3 months, which is weird because Pisces are so drawn to b=me and have been for the last three years and nows its Gem...Why would he be working so hard to gas me up so to speak?

I read the link you gave but I am not sure what it all means