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Aries women are selfish attention seeker!! Yuck
Are Aries women selfish and attention seeking
Aries women are often seen as confident and assertive, which can sometimes be misunderstood as selfishness. They value honesty and independence and may seek attention when expressing their strong personalities. Understanding their traits helps clarify their behavior and reduces misconceptions about them being selfish or attention-seeking.
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unfortuantely, aries women dont believe in the friend code and they believe that all competition is healthy competition. no man is off limits to them.
ive spotted my aries friend many times trying to flirt with my scorp. i just keep making mental notes and keeping them in my back pocket.
im sorry you had to go through that with her...
DMV,I have not seen her in over a yr. I know from been @ university,that she can be quite headstrong and selfish.
I invited her to my city and even paid to put her up in a hotel.
I saw what was going on and because i know this dude game i thought ill let it slip.
She bloody knows what went down with me and this guy-as a mate i confided in her.
The dude tried the same crap on the exact night with my cappy friend and she told him where to go.
But my bestmate....wanted to carry on suspect!!
oh wow, i also confide in my aries gf about my scorp and she confides in me about her aries man. wow, i hope i never have to go through that with my aries friend.
i was told by a virgo friend of mine, to not tell an aries a word about your relationship. they will throw you under the bus and use whatever you told them aganist you.
yes whatever an aries woman wants, she will get...no boundaries
Hahaha for your info...she lives in a different city from the libra AND she is also in a relationship.
What was strange was on the friday(lunch time) I had to do some shopping,so my cappy mate and I went to mr libra bar to drop off our bags. The arian was on her way home-because i upset her.Whateva!!
By this time i realised,my camera was missing....so i was like omg i left my camera @ the hotel.
Mr libra realised,i was upset and said "how much can you trust your mates?" I replied,i know my mate hasnt got my camera.
"He replied,i am not on about your camera"
The guy is a class A clown and loves attention and flirts but i expect my friends to be immune to his behaviour.
He bloody tried been charming,winking @ me and i gave him the coldest stare on that night. Am sure my arian mate could have done the same.
Posted by DMV
oh wow, i also confide in my aries gf about my scorp and she confides in me about her aries man. wow, i hope i never have to go through that with my aries friend.
I hope you never have to go through it too hun. The worst thing she thought i couldnt see what was going on. Stupid cow!!
oh yeah listen to oldskool...
they will definitely make up stories to W-I-N
she lives in a different city from the libra AND she is also in a relationship.
I didn't know that.
It's going to interfere with her ego-driven personality.click to expand
What do you mean?
some aries do not honor the friend code
Posted by bluemoon2
It's possible that you may be reading too much into the actions, emotions, and whatnot of your Aries friend.And she repayed me,by been suspect on thursday night.
Did she owe you money or something? I am curious. How did she do that? An Aries woman is strictly driven by her impulse and instincts.
I'd say that if you have a problem with her life style , live and let live.
Money is not an issue...what i meant is she is wise enough to see through the libra's game.
I caught her watching him on several occassion and i know he was loving it.
He loves attention and because i was not showering any on him,he thought i'll make eyes @ her mate and sit back and wait for the fireworks.
However the water in me thought,am not gonna explode....so i worked the rm,been my usually smiley self and making sure everyone i invited to the party was having a brill time.
I went uni with this girl,she fancied this guy when we were @ uni and he said he didnt like her and wanted to get to know me.
I told this guy,to get stuff. Yes he was nicelooking but I valued my friendship more!!
Posted by ARIES7733
Just know all Aries aren't like that. I had friends and family mess around with my guys, but I couldn't ever, ever fantom doing that to a friend, key word however is friend, I have very few, but the ones I do have I value you and treasure. If you are not my friend I don't owe you anything and vice versa. Just felt necessary to mention being the statement was made Aries don't honor the friend code, once again not all.
Its good,your not like that but alot of aries women have huge ego's and are very competitive.
There's nothing wrong with been competitive but know your place.
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.
I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
you got it 🙂
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
Yeah have witness the exact thing with my aries mate. She often pursue guys who told her straight up,they arent interested.
Guess its a ego boost if she wins the guy. Well she is after a gemini,and back in november she uploaded some pics of me on her blog wishing me happy bday. After 2 days she sent me a couple text asking if have received a friend request from the gemini on facebook,i told her no, why? She said because he kept going on about how gorgeous you were.
I guess thursday nite was her way of winning some battle. But am not even interested in the gemini-for starters have never met him-only seen pics and he's blonde and i rather dark haired guys.
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
i agree. i think they're often looking for attention to feed their ego. they may not even want the guy, but they want the guy to want them.
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Spot on....ever wants to feel love and wanted BUT there is a frienship line you dont over step for no man.
everyone not ever.
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
i agree. i think they're often looking for attention to feed their ego. they may not even want the guy, but they want the guy to want them.
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But Why? i mean really...why? i really like my aries friend. shes been a good friend. it sucks. i have seen her flirting with my scorp a few times. i have told her about how he obesses over me. and i think she wants that kind of obessesion. so she flirts with him here and there and it honestly bothers me. i even caught her trying to sit on his lap and stroke his hair and he told her to cease and desist. i was proud of him for doing that.
ive never spoken to her about it because i think it woulg just fuel her need to compete. the victory may be sweet for her but it would be a bitter sweet one. i dont take betrayal or disloyalty sitting down.
i dont discount that aries women have egos but they also have insecurities...we ALL do, about something even if its a minor thing. it is the way we handle that insecurity.
thats cool...
despite the flirting. yes, i do consider her to be my friend. im just rational about it. i know that she enjoys feeding her ego by flirting with other girl's guys. i know exactly why she does it. and i definitely know that my scorp is smart enough to know what shes up to. so i didnt feel the need to say anything. he did the right thing. no intervention needed by me.
besides if you tell an aries girl that she cant have something, she will try even harder, look even more pathetic, and try to win at any and all costs.
i am a firm believe in letting karma work itself out. a month later she found out that her aries bf has been cheating on her with 2 other women; one being a scorpio...
so my work was done and i didnt even have to lift a finger.
theres some competition for her.
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
What are you basing your statements on?
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants.
As an Aries woman, everything and I mean EVERYTHING is about what or who I want. If I want something or someone, I go for it.
Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others.
Why should an Aries woman be careful? What is there to be careful? We live on the edge... not in cautious or carefulness. If an Aries woman is throwing herself on a guy, I don't think much goes on in her head of what you think of it. Yet, you state your opinion here as if your opinion is law. Fixed sign dogma at its best.
I believe it is your insecurity speaking.
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I'm basing my statements on what I know about a few Aries women. If two friends are out, and one friend tells the Aries friend that she thinks the guy across the room in cute, what would make the Aries friend(who is married) go right up to the guy and start flirting with him? He was only on her radar after the friend mentioned him. The friend told the Aries how upset she was over that and the Aries woman said "I didn't mean to upset you, girl you can have him." What is really the point of it all?
You seem to be very into competition, but personally, I don't want nothing that is taken, and especially not someone my friend is into. I guess I'm not a competitive person because I stay in my own lane and the things I want in life and go after have nothing to do with anyone else. I don't call people like that friends, especially when you don't know when the competition stops. If someone is married do you go after the husbands as well?
i learned that from you scorpios....
you guys lead better and cause more drama working in the shadows and you have considerable restraint.
Also this same Aries woman is obsessed with her Cancer "best friend," She told another friend "yeah, that # $ @# $ may be a doctor but yet I make more than her." This is supposedly her best friend yall! When the Cancer friend moved into a new house the Aries was so obsessed with how much she paid for it that she drove around the neighborhood, compared prices of the other houses, and finally hunted down the realtor and asked the price of the house her friend bought.
This takes the cake right here. Her friend came over to her house the other day and she brought her daughter with her. The daughter told the Aries that she will have a little sister/brother because her mommy is pregnant. This is crazy, but now the Aries made an announcement to her friend that her and her husband are finally ready to have another baby so now she's trying to get pregnant. It's just too much.
Posted by lnana04
Also this same Aries woman is obsessed with her Cancer "best friend," She told another friend "yeah, that # $ @# $ may be a doctor but yet I make more than her." This is supposedly her best friend yall! When the Cancer friend moved into a new house the Aries was so obsessed with how much she paid for it that she drove around the neighborhood, compared prices of the other houses, and finally hunted down the realtor and asked the price of the house her friend bought.This takes the cake right here. Her friend came over to her house the other day and she brought her daughter with her. The daughter told the Aries that she will have a little sister/brother because her mommy is pregnant. This is crazy, but now the Aries made an announcement to her friend that her and her husband are finally ready to have another baby so now she's trying to get pregnant. It's just too much.
i dont think alot of aries will own up to their shortcomings. that would defeat the purpose of who they are..a warrior. no warrior is going to admit fault or show you their weaknesses. that trait, i do admire somewhat. never let the enemy know your achilles heal.
a baby making competition...LMAO..i could see that
I am curious on what your track record is with married men. It's interesting you ask that question... almost as is if to ask yourself that question. It's like everything else you have said... you have said things as if to only hear yourself speak. Frankly, it doesn't matter what I ask because my questions remain unanswered by you, unless it is selective questions. And frankly, it doesn't matter what I say because it seems to be going through one ear and out the other. It is fixed sign dogma at its best.
My track record with married men? Never been married, and doubt if I want to marry. I'm just curious to see when does the competing stop with a competitive Aries.
btw, What questions have you asked? I have no problems answering, but I don't recall you asking me anything.
I am curious on what your track record is with married men. It's interesting you ask that question... almost as is if to ask yourself that question. It's like everything else you have said... you have said things as if to only hear yourself speak. Frankly, it doesn't matter what I ask because my questions remain unanswered by you, unless it is selective questions. And frankly, it doesn't matter what I say because it seems to be going through one ear and out the other. It is fixed sign dogma at its best.
My track record with married men? Never been married, and doubt if I want to marry. I'm just curious to see when does the competing stop with a competitive Aries.
btw, What questions have you asked? I have no problems answering, but I don't recall you asking me anything.
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i have a virgo friend and her aries friend slept with her husband. alas, they are not friends anymore.
I am curious on what your track record is with married men. It's interesting you ask that question... almost as is if to ask yourself that question. It's like everything else you have said... you have said things as if to only hear yourself speak. Frankly, it doesn't matter what I ask because my questions remain unanswered by you, unless it is selective questions. And frankly, it doesn't matter what I say because it seems to be going through one ear and out the other. It is fixed sign dogma at its best.
My track record with married men? Never been married, and doubt if I want to marry. I'm just curious to see when does the competing stop with a competitive Aries.
btw, What questions have you asked? I have no problems answering, but I don't recall you asking me anything.
i have a virgo friend and her aries friend slept with her husband. alas, they are not friends anymore.
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Welp, I guess the competition never stops then. That's something.
i would understand aries women better if they would just own up to their shortcomings. but that will be a cold day in hell
Posted by DMV
i would understand aries women better if they would just own up to their shortcomings. but that will be a cold day in hell
Touche i agee 110% ,to above statement.
could it be that we are seeing or noticing something that you just cant see?
its difficult for some people to see things if they arent looking from an outside perspective.
an aries is never going to admit to a weaknesses...that would go aganist everything that they stand for.
LMAO @ sore loser
Posted by lnana04
Half the time it's not even what the Aries woman wants. Its just pointless competition, and if the Aries isn't careful she fails to realize that she's throwing herself on the guy trying to prove a point to herself and others. It can make some Aries women look real out there and cheap.I know of a married Aries who competes like this with her single friend. It's really not necessary, but insecurity is the root of it, I believe.
Sorry but insecurity is anything but an Aries trait ... our confidence shine through all the way. To me the insecurity issue seems to be in those who are worried that their guys will fall for the Aries girl ...
Anyway we are not attention seekers and we do value friendship ... on the other hand we go with the flow, that means that we might joke and be friendly with whoever is around, but that doesn't mean we are out there to get them ... we have our own fan base we get the attention without even trying
you aries girls make me laugh sooooo hard.
if you give an aries girl a blog about their strengths and weaknesses. they will agree 1000000% with the strenghts and disagree till they are blue in the face about the weaknesses. in fact, whoever wrote the blog would be an idiot. only 50% of the blog would be true, the rest is hogwash...furthermore, if the blogger was an aries, no friggin way would there be a negative trait anywehre in that blog. that would be ludacris.
it is not in the aries nature to paint themselves in an unflattering light. they will deny their weaknesses till they are blue in the face.
which is why bluemoon, fights so strongly that aries women have no negative traits. to agree would mean failure. aries is about winning.
Posted by aPiscesPrincess
That's why I blame all my negative traits on my Aries rising lol.
aww yes...
an aries women is her biggest fan.
i challenge an aries women to post a list of her weaknesses....
*i have nothing aganist aries women because i honestly understand who you are. i jsut think this would be an interesting exercise.
yes i do consider her to be my friend, despite her obvious shortcomings 😉
does she consider herself to be my friend...i think so, but you will have to ask her....
im a very forgiving person. but 3 strikes and your out!
now back to aries...
no problemo...i myself and other would agree that this is a SHORT list of some of mine and other sag weaknesses...
1.) selfish
2.) whorish
3.) loves to spend money on damn near whatever
4.) suffers from foot in mouth disease
5.) carelss
6.) overlooks details
7.) will make a joke at a funeral and make people cringe
8.) tactless
9.) restless
10.) superficial
11.) slut
cmon Aries...step up to the plate...if your not scared
it would be impossible for an Aries women to make a list of her weakness and own up to them!
i call myself, like i see myself
exactly my point.
an aries women will never admit one of her weaknesses..
luckily for the rest of us, you dont have to...we already know them 😉
@aries7733,
i tip my hat to you...
if you give him a long leash, that may just happen
i definiely avoid painting with all signs with the same brush (oh however that saying goes)...
Glad someone else saw it.
Consider yourself unlucky if you have let an Aries woman into your life as a close friend..
As I was told, and most promptly did, "Quick, get rid of her immediately!"
I did and regret it I did not.
Aries women are the scum of the earth. Hold them only at arms length.
aries are defintiely impatient with weak people...
aries definitely do not follow rules
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Fell out with my aries friend,have been there for this girl through tick and thin. And she repayed me,by been suspect on thursday night.
I notice what she was doing and thought,i'll let it slip because no man is worth falling out with your girl mates.
And i know the guy is a flirt and he was up to his usually games to make my scorpuo blood boil.
However this girl,had the cheek, she wanted to start a debate,after i told here to let it go.
Well i basically told her a few home truths.
Going into 2011,the 2 things am definitley avoiding: LIBRA MEN & ARIES FEMALES!!