Questions for Venus in Aries Peeps!

How do you handle/get over breakups with longterm relationships?

How long was your longest relationship?

What do you think about dating someone with their venus also in aries?

In your experience what signs do you prefer in venus?

In your opinion what are the pros & cons of this placement?

All of my relationships have been long-ish for the most part.
I wouldn't say I'm fully over any of them, but it takes less time for me to pick myself up now--I was only a wreck for a couple of days after dumping my last boyfriend before I gave myself a pep talk and marched onward.

My longest relationship was 3 years, and I think the shortest was 8-9 months.

Pisces Sun with Aries Venus was probably the most harmonious match I've had yet. We lasted about 2 years. Neither of us liked using words to express our feelings, so we were more about doing things for and with each other. It was nice. We've remained platonic friends.

Scorpio Sun with Capricorn Venus was horrible. We lasted the 8-9 months but it was anything but tranquil. We couldn't see eye-to-eye on anything and I think I only stuck around for shallow reasons. I can't say I miss him at all.

Last was the Capricorn Sun with Pisces Venus, which lasted 3 years. He could be very sweet, but I also found him to be very dull at times. We don't really talk too often, but we don't hate each other. I expect I'll probably get a visit from him this Christmas.

I would happily date a person with an Aries Venus again.

I find the pros of this placement are that I can be a very active lover. I like to do little deeds and give gifts and go out and have fun with whomever I'm with. On the other hand, I'm not very articulate with my feelings (though this probably has more to do with my Cancer Mars...I find that my Venus/Mars combination can make me a very contradictory and hard to read person in relationships sometimes...)

How do you handle/get over breakups with longterm relationships?
I have a long internal battle with myself. I try to justify the break up and think it was for the best. It takes a while to really get over someone and usually I just end up in another relationship and that guy slowly fades out of my mind.

How long was your longest relationship?
2 years

What do you think about dating someone with their venus also in aries?
I wouldn't mind it. But I also might not prefer it. I don't have any experience dating someone with this placement, so idk.

In your experience what signs do you prefer in venus?
I've only dated people with venus in virgo, pisces, and now leo, and they all seem to be pretty good placements. The venus in virgo person was a bit pushy, though. Okay, maybe the venus in pisces was, too....haha, so maybe venus in leo is the best so far.

In your opinion what are the pros & cons of this placement?
Pros: I think it's a light-hearted and fun placement. I honestly don't know too much about it.
Cons: I get bored of people quickly. When there's any doubt in my mind, I don't stick around and try to put effort in. I'm the same as Porcelain, not very articulate...but I also have cancer mars, so Idk?

Thats funny , my cancer is in Mars as well. my thoughts & feelings always conflict with each other. a part of me says "free fall, it'll be worth it & if its not then you'll grow from it" & then the other side says "it might be a waste of time. dont even think about giving in!" then i observe & nitpick & end up rethinking the same thing all over again as time progresses.

my absolute favorite relationship was taurus sun/aries venus his mars was in pisces too & he would do & say the most amazing things. i never knew a taurus to be so passionate & attentive. i told him i always wished to learn how to paint because i have such vivid thoughts & a creative imagination. i wished people could see the things i see. he came over stripped down to his boxers, pulled out buckets of paint & said "if its important to you its important to me so think of me as your canvas" & i seriously fell in love lol

i get over people by drawning myself in loads of work fun and love. I do what i usually do but go crazy with it. ive only been in real trrue love once and thats currently right now. we use to be on and off and true say we dont get over people we just move on to the next best thing and accept that the past was the past we live and learn and move on. if i got out of this relationship i wouldnt accept it easily as much as i want to. i would cause havoc. mentally and physically just for another adventure.