VENUS IN ARIES blessing/curse for a female taurus

very musculine energy for a girl....please tell me if you agree or have expirienced it ...any advice on how to tone it down? from fellow taurus🙂

Should feel empowering. I agree with SE; embrace it. Then you can combine it with your feminine energy.

thanks SE and LM i have realised that im more taurus in general but when it comes to my love life i change and take over the mans role in the relationship and begin to wear the pants...no man likes that and i dont like that side of myself.

Posted by lovelytaurus
take over the mans role in the relationship and begin to wear the pants

that's not Venus in Aries 😛

Posted by lovelytaurus
thanks SE and LM i have realised that im more taurus in general but when it comes to my love life i change and take over the mans role in the relationship and begin to wear the pants...no man likes that and i dont like that side of myself.

lol.

Venus in Aries = no one has time to put their pants on. Relax.

^^^ haha this too...
this is my chart any help will be appreciated...🙂

Sun-Taurus

Moon-Capricorn

Mercury-Taurus

Venus-Aries

Mars-Taurus

Jupiter-Leo

Saturn-Virgo

thanks bullgem i guess i was really just wondering if any one else with this placement could identify what i feel...or is it just me?*sigh*

Posted by lovelytaurus
very musculine energy for a girl....please tell me if you agree or have expirienced it ...any advice on how to tone it down? from fellow taurus🙂

Whenever I feel the urge to "pounce"..or "GO in for the kill"...In my mind, I repeat to myself, that: "I, am the lady." "I, am the prize to be won."...just so that I give the guy the opportunity to do HIS job to approach and not the other way around.

VinAries, is not a bad placement at all, we're the types that likes a mental and physical challenge. Mental Stimulation, is what I seek before anything physical goes down. Its just a must for me. We can often lead a very passionate or heated debate or when things get a bit dry, dull and boring, we can kick up some dust, just to shake things up a bit. (STIMULATION is all the same.) We like a Take charge MANLY Man who can still show that they care from time to time. Just don't make us feel cornered, smothered and claustrophobic, or we'll take off running. We want to feel wanted, but still feel independant.

@LovelyTaurus, when you say that you tend to be the one to switch roles and wear the pants in the relationship. VinAries, is a strong "go-getter" aspect so my guess would be that whatever man, you tend to do that for/with, just aren't doing things the way YOU would like it, so you take charge. My question to you is, when that happens, does that make YOU happy to take charge in the relationship? Have you ever tried taking on a more submissive role just to observe the difference in treatment?? Try the latter, I know it will feel foreign but you will learn something from it.

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Posted by lovelytaurus

@LovelyTaurus, when you say that you tend to be the one to switch roles and wear the pants in the relationship. VinAries, is a strong "go-getter" aspect so my guess would be that whatever man, you tend to do that for/with, just aren't doing things the way YOU would like it, so you take charge. My question to you is, when that happens, does that make YOU happy to take charge in the relationship? Have you ever tried taking on a more submissive role just to observe the difference in treatment?? Try the latter, I know it will feel foreign but you will learn something from it.

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ola taurusbelle,
thank you so much,your words were very helpful...well i tend to be very impulsive and ardent when im in love.i compete and i want to be FIRST to my Significant O. this is the dark side of my vinaries because i only realise when the damage is too deep.i call just before he calls i ask for something just before he is about to offer it to me. everything he does i do it faster and efficient...i know it sounds horrible.the only one who could take this side of me was a libra guy...but it eventually turned out to be toxic.
i am quite submissive and always positive and drama free its just that the roles become a blur to me....i want to change this side of me because i dont like it at all.

i came across this online on venus in aries...this is my curse lol...

Your reactions are powerful, intense and immediate.
Emotions rarely well up slowly within you. Like secret volcanoes, marking the surface of a seemingly calm land, they lie dormant for ages and then suddenly erupt with irreversible consequences. The people you love need to understand this if they are to be fully able to love you in return. You don't really allow your heart to rule your head but you do take a wildly impatient approach to life sometimes and, in the process sometimes, you miss out on some very magical opportunities that merely need a little more dedicated nurturing.become more conscious of the downside of your impulsive personality.see a vision of how different life might be if you were only able to pace yourself just a little more realistically - and be a little more thoughtful about some of the situations that you rush headlong into.

Audrey Hepburn was a Taurus female with Venus in Aries and that's good enough for me (just bought a 2013 Audrey Hepburn calendar today).

^^^i like audrey hepburn thanks....
Happy new yr fellow taurus...

I'm also a Taurean with Venus in Aries ^^
Btw, my AC, Moon, Mars are in Leo so Fire is dominant in my chart
That's why I'm less calm than other Taurean :-|

i know what you mean...:/

^^^how do you deal with the impulse and impatience??

Posted by scorchedearth

Posted by Mun
I'm also a Taurean with Venus in Aries ^^
Btw, my AC, Moon, Mars are in Leo so Fire is dominant in my chart
That's why I'm less calm than other Taurean :-|

you have as much leo as i have aries! that's kind of cool. 🙂

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Taurus-Aries is better than Taurus-Leo ( both are fixed signs )
and my Sun square Moon/Mars ( that toughest aspect destroys me....lol.... )
But I'm sure that we're both quick-tempered
lol

Posted by lovelytaurus
^^^how do you deal with the impulse and impatience??

Posted by lovelytaurus
^^^how do you deal with the impulse and impatience??

I even don't realize that I'm quick-tempered
I thought that I was so easy-going
until I asked friends
They all said that....you know it

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Posted by lovelytaurus
^^^how do you deal with the impulse and impatience??

I even don't realize that I'm quick-tempered
I thought that I was so easy-going
until I asked friends
They all said that....you know it

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wow you are very aware at your age...thats a good start.
luckily it take ALOT to raise my temper...but i suck at relationships.😢

Posted by scorchedearth
too many hidden posts! sheesh.

sorry my bad still learning how to use the dxp board...🙂

Posted by lovelytaurus
^^^ haha this too...
this is my chart any help will be appreciated...🙂

Sun-Taurus

Moon-Capricorn

Mercury-Taurus

Venus-Aries

Mars-Taurus

Jupiter-Leo

Saturn-Virgo

thats me...🙂

Posted by scorchedearth
damn you are like a super taurus! how do you like having so many planets there?

hahaha thats funny! well i love the way it makes me very down to earth and very loving and giving especially for my loved ones...but romantic love i just cant seem to get it right.
how about you?

wow!from that description you must be a bundle of energy...i know this because my venus in aries makes me high energy love outdoors very active... you may correct me if im wrong.

"i kind of wish i had more taurus like you do, sometimes"

why do you say that?