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Posted by bluemoon9043834
In fact, I think that we are the opposite of going great lengths just to be noticed, we do the opposite. It is just that we are born to attract attention, yet I find that we do not want or seek it. It's quite the opposite actually. What do you think about this?

Yes I always wonders why me or my brother fit the stereotypical Aries. He was really shy growing up and now I'm really shy. I don't really like the spotlight at all. I get alot of attention but it makes my face red lol. Im also not a small talker so I come off as very quiet. I do rush through certain things, but not everything.

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Posted by bluemoon9043834
Cool. And then there are articles that Aries are naive and trusting. Then other articles that contradict this and say Aries do not trust and are experienced because we travel the world and live life through experiences. Which do you find to be true? I don't trust anyone and it takes a while to gain my trust. Wouldn't call myself naive either.

Sorry for the late response to your questions... Using dxp off my phone and don't always have the password handy so unless I really have something to say, I won't mission to get the password off my laptop.
I hid my threads because, like a lot of times with me, I wish I had a backspace key on my mouth. I say whatever I want to say, or hit post/send, and then after a while I'll read it again and realize some people might get offended with my very strong opinions which are only just my opinion. Not right or wrong, so I don't want to offend anyone who is in a relationship or who has kids or is married. Just because I choose not to doesn't mean other people are wrong to do it. I don't care what people think of my opinions, but I said things like how I don't agree with the concept behind marriage because it began with fathers selling their daughters into sexual slavery and later backed up by the churches to strike fear into their hearts by telling them sex outside of marriage is a sin just to gain control over them. You know how people can get about religion! Didnt want to go down that route! So I decided to not show it.
The articles were interesting and I would love to respond but I'm in the worst mood today and not amped to answer it right now. If you check the rant/rage thread, you'll see a hefty chunk of text from me going off about shit.

I will answer another time!
I will say that I think we won't trust anyone until we've Sussed them out a bit more and try and assess their motives a bit more. Especially if it's someone who has approached us. I think we will be naive and trusting if it's someone we approach. Then we discover they are trustworthy or we discover they're shit and get hurt. If they hurt us, we'll never fully trust them again and the relationship -- friendship or whatever -- will never be the same again. We like to think the people we choose to spend our time with and invest in are as good as us because we are generally quite honest and fair and trustworthy with those close to us.

I also think it jus depends on the day on what mood or frame of mind we're in. I think I general we are good people, but if we're in a bad mood, we can be dicks and we can screw people over. Especially if we foresee they are likely to and are in a position to screw us over. I know I've had my days where I've made sure I am the one eating instead of the one bein eaten! If I see someone is likely to screw me over, I will do what needs to be done to make sure they don't take advantage of me and if they get screwed over in the process of me saving myself when they were planning on screwing me over first, then fuck them. All's fair in love and war right?

Oh yes, that's another thread I can start... The concept behInd that expression blows my mind sometimes!

Aries are *naive* - we do all the things that other people consider impossible, impractical, and make it happen. Many times in my life I have been told that I was *naive* to think I could do x y or z. Well guess what. I did it anyway.
Naivete is one of our gifts. Our naivete allows us to push past the boundaries and limitations that most people live by and get it done.
I don't like Lady Gaga's music, but I consider her to be a prototypical Aries in this sense. I saw an interview she did. She said she was constantly doing things people told her were impossible When asked what her greatest fear is, she replied that her fear was not being able to get all of her ideas out.
That's what we are about.

To your other point, I am not loud and boisterous either.I'm actually kind of quiet. But I can and do speak up if neccessary. If I'm around someone outgoing, that will rub off on me. My gf is very social so she usually will do the talking (typical Gemini).

Ive always been really naive. It ends up me getting hurt a lot. I trust way to easily when i first am getting to know someone but then once that trust is broken, it takes A LOT to get it back.