so he lashed out on me

well to my "overly sensitive" self i felt he lashed out on me but anywho i asked him about him sleeping with this other chick and if he was still dating his ex GF and he said "wait i didn't know i couldn't mess around with other girls last time i checked we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend we never talked about that" and that set me OFF!!! if we weren't BF and GF he sure made it seem that way. he basically led me on and then blamed me for thinking we were BF and GF i thought we had something i thought he had feelings for me (which i think he does). he said he didn't want me to be talking to other guys, said i was his girl, told me he liked me, and before we started having sex i asked him his intentions, he never answered me i asked him if he had a GF, and he said no. i told him how i asked him all of these questions before we started our so called relationship and he never gave me answers and still blames me and now he wants to lash out at me saying i thought we were BF and GF making it my fault and he says he doesn't think he's at fault he doesn't think he did nothing wrong, how about leading me on and having this so called relationship for 1 1/2 years and not wanting me to talk to other guys, calling me his babe or his girl, hanging out from time to time. i admit we never talked about being BF and GF but he sure made it seem that way. i just want to stay away from him for some time i don't want to talk to him. i think he just got mad because he got called out for sleeping with this chick he says was just a rumor and old news um it's not a rumor when the girl is bragging about you guys being sex buddies ugh i don't know what to do i was so pissed yesterday i wanted to slap somebody and i cried because i was shocked he even got mad at me he's never gotten mad at me. i said he never cared about me or my feelings but he claims he does i don't think he does. yes i'm at fault for even sleeping with him without knowing his intentions but i think he's at fault to for not telling me his intentions and if he was dating someone when i asked him and for leading me on. ugh i'm confused, hurt, sad, mad, all at the same time i hope he doesn't try to be in my face after this like everythings all good because i seriously do not care to speak to him he sounds like my (Virgo) ex we dated for 6 months ad then he broke up with me then said we weren't BF or GF i was devastated for months and then we got back together after my birthday then i broke up with him after 2 years.

i really don't get it i was oonly following his lead i never rushed anything with him i was only following his lead! so i don't know how it's all my fault for thinking we were BF and GF i didn't think we were BF and GF but i thought we had something going for us. im confused....

He is a dick..dump him!

But don't lose faith in aries men!

Posted by red_aries
He is a dick..dump him!

But don't lose faith in aries men!

thanks, my cousin said the same thing she said that he's trying to flip everything back on me to try and make me feel guilty same thing my ex used to do to me, but i said im not gonna kiss his a** i'm fine don't need him he's such an asshole tired of his mind games he really needs to grow up.

The way he did to you really sound selfish... "more than a friend, but not a girlfriend/boyfriend"— CRAZY!

Awww I don't like it one bit. You make someone want to hug you (no homo.) lol, because your words sound so sad and disappointed. Well im sure you saw my other message on your other post. My Aries was a lot more upfront with me about his intentions but our fams are close by marriage so I think I got the family discount. Lol. He cant just get rid of me if he doesn't want to talk anymore because I'll always be around so he's treading softly. But I feel your pain, it angers me about our "relationship, courtship, sexship, emotionship," whatever the hell it is because it has no strict direction on it. I know where I want it to go and so does he, but he doesn't no when it will arrive at that destination how nerve racking! Don't worry. An Aries likes a chase, and he seems like he needs to grown up and go to the clinic anyway. He stuff is probably about to fall off. He sounds like a total horndog.

Posted by ALibra
Awww I don't like it one bit. You make someone want to hug you (no homo.) lol, because your words sound so sad and disappointed. Well im sure you saw my other message on your other post. My Aries was a lot more upfront with me about his intentions but our fams are close by marriage so I think I got the family discount. Lol. He cant just get rid of me if he doesn't want to talk anymore because I'll always be around so he's treading softly. But I feel your pain, it angers me about our "relationship, courtship, sexship, emotionship," whatever the hell it is because it has no strict direction on it. I know where I want it to go and so does he, but he doesn't no when it will arrive at that destination how nerve racking! Don't worry. An Aries likes a chase, and he seems like he needs to grown up and go to the clinic anyway. He stuff is probably about to fall off. He sounds like a total horndog.

aww thanx lol but i seriously think he needs to grow up too, anywho i hope he doesn't think i'm going to kiss his ass calling and texting begging to talk to him i don't care he just showed me who he really is and what he really wanted. he basically told on hisself, acted like he did nothing wrong and knew i was telling the truth he just didn't want to admit it.

"I hope he doesn't think I'm going to kiss his ass calling and texting begging to talk to him"

LOL. Are you sure you're not a Libra? Lol. I feel the same with my Aries. Truth is he does think that. You have him thinking that way. But when you don't; at first it won't bother him. But don't panic because eventually he will be like, hey where'd she go? That's when the chase will start all over again. You and I are going to try this together, I know these Aries man can be very passionate and persistent when they want something they "think" they can't have, it's important that you and I make them "think" they can have it if they just work a little harder. It sounds like a game, but it will come naturally once the emotions on our part are out the picture. It will be a piece of cake. So take advantage of this time you have away from him to get your emotions in check become OK with him not being around or calling. Then you will have the attitude like "if I talk to him I talk to him, if I don't I don't" and it will be a genuine attitude. Women have the tendency to fake being over someone, and it never works. You need this to be genuine. Get yourself strong, get some other suitors and a couple hobbies to keep yourself busy. You're gonna need it. Anything to keep you from falling before him again. You need this Aries to be to the point where he will try to push a mountain for you if he could and you CAN get him there. I've seen it happen. Aries have to feel they've conquered the worst to get the prize (you) they need someone they are always proud of. Someone they can brag on. You're gonna have to act like you care, but he has to try harder to get you to love him again. They are going to love it. You with me? LOL.

Posted by ALibra
"I hope he doesn't think I'm going to kiss his ass calling and texting begging to talk to him"

LOL. Are you sure you're not a Libra? Lol. I feel the same with my Aries. Truth is he does think that. You have him thinking that way. But when you don't; at first it won't bother him. But don't panic because eventually he will be like, hey where'd she go? That's when the chase will start all over again. You and I are going to try this together, I know these Aries man can be very passionate and persistent when they want something they "think" they can't have, it's important that you and I make them "think" they can have it if they just work a little harder.

your right though but his ex GF used to break up with him then get back with him and he's gotten used to it so much that he knows if she does break up with him he knows she'll come running back. i hope he doesn't think that's what i'm going to do because i'm not, my life can go on without him. i hate playing this childish game with him but when that day comes when he thinks he should try and contact me again who knows what i'll say lol i'll try not to scare him off but i may not make it easy for him anymore.

That is really strange. Usually aries are entirely upfront and blunt about what is going on. He's not worth it, Find a new aries... we really are great people 🙂

Posted by ariesbabie
That is really strange. Usually aries are entirely upfront and blunt about what is going on. He's not worth it, Find a new aries... we really are great people 🙂

exactly what i was saying, he's not straight-foward and upfront and honest with me but yeah won't be talking to him

I don't know. My aries was pretty upfront. Always trying his best to explain his ways and feelings to me, but by me being a Libra which is Aries complete opposite it's very hard for me to understand him. One minute I do the next im like wahhhh—

In your situation the ex gf is a little confused and you and her are two totally different women. I trust he knows that, if not he's an idiot. Since you already know that's what he's use to, then I suggest you dare to be different and put your foot down. At some point you have to draw the line. If I dump a guy they rarely ever get another fair shot. I wasn't encouraging you to chase or give him multiple chances I was suggesting that you make him chase you. However if the relationship was fun, me being a libra I often back track for short periods of time but its never permanent which always catches my ex's by surprise they think im back for keeps, most times I only back track to see what went wrong there so I wont do it again in my future or even current relationship that me be starting out.

Posted by ALibra
I don't know. My aries was pretty upfront. Always trying his best to explain his ways and feelings to me, but by me being a Libra which is Aries complete opposite it's very hard for me to understand him. One minute I do the next im like wahhhh—

In your situation the ex gf is a little confused and you and her are two totally different women. I trust he knows that, if not he's an idiot. Since you already know that's what he's use to, then I suggest you dare to be different and put your foot down. At some point you have to draw the line. If I dump a guy they rarely ever get another fair shot. I wasn't encouraging you to chase or give him multiple chances I was suggesting that you make him chase you. However if the relationship was fun, me being a libra I often back track for short periods of time but its never permanent which always catches my ex's by surprise they think im back for keeps, most times I only back track to see what went wrong there so I wont do it again in my future or even current relationship that me be starting out.

i understand you....i'm going to make him chase me