so....he told me what i wanted to hear =]

first off i got mad at him and we had a small argument and i bugged him calling and texting back to back because i thought he was really trying to avoid me, that's something i've never done before and he was shocked, (i feel stupid for doing that and i told him that) and then i asked him if he cared about me and loved me and he said yes but he thought it was dumb of me to ask him that question so i guess he may have cared/loved me all along.
i'm afraid of losing him to someone else and i'm also afraid that what happened in my past relationship would happen again with him (and i know you can't make a guy pay for another guys stupid mistakes) i'm just trying to protect myself.
i like him ALOT, ok forget "LIKE" i LOVE him, i love him sooo much i'm just afraid, he probably can't do much for me but i don't care i'm happy with whatever it is he does do, big or small, i don't care.
but i don't get why he didn't tell me this before when i first asked him? why did it take an argument for him to tell me this?

::: shakes head :::



I don't know. But, what I do know is that when you're over yourself on this topic, there will probably be more with him that you can make a mountain out of, so you can revel in your suffering for no apparent reason.

Stop chasing the unknowns and deal with what is there. You know the answers, you are stating them yourself so why pressure a guy? You will eventually get the "you know what, you are a nice girl, but I can't deal with the arguments and baggage you have from the last relationship(s)" Do you want to loss someone because you would not let go and pushed them away?

i didn't pressure him into saying anything (well i don't think i did) i just thought "hey it's been 10 months i do would like to know where this relationship is headed and how he feels about me" because i didn't know how he felt about me and it was making me very frustrated not knowing.
but i'll just deal with what's going on now and accept it and trust him....

Posted by impresswho
I think in almost every thread that has been created about this guy fear has been expressed. The very thing you fear is being created. 😢

yea i know, i fear everything, i was scared his intentions weren't good, i was afraid he didn't like me, afraid he didn't really want to be with me....and on, and on, and blah, blah, blah....lol

Posted by impresswho

Posted by lovelivelife11

Posted by impresswho
I think in almost every thread that has been created about this guy fear has been expressed. The very thing you fear is being created. 😢

yea i know, i fear everything, i was scared his intentions weren't good, i was afraid he didn't like me, afraid he didn't really want to be with me....and on, and on, and blah, blah, blah....lol

Then stop being so darn scary and have fun with your ram man. Make the man laugh, 😄. He probably scared shitless every time he talks to you??_.wondering what mood you??re in today, so just have fun.

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lol i said the same thing he probably doesn't know how i'll act when i talk to him because my moods change and i tend to keep things in until at the most awkward time, i'll let it all out and he's like "what"? "where is this all coming from"?