So I'm dating this aries guy...

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13 YearsAquarius

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And it's kinda weird. In the beginning everytime I would start freaking out in my mind he would say something that would put me at ease so I decided to stop worrying. But I'm a lil confused as to whether this is something I should pursue. I'm Aqua Sun Taurus Moon Venus and Mars in Pisces. He's Aries Sun Gemini Moon Venus in Pisces Mars in Taurus.
I always feel like we feel what eachother is thinking...but the killer is facebook of course cause sometimes he post things that are kind of contrary.
For instance, this one time I hit him up he was kind of aloof so I backed off. The next day I didnt contact him and he was posting stuff on fb about groupies (he works in entertainment) and liars and then later that night says he's gonna spend the night playing video games, and about how he's planning on going to another state for a month...I posted some vague stuff because im a lil passive aggressive like that LOL.
The next day he txts me and in a round about way he says he had wanted to take me out the day before. Apparently he had called me and I have cheap cell service and sometimes I miss calls. So I was like OH so he probably thought I was ignoring him thats why he was being weird.
So I assure him I didnt get the call but if I had I would've said yes. The next day he asks again and we get dressed up and go out (this is the 1st official DATE. most of the time we just hang out at his house listen to music watch anime or play video games and playfight lol)
We go out to eat and on the way back to the car he lightly grabs my hand. I thought it was cute but im usually not a public handholder so either way im cool.
Well then he gets on fb and says he has 'seen wit a girl complex' and he hates holding hands and sharing cotton candy lol. But the whole time we're at dinner he's asking me to try his drink and get a taste of his food. So I'm like...which is it?
Other weird stuff- he's only had one girlfriend who at first he rarely talked about. He's been opening up to me lately and let me know that apparently the way we are was how they started out. But they broke up when she cheated on him. I dont like being compared to the cheating ex-girlfriend you had on a pedestal.
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Also, I'm always trying to get information indirectly...so I had lost a piece to my belly button ring and I was like "hey if you find it let me know you can hide it when any of your other special friends comes by. I didnt mean to leave evidence"
His response "BWAHAHAHAHAH"
me:Wow is it really that funny?
him:no I'm mad cant you tell
me:you dont get mad
him:I do but I usually look indifferent
me:50% of the time you look indifferent
him: I know right? thats why no one ever knows when im mad
me:so if I piss you off I'll never know
him: You'll know because I'll tell you. Promise that. You never piss me off, why do you think I like to hang with you so much
me:cause we enjoy eachother's company
him:yes and cause neither one of us are on that extra
me:extra like the manipulative mind games ppl play?
him: EXACTLY we just have fun

I thought this was a funny response since I was indirectly tryna get him to tell me whether or not he's seeing anyone else besides me lmao. We both talk eachother in circles. It worries me because I think that neither of us will step up and define what the hell we are doing because what we have right now is comfortable. Of course, I overthink things a lot sooooo yeah. If your response is I'm thinking too hard, I will understand 🙂