Sure fire way to piss off an Aries?

Not being honest with who you are; putting on a front. Especially if you're my friend, if I see you disappearing into the shadow of another person, I'll be sick to my stomach. I'm currently experiencing this disappointment with a Gem sun, Scorp moon friend. She's lost her identity within her controlling Taurus sun, Leeb moon boyfriend. He's actually my friend as well and generally a good person. But man, he SUCKS as a boyfriend. And this Gem is allowing it.

Any other Aries suns ever experience this anger and disappointment when someone you know is totally faking it for the sake of pleasing someone else?
Trust me, my Libra moon makes me want to 'people please', but not in situations that aren't that deep. And I really cannot STAND it when people are not being true to themselves, and it's clearly hurting them. If I'm passionate about something, like my friend losing her individuality to a controlling man, my Aries wrath comes out. And I feel like I'm at my wit's end with this.

Posted by feby
I would suggest trying to separate yourself from these emotions because of the following:

*It's her choice and she will most likely choose him over you
*unnecessary expended energy on negativity and worry
*you stand to lose both friendships


I know I was in a situation like that for a long time. I actually had the fucking moment where I thought to myself "I don't know how much longer I'm going to be able to keep this up." are you fucking kidding me?? no.
I lost myself to be with someone else. Ironically enough a Gemini sun with a scorpio moon. AND there was nothing that anyone could have said or done to get me to leave or change my mind. People who were negative about us or the naysayers were all cut out and off.


Save yourself

I do need to separate myself. It's just hard to when the Gem is asking me what to do all the time, and bitches about him consistently. But then when he's around, kisses his ass. And she wants me to be around for this and for us to all hangout. But it's just UGH. I may need to just take space away from them for awhile. He walks all over her. When we went to Disneyland for my birthday in April, suddenly it turned into HIS party and he dictated where we went and got drunk the whole time and invited people to our hotel when we were trying to sleep. He also fought with her constantly while we were there. I don't want to sound selfish, but it was supposed to be about my birthday. And being happy together. Not about him going on a drunken rampage. It's just terrible. Because I know they're both good people as individuals. But you put them together and it's just no bueno. I really do need to save myself. And stop trying to save them from each other.

Posted by Rambunctious76

Posted by feby
Ramby, ok I'll follow your lead. Just I ask that you remember a few things. "No" means perhaps you can convince me and "Maybe" means yes absolutely.

*mutters* Damned Libra moons..

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Hey man, I'm a Leeb moon as well lol 😛 but my Aries sun has been set ablaze currently!! We need angry smilies!! lol

Maybe you're mistaken in what you perceived as her individuality. The question is are you rather be right or be happy? Why cant you be happy for her? Maybe all this anger is because your friend has focus on building a relationship without you in it. Aries, watch your ego. It shows.

There is nothing easier in this life than to piss off an Aries. 😄

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Maybe you're mistaken in what you perceived as her individuality. The question is are you rather be right or be happy? Why cant you be happy for her? Maybe all this anger is because your friend has focus on building a relationship without you in it. Aries, watch your ego. It shows.

You clearly have missed the point entirely. My friend is emotionally abused and controlled by this person and asks me for help and advice continuously. All I want is for her to be happy. The fact that you made this to be a post about my ego just shows the minuscule amount of attention you payed to the point of the thread.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
There is nothing easier in this life than to piss off an Aries. 😄

First, you troll a thread about Libra moons, and now you tear down Aries Suns. Without even taking a moment to evaluate the situation before stating your unfair opinion.

Posted by VirgoDragirl
Maybe you're mistaken in what you perceived as her individuality. The question is are you rather be right or be happy? Why cant you be happy for her? Maybe all this anger is because your friend has focus on building a relationship without you in it. Aries, watch your ego. It shows.

If anyone has an ego, it's a delusional Virgo asshat who only chooses to listen to the voices in their head.

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Posted by champranger
and just maybe ... some signs misunderstood Aries and cannot differentiate between a person showing care and a person attacking them?

oh i know this to be true. 😐

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I've never been told that my caring side seemed like I was attacking someone. Unless someone kept that from me? I could see an Aries concern seeming aggressive, buy my Leeb moon tones me down a bit. My anger on the other hand lol
I've been quite patient and kind with my Gem friend and feel torn between her and her bf because he's my friend too. I just know they're not happy.

But I'm bowing out; separation is necessary.