MidasDelima
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Taurus Man and Aries Woman, Taking the lead!
I just realised, I don't think I'm gonna be getting a lot of replies since all the Aries woman are probably rock climbing, falling off skyscrapers or living their crazy life instead of browsing forums or reading and answering posts!
Posted by RumiLoveYES! Thats what I've been doing to her since the beginning of the relationship and she loves it! But, I think as a Taurus it will take some time for me to not doubt everything she says and believe it all at face value. Taurus are generally suspicious, even with our loved ones because we're afraid of getting hurt/ disappointed, which inevitably ends up hurting the person we love (so I'm dealing with that on my own too)
My best friend is an Aries(with Cap moon) and she's been dating a Taurus guy(Aqua moon).
I'll just say, she cannot do anything...ANYTHING against his wish/likes. She's super loyal, both have fun. He is very supportive and protective of her 🙂
He also is very possessive of her(Taurus Venus), she loves it but she does not like how calm he becomes.
On stability, my friend needs it. I'd say be very stable...be like a rock for her, while engaging or matching up to her energy. My friend and her Taurus have a good wavelength ~ her words.
If it helps, my mom is Aries moon, and my dad a Taurus moon - been in love and married for 23 years this February! 🙂
Personally, I too feel Taurus could be best match for Aries, any sign could be.. But I love this pairing too. 🙂
EDIT -- you may be prepared for childish temper tantrums. Or even crying lol. Just remember, you are a stable earth sign, so be like a rock. That's what works between my parents and my friend.
@Ramparts, @AriesLady8 and @Infinite8, You guy's comment has given me hope! Everywhere I look on the internet has been filled with negativity on this pairing and I was actually very discouraged and doubtful! Especially, since half the time our jokes and communications are a hit and miss. There are times where we would click and just laugh non-stop and yet there are times where we seem to be indirectly insulting each other and getting angry over every little thing, only to realise a bit later that it was just miscommunication on our part! I guess thats mainly because the relationship is new and we're still figuring out how the other makes jokes and what not!
So thank you guys for the super awesome reply! I hope more aries woman or taurus man could post here to share me their experience, especially positive ones!
So thank you guys for the super awesome reply! I hope more aries woman or taurus man could post here to share me their experience, especially positive ones!
Posted by SensitiveBluesYepp, I realised that early on! I guess I'm just so used to dating other signs that prefer mind games and beating around the bush! I find the Aries woman to be a breath of fresh air letting me know of everything as it is and making sure I know what she is thinking all the time, instead of having to guess and figuring it out and then getting scolded/ or ignored if i misinterpret the girls! I like honesty 😄
dont play games with her. an aries will leave you in the dust and think nothing of it.
Posted by MidasDelimaYess, I cook really well so I've been spoiling her like crazy! I think she's really an amazing person and I'm glad I met her now where I'm more mature and settled!Posted by SensitiveBluesYepp, I realised that early on! I guess I'm just so used to dating other signs that prefer mind games and beating around the bush! I find the Aries woman to be a breath of fresh air letting me know of everything as it is and making sure I know what she is thinking all the time, instead of having to guess and figuring it out and then getting scolded/ or ignored if i misinterpret the girls! I like honesty 😄
dont play games with her. an aries will leave you in the dust and think nothing of it.
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So Update! Its been 2 weeks now since I last posted here? The relationship is going great, but we fight almost everyday, do you guys know why? Its seems like we fight about every little thing and it takes time for us to have to explain to each other what the other meant... I really like her, but I just wish we don't fight as often, most of the time, I have to take a step back and calm myself down, because we won't be getting anywhere being angry at each other. Sexually, we're very compatible and the tension is there, in terms of family background we're good too, all in all we seem very compatible, but we would fight about almost anything (like full blown out fights, mostly due to miscommunication). Is this common in this kind of Zodiac Pairing, early in the relationship? Because we were kind of expecting a honeymoon phase where its crazy, but instead we're either making out like crazy or fighting like crazy (I thought that was a Scorpio woman kind of thing). Don't get me wrong, I like fights when its witty and sexy, but these fights are more tedious and real, rather than playful and it gets boring real quick.
I have never dated a taurus man, but I have been in contact with one for a few month, what I can say is that we do communicate in a very different way.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.
Posted by champrangerI just think it's two different point of view, personally If I am bothered, I would say it so we can discuss it and move on from it right away, but taurus people prefer to think about it. I think there is not right or wrong, just two different way of acting. Like aries people would over communicate and taurus people would "under communicate". And I see how this could cause desagreement at the beginning of a relationship, but Iam sure that OP and his girlfriend will soon figure out how they both fonction and they will be able to adapt to each other.Posted by elogeanBut I don't relate to that. If I'm unhappy, I immediately go quiet because I need to evaluate first. Is it me being unreasonable? Is it the other person? Do I really need to bring it up? What would happen if I bring it up? How would it effect what I hope to achieve? I cannot do it when I am frustrated or angry or emotional. So I go quiet and wait for it pass first.
I have never dated a taurus man, but I have been in contact with one for a few month, what I can say is that we do communicate in a very different way.
For exemple, if something bother me, I will say it in a very direct and blunt way ... I am too impulsive to keep my feelings for myself.
When the taurus is unhappy, or bothered by something, he just go silent or distant for a few days. This is something I don't uderstand because I'd rather talk it out and move on right away...
Or when something happens, that must be the cause for his distance, unless I ask, he won't say it.
I have noticed that taurus and aries do communicate in a different way. But I guess that with time, you will both be able to understand each other to avoid those miscommunication problems.
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Posted by champrangerAnd Mars.Posted by MidasDelimaWhat's the Moon, Merc, and Venus for you and her?
So Update! Its been 2 weeks now since I last posted here? The relationship is going great, but we fight almost everyday, do you guys know why? Its seems like we fight about every little thing and it takes time for us to have to explain to each other what the other meant... I really like her, but I just wish we don't fight as often, most of the time, I have to take a step back and calm myself down, because we won't be getting anywhere being angry at each other. Sexually, we're very compatible and the tension is there, in terms of family background we're good too, all in all we seem very compatible, but we would fight about almost anything (like full blown out fights, mostly due to miscommunication). Is this common in this kind of Zodiac Pairing, early in the relationship? Because we were kind of expecting a honeymoon phase where its crazy, but instead we're either making out like crazy or fighting like crazy (I thought that was a Scorpio woman kind of thing). Don't get me wrong, I like fights when its witty and sexy, but these fights are more tedious and real, rather than playful and it gets boring real quick.click to expand
Posted by champrangerYes that's what I've heard, but I guess that OP might be open to adaptation since he is asking all those questions
Also, I don't think you can get a Taurus to adapt. You can show them reasons why they should.
IMO 🙂
Are Taurus considered more stuborn than Aries?
I like Taurus men
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.
Posted by MidasDelimaIt has nothing to do with how much we love you. We are not mind readers, you need to speak up. No one just knows what you're thinking or feeling.
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.
Never been with a Taurus long term but I do think this pairing could work. I have dated a Cancer with a Taurus moon and I really think that helped.
We Aries are very sentimental so this could work. I say go with the flow and just be yourself. She's with you for a reason. We Aries are not usually wishy washy when it comes to choosing a mate. And IMO I like the slow and steady love makes it fun for my impatient nature having to wait for what I want. We are like children but like children we appreciate something more if we get to chase and work for it rather than it being handed to us (yes even for us Aries women).
You will do fine if you are the slow kind of loving. IME it never worked out with me and Tauruses because the ones I met were really pushy and I didn't like that. Or boring. Just let her ride the train and come along for the adventure. We Aries love to be in charge. But don't be afraid to put her in her place once and a while and take the lead. We like to be in charge but we want a man to sweep us off our feet and nothing is more sexy than a man taking the lead.
Good luck 🙂
We Aries are very sentimental so this could work. I say go with the flow and just be yourself. She's with you for a reason. We Aries are not usually wishy washy when it comes to choosing a mate. And IMO I like the slow and steady love makes it fun for my impatient nature having to wait for what I want. We are like children but like children we appreciate something more if we get to chase and work for it rather than it being handed to us (yes even for us Aries women).
You will do fine if you are the slow kind of loving. IME it never worked out with me and Tauruses because the ones I met were really pushy and I didn't like that. Or boring. Just let her ride the train and come along for the adventure. We Aries love to be in charge. But don't be afraid to put her in her place once and a while and take the lead. We like to be in charge but we want a man to sweep us off our feet and nothing is more sexy than a man taking the lead.
Good luck 🙂
*Drive the train or ride it too ‚‚
Posted by AriesIntrovert16True, as an aries woman, one thing I can say is that I don't understand subtility. If someone got something to tell me, it is faster to tell me.Posted by MidasDelimaIt has nothing to do with how much we love you. We are not mind readers, you need to speak up. No one just knows what you're thinking or feeling.
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.click to expand
Posted by MidasDelimaSounds like power play to me. Happens most often with two dominant people.
So Update! Its been 2 weeks now since I last posted here? The relationship is going great, but we fight almost everyday, do you guys know why? Its seems like we fight about every little thing and it takes time for us to have to explain to each other what the other meant... I really like her, but I just wish we don't fight as often, most of the time, I have to take a step back and calm myself down, because we won't be getting anywhere being angry at each other. Sexually, we're very compatible and the tension is there, in terms of family background we're good too, all in all we seem very compatible, but we would fight about almost anything (like full blown out fights, mostly due to miscommunication). Is this common in this kind of Zodiac Pairing, early in the relationship? Because we were kind of expecting a honeymoon phase where its crazy, but instead we're either making out like crazy or fighting like crazy (I thought that was a Scorpio woman kind of thing). Don't get me wrong, I like fights when its witty and sexy, but these fights are more tedious and real, rather than playful and it gets boring real quick.
Posted by elogean@midasPosted by AriesIntrovert16True, as an aries woman, one thing I can say is that I don't understand subtility. If someone got something to tell me, it is faster to tell me.Posted by MidasDelimaIt has nothing to do with how much we love you. We are not mind readers, you need to speak up. No one just knows what you're thinking or feeling.
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.click to expand
Why don't you act like a mature ADULT and communicate what you need to communicate. Nobody is a mind reader. And to think that someone can is selfish and childish. Like "Wahh, do what I want when I want without me telling you."
Psshhh... Grow up dude.
Posted by MidasDelimaI don't know about all that. The Taurus I liked played games and was controlling he was also a liar. With that said I still like Taurus men And would give a good one a chance. But y'all do have your shit with you like every other sign in the zodiac.
Why can't Aries woman understand that Taurus man isn't that complicated? All we need is to be fed, attended to and be reminded that we're the only person in the world for them now and then. We do not need your grand gesture of love, we do not need you to stop hanging out with all your guy friends (yes we do get jealous, but we'll get over it when you come home and make out with us or spoil us with compliments (we're vain) and affection). Why can't Aries woman understand that we're not that demanding? That we're just as simple minded as you guys are, but rather than saying everything, we're hoping that you catch on and take the initiative, because if we teach you... Than we'll doubt how genuine you are in loving us... SIGH.
Hiya, I'm Aries, and went out with an Aries woman for seven years, also my best friends are aries women. my brother and my dad are Taurus and I've always got along with Taurus because of it. I would say the most common thing Aries and Taurus have in common is that they are both achievers, they both want goals/targets, but whereas Aries may have a goal and get bored, Taurus are more stubborn and run at the goal non-stop and avoid any distractions. Therefore my advice to you is find a physical sport activity and tell her you want to be the best at it. Aries want to be the best and are very competitive. Dancing salsa together could be an option, I know aries women from salsa and they want to be the best, so do I, and we can practise together, achieve together, and it's something there's always more to learn and another level so it doesn't get boring, something you can practise until you perfect it (Aries are perfections). But I would also say gym buddies is a good option, Aries like the gym but sometimes get bored or if they don't feel like it's a challenge, they wont be bothered. You need to tell her that not everyone can make it to the gym, and going is healthy and will build will power, something like that, something that will lead to improvement.
I've never thought of Aries as slow lovers, I think it's more intense, more crazy and passionate and immediate and unexpected.
I know Taurus women, I've never really been attracted to them, because I know they are long term calm players, I see them as good work colleagues and I will achieve goals with them, but a bit too calm to be anything else. I would say work on your impulsive side, randomly ask out for dinner to best restaurants. I think it can work out though. I just don't know what do you do when Aries woman gets firey, and you are calm? When I argued with my Aries ex, it was a bomb site, but we were quick to forget and would be out partying five minutes later. Taurus hold grudges? I would say let go of grudges, and rememeber Aries forget straight after an argument, they may even laugh afterwards about how insane it was. Good luck dude.
@Op- A fire sign with an Earth sign, a great friendship will happen, both people bring out something the other doesn't or lacks. Possibly for a Taurus more excitement, possibly for an Aries more stability. Both have to compromise sometimes though, and being friends is a good start to see if you both are compatible in more ways than one..
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