Aries woman and Taurus man

The other night I posted this on this website, but I seemed to have lost and cann't find it anywhere!!!! So here goes again guys -

For the last 3 months, I have been getting to know a guy through an internet dating website. And I have enjoyed every minute of it. We have just about talked about everything, from the downright mundane to the downright exciting!!!!

"So what?" I hear you all say. Well the problem is he seems to be taking all the time in the world to actually get around to saying that he will come and meet me. Now, I have had it out with him several times, and he always tells me that he cares very much for me, that he likes me alot, that he cann't imagine a day without texting, emailing or calling me the odd time. He always reassures me and does so in a nice way. And doesn't seem to get impatient with me, or decide he's had enough of my nagging and do a runner.

BUT he is also stalling on saying something like "I'm coming to see you on such a day" and make arrangements from there. He just seems to be so laid back, relaxed taking his time and in no hurry whatsoever. And it is driving me nuts. It really is. Why oh why is he like this? Please tell me guys !!!!!!!!!!!!!

We don't live near each other at all, quite a distance in fact. Plus he has a lot of changes in his life lately, and none of them are very pleasant. He always tells me whats happening, and confides in me about everything that is going on. But I just cann't wait to meet him. I know I will most probably fall hook line and sinker for him. But I need to see his reaction, and will he like me in the flesh and not just internet/mob/phone contact. I need to see his reaction and take it from there. Sometimes, it's almost physical the longing I have for him. So I'm gettign to the stage where I think I will have to back off and cool down abit, for my own sake, and maybe give him space. Maybe that's what he really wants.

So what do ye think, any info/advice greatly appreciated. Much take it easy on me OK?

Let him come around to you, By you asking him to come over, he feels obligated to do so, then by assuring you will be over, maybe he is still scopeing things out in his mind still. Switch the Game up,I dont know about other bulls, but i like to play mind games and when i see them comming i thrive on the thrill. One thing you could do, is start talking to another maie and talk about how good of a time you too are haveing, i dont care if he as only seen pics of you, he will obtain a Stronger Drive to win the battle, you just dont want to overdue it for hge will feel it would be a waste of his time and move foraward. idk thats just my view, i fall for it every time.

Thank you for that. I will think about what you hve advised. But I am not a huge fan of mind games, I did plenty of that when I was younger. I just don't think I could take it now. But we'll see. Today alone, I have cooled off big time, and he's worried cos he's texted & emailed me loads. If he didn't really give a damn he wouldn't bother contacting me at all.

What i ment to say, is he is very intrested in you, but you have a couple of options, you could sit and wait till he makes the move, or you could help him with a push. I think if you wait and see, you might be surpised though.

OK, understand abit better now thanks. But why do you think that he is so interested in me?

idk one of my good friends is a Ram, She is Very fun to be around and talk to, She doesnt beat around any bushes so to speak, Shes Straight foraward in her thiking and whens she feels Right, no matter how wrong she is, she will fight to prove he point, I see that and admire that, You seem to put it out there and in the open, We bull like Honest people.But what i think is you seem Very intrested in him, Which he knows, I think(again I am one person) That he is testing the waters, long distant relationships ae hard but can work.With you there to support him, and Not bossing him around, he will Move forward to a area within the two of yous relationship.

Idk if i answered your question tho,

Yes I am going to cool it abit, and see how it goes. But for how long, I really don't know. I mean the best compliment you can pay someone is to go and meet them. Otherwise, they think there is something wrong with them.

Hello all again
Well hopefully he doesn't have a BO problem!!!! But if I could actually get to meet him and smell him and check that & everything else out aswell, I would be a very happy woman!!!!!
King Bull, I still think that he really wants space and perhaps I should just give it to him. Maybe with everything else going on in his life, he just doesn't have time/energy for me. I keep saying to myself, just take it one day at a time. Don't do anything hasty. But if he doesn't pay me the "compliment" of wanting to meet me soon, I don't think I can wait. Even though, I have such strong feelings for him.

Sounds like this is a personal test for yourself. Patients is a Virtue, Hang in there dont get fustrated and doubt yourself, or the intergirty of your relatonship. Time is of the essence and u are in a race with time. I think if you dont let up, then things might work out for the best.

Thanks for that King Bull, I will chant the "Patience is a virtue" saying every day and see if that makes me eternally patient !!!!!!!
SagitTAUries - perhaps your sarcastic/ironic take on life could be better used in another post and you could call it something like "Alernative views on dating".