Today my heart is sad and sore

I been seeing a guy (Leo) for around two and a half months. I think it's over now, and my heart is sad and sore over a guy for the first time in about 6 years.
I felt he wasn't treating me with enough respect so I sent him a mail telling him I deserve to be treated like a lady and not a whore on call. He has not replied. Not sure if he even will. But I least I stood up for myself. I feel good about that. It'll just be sad if he decides no to man up about it because I did like him as a person. 😢

Is that really the words you used to him? From what you have said in another thread you two were having a relationship the type of which you had both agreed on from the start, it would seem to me therefore that he had no clue that he was "treating you like a whore", more that he was acting in the relationship exactly the way you two had agreed it should be, and your email would appear to be pretty unfair in that instant. You have started to want more from him, with that email you have probably lost any chance of that.

Posted by celticlioness
Is that really the words you used to him? From what you have said in another thread you two were having a relationship the type of which you had both agreed on from the start, it would seem to me therefore that he had no clue that he was "treating you like a whore", more that he was acting in the relationship exactly the way you two had agreed it should be, and your email would appear to be pretty unfair in that instant. You have started to want more from him, with that email you have probably lost any chance of that.

In hindsight, it was harsh, and I wish I had chosen more tactful words... but Aries are famous for speaking first and thinking later... I have to live with what I said.
I'm lucky though... he replied, as straight forward as I had been with him, he said he's never thought of me as a whore, but if I was starting to feel like one we should relook the entire arrangement because he doesnt want to hurt me. He also said he thinks I am awesome and really enjoys having me in his life, and although his mail wasnt intended to get me out of his life, he can't offer me more than what he is giving me now. He said it is up to me to decide whether I can handle it or not... At least now I know for sure not to get my feelings involved and to guard myself a bit more.

😢 Aries men can be total jerks.
Being an Aries myself...yeah I am totally not like the typical Aries man.
I was seeing one for awhile and at first it was all flowers and sunshine, then BAM! He didn't want a relationship, he never contacted me, he was hard to talk to.
I gave up...a few years later I ran into him again, we exchanged numbers, he said he regretted what happened before and the way he treated me.

We made plans to get together, we texted all day and night for a few days, then the night came where we were supposed to get together and it didn't happen. The next day I text him and never received a response. Nothing...again.
I really gave up that time.

He gets no third chance. I am ashamed he's an Aries to be honest.