What are the chances of reconciliation?

I'd been dating my Aries boy for a few months, it was incredible, he was so into me etc, and I'd never been this crazy about anyone before, then I had to move cities cause of jobs. Once I moved things changed, he wouldn't be around alot, we'd barely talk, and everytime I'd go back home, he's be reluctant to meet. Eventually one fine day, he broke up with me over a text, saying he doesn't see us working out. I was shattered, I went home, he refused to meet, making excuses, and I fought with him and he stopped talking to me, not responding to my emails and texts.

This was two months ago. I came back, there was this Cancer boy here at work who really liked me, and in my foolish and desperate attempt to get over my Aries I started going out with him. He's such a nice boy, he knows nothing about my Aries guy. And he's caring, protective and always around. But I feel nothing. I've been trying to get over my ex, but it's so hard, every time I see any online update from him I totally break down. Last week he sent me a text as his grandfather was ill, and blood transfusion was needed, and I had the same blood group. This was the first communication we had since that whole fight episode. I wasn't in the city, but I told him I'd fly home immediately if required. He said he'll let me know if they can't arrange it and that was that.

I've kept myself busy, immersed in work, but nothing helps. Been going out alot more then I did. And am moving back home.

We were so good together, had so much fun. I just wish I could see him once. I just wish there was a hope of reconciliation. There was noone as amazing as him, and I doubt there would be. No chance of reconciliation?

If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you. We Aries are simple and straightforward. If we want to be with you, you will know it. If I am in love with a woman I will move mountains to be with her.

He has already told you he doesn't think it will work out. We aries don't play games like that. I would not break up with a girl to create drama and have her chasing me.

If you do not have feelings for this Cancer guy, why are you using him as a placeholder? That's just plain cruel to keep someone around when you feel nothing for them. You're stringing him along to make yourself feel wanted, meanwhile he's developing feelings for you that are not returned.

Sigh. I know what you're saying. And it's all true. The Cancer boy has himself stepped out of a relationship, so even though I haven't shared my past with him, he has and he's said he's cautious with us. Besides, he's leaving country in a coupla months, so he's not looking for anything serious. Which was one of the reasons, I thought this would be the safest method of trying to move on.

I guess I need some time with myself, and figure things out. Figure a way to move on. We just had such a wonderful time together. And I miss him everyday, every minute. I guess it's true when they say, if a Leo girl falls in love with an Aries boy, she'll take forever to get over him. It'll take me years before I forget this affair.

I just wish he'd just meet me once. It all feels so unfulfilled at my end.

Ramses is right, Aries will move mountains to be with the one they love but it takes time to get there.
AH, my dear sweet Leo. You have so much love to give, any guy would be lucky to have you in his life. For whatever reason, this guy decided he wasn't in it for the long haul. That's good for you to know now so you can be free to move on. A few months isn't enough to be truly in love so take that in stride. It's really the promise of where it was leading that is so intoxicating. Please do not be put off an Aries in the future as we can be great together. But know this, even if you are consumed by the flames of infatuation in the early stages, give an Aries man space and time to come to you. Do not be afraid to test what you have with a guy. We all get to that crucial crossroads at some point where what we thing we have or actually have is tested. Only in movies does the music swell and both parties feel exactly the same at the same time. So, do you for now. Take care of yourself and enjoy living in your new city. Do not contact the Aries anymore and IF he wants you back, he will let you know.

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I guess I need some time with myself, and figure things out. Figure a way to move on. We just had such a wonderful time together. And I miss him everyday, every minute. I guess it's true when they say, if a Leo girl falls in love with an Aries boy, she'll take forever to get over him. It'll take me years before I forget this affair.

Hi, having an issue of sorts with an Aries man myself! Thought you might be interested in this! you're his 5, he's your 9 so quite possibly you will find him hard to get over :-)


# 5 is your romance sign. This is the sign you're most likely to put on a pedestal, to adore. A mystery and awe, a deep, innocent feeling will overcome you when you fall under # 5's spell. This is your sign of beauty and pleasure, and often the love you feel toward your # 5 is returned, because you're your # 5's # 9, another strong love sign.

The massive potency of a # 1 - # 5 relationship will not happen every time these two signs meet - if you meet twelve new people per week (including the gas station attendant, bus driver, etc., etc.) then you will typically meet over 50 representatives of your # 5 sign every year - 500 in a decade. For the average person, even one major love per decade is a "feat." So nature itself prevents us from being vulnerable to every # 5 acquaintanceship. But when you're ready to fall, # 5 is more likely than any other sign to paint your life with love's sweet, luminous sting. A beauty emanates from him or her; it surrounds you and paints your world with magic's trance; the most impoverished room, the dingiest factory corner, is bathed in deep splendour.

This is the sign you're most likely to put on a pedestal. At first, at least, it is very hard to see # 5's flaws. (Which might make you resent them more deeply when they do show.) The kind of passions # 5 triggers often wear out or grow suffocating after a year or two - it's just too much for the human organism to sustain. A #1 - # 5 relationship, to endure, needs some refreshing excitement, some outside socializing, lightness and air. With these, a # 1-# 5 can last forever. You will never forget a # 5 relationship, whether it was reciprocated or not, for it opened your eyes to an unexpected, overwhelming beauty.


# 9 will first approach you on a mental, conversational or "easy charm" level. Even if you're meeting a # 9 who's going to become the

He's your 9.

# 9 will first approach you on a mental, conversational or "easy charm" level. Even if you're meeting a # 9 who's going to become the love of your life, it's likely that at first you won't feel a strong attraction. You only feel comfortable, charmed, bemused - yet somehow, you don't leave, and the hours fly by. Slowly, and often with gentle humor, this sign takes your mind, and leads it into the forests of love. (Your body willingly tags along, too.)

A relationship with # 9 will expand your horizons, broaden your understanding, and often lead you into far travel or higher education. You "grow up" after an affair with # 9. But a #1-# 9 relationship has the same potential weakness as a #1-#5: the love can flare too intensely to burn for decades. It surrounds you, it throws your life into a conflagration, it burns all its fuel away. Then lassitude comes. If this combination is to succeed as a marriage, the two of you need some "friction providers" - some planetary obstacles to keep you from enveloping (and eventually suffocating) each other. "Intensity providers" (planetary aspects that promote roman tic/sexual intensity) are unfortunately not always a solution, as these might 1) burn the flame out sooner, or 2) send this love past the bounds of realism, even of reality, leaving both lovers "lost in space."