Which sign pushes all your wrong buttons

Which sign pushes all your wrong buttons

As in terms of not getting along with the slightest.

Libra here ... I don't know why they say we are supposed to get along ... I can't stand them

Ex boss Libra, ex team leader Libra, ex colleague Libra, current manager Libra ... they all full of shit .. talk and no action ... inefficient and unorganised ... so arrogant .. they drive this Aries crazy!

I pretty much get along with most signs. The only ones I can think of are early Aries females and Capricorn females. I don't share the same serious approach to life as a 1st decan Aries being that my decan is ruled by Jupiter. Actually, my brother is early Aries (March 24) and we've had the same issues. It's probably more due to 3rd decan vs. 1st decan than sex. 1st decan seems to be more serious, more intent on dominating and are quite stubborn. 3rd decan is more happy go lucky. I don't have to be the leader but will be if needed. It's just that my ego isn't wrapped in it nor into what I consider to be petty arguments. I'll give up control but watch to make sure it's going in a fair way. This isn't to say I don't have a lot of respect for 1st or 2nd decans Aries, it's just a very different energy.

Cap females, well this is in a career situation and I had one befriend me just so she could get info to use against me. Fortunately, I knew her game and she was found out but I do have a bad taste in my mouth about their scheming and ruthless ways. A part of me admires their ambition but how it's gained at any cost just grates me. I almost feel sorry for them when they make fools out of themselves in front of superiors. Cap men I get along with great but haven't met that many Cap women without feeling like I was in a competition and I don't feel that way with other cardinal women. Wish we could put crap aside and be kinder to one another.

Aquarius's did confound me and they definitely need to be studied. For one, how do they get along so well with Leo's when Leo's are supremely demanding of time. love and affection when Aqua's are infamous for their dissociative qualities? I see lots of Aqua/Leo suns or moons together but they seem the most apart than any other opposite I've known. Yet, I know Aqua's are capable of deep abiding love to that special person, mostly Libra's and Leo's. Possibly because they ( Libra's & Leo's) seem to be more willing to work for what they want and expect their needs to be met so blatantly that it makes the Aqua secure enough to give? Maybe include Sag's too but other signs, no, we need to see something from Aqua's before we give too much or we'll take their distance as a clue it isn't worth pursuing. It's hard to fight for something if you're not given enough clues that it's worth it.

Mine: most definitely Scorpio at the top of my astro 'shit list'. With the exception of the two girls I'm besties with every other scorp has proved themselves to suck as people. I've written my dad's sister off. She's the most putred creature I've ever met! And I've also had a scorp boss which I despise as a person too. I find them calculating, manipulative, lying, sly and although they might make kinky lovers -- they talk way too much during sex! Seriously! I don't trust them as far as I can see them.

In close second, I would also have to say Cap females and then Taurus females. I thought it was just because it's my sister who is a Cap, but Mistery
Also mentioned them. The Taurus female is my sister's bestie and was my housemate where I lived overseas. That didn't end well. But I'm far more tolerant of them because although both signs gossip a lot, they have good hearts. We're just very different people who look at life in extremely different ways. There's nohing wrong with that.... It's just we don't understand each other's perspective on life. They seem to live life by some textbook which I clearly did not receive and caused me to live life my own way. According to the Taurus: who has clear boundary issues (she never knocked and always barged in. There was no privacy or anything 'sacred'. Sorry -- but toilet time is ME time and it needs to be done alone!), I shower wrong. I stand facing the wrong way in the shower! Also -- it's 2011! People don't NEED to get married OR have kids and they revolve their entire lives around this one thing that is SUPPOSED to happen and have all these expectations of how life is MEANT to go down and then are disappointed when things don't go their way. And they can't read between the lines and see the bigger picture!

They're also very naive and believe bullshit men dish out to them far too easily. I see some of the shit they take from men and I pretty much am doing backflips in my mind over how that guy would never even made it through the door let alone moving into my house to share my personal space while deceiving me and using me!

Cap guys and Taurus guys are different. I love my Cap and Taurus guy friends. They're like my brothers. I bond with them very easily.

Oh yes: my sister is the only person on the planet that causes me to lose my temper so badly that I get violent. I've picked up stuff and smashed house and her car windows because she fucked me off so much. I moved out of the house I was staying in (which my dad owns) so that she could move in there and live there with her husband and kid while they rented their house out because her dipshit husband got them into financial shit and they needed money to pay off all the loans he'd taken out. I had some stuff left at the house and she just threw it out on the pavement because I was taking my time coming to fetch it, breaking almost everything I had paid good, hard earned money for! I lost it. I thought fuck you: I'll show you what it feels like to have someone else fuck your shit up. I picked up a chair and started smashing windows in the house and then she snickered and said "ha ha... it's not my windows, it's dad's" so I thought "fine... We'll see how that works out for you" and took the chair to her car windows. She didn't think it was that funny then. Then she tried to cause shit for me with my dad over it and he defended me and told her off for breaking all my shit after I moved out of where I was very comfortable living to give her and her family a place to live.

I've also had my foot up against her head warning her that if she opened her mouth one more time after an argument I tried to let roll off my back and she kept going on about one day, my foot would be going through her head. She launched some stupid verbal attack on me the one day telling me how I thought I was better than everyone after I tried to get her to stop causing an ugly scene in a shopping mall one day while I was out in town with them. And initially I just told her -- calmly -- to let it go. But she didn't, she carried on and on and on to the point where my reactions went from "just let it go" to "just keep quiet" and then to "seriously -- you need to shut your mouth" and then to "I'm warning you, you'd better shut your fucking mouth" and in the end my foot was up against her head in the car on the way home with me saying "I swear to god, if you open your mouth one more fucking time, my foot WILL go through your head!" needless to say her mouth did not open again.

I'm not proud of my reactions but she seems to be the only person on the planet who can provoke me to the point of violence.

I can only think of Aquarius. I really don't get them. I had an Aqua female roommate and tried numerous times to befriend her but she didn't reciprocate. Just got a cool, disinterested response. Ok, fine, we don't have to be bff's but can't we at least be two humans that look out for each other since we dwell under the same roof? No, not according to her. I found out after the fact that while she was just literally steps away from me that she had a life threatening medical issue and didn't let me know. She almost died (her appendix burst) waiting for her friends to return her calls to take her to the hospital instead of let me take her. 10 hours she waited while I could see she was sick and asked if I could do anything. Because of this, she stayed in the hospital for 3 weeks. They live by some odd Aqua induced credo rather than let someone help them in a dire situation. That to me, is just plain stupid and pretty damn arrogant. Was glad when she moved out as I feared if I was in a similar situation, she wouldn't move a muscle to help me. With Pisces I see the compassion, Aqua's, I don't know what the hell astrology means when it says that they care about humanity. Probably as a populace rather than individuals. No, they're too cold for me. Ok, shouldn't say that in general, it may not fit all Aqua's but that one roommate was cold as ice and one strange creature I don't even care to understand when I gave and gave to her.

Ok two signs really annoy me and that would be Pisces and Aquarius. Pisces are extremely wishy washy can't really depend on them, and Aquarius are just too damn chatty, I hate talking and they talk to much for me.

Posted by DeadRingerr
Pisces...they do it on purpose...they love to see what pisses people off..I do to but to a certain extent, Pisces usually got to far.

I noticed that , and I think its very mean.

I have found that I do not click well with March Pisces both male and female. And I can't stand November Scorpio females because they are loud and raunchy. Several times had to put them in their place including the worst troll of all my mother in law! March Pisces come off as boring and fake. When a woman doesn't like me for no reason (jealous) I learn that she is a weakling Pisces. The men are attractive but a complete bore..lol

Posted by aliennation
But only because I worry about the consequences of acting otherwise.

Hoooly shit, guys...they weren't kidding about the Aries temper.

@ lotuslilly - didn't you worry about your sister suing you for assault and for threats of bodily harm? Lol that's the kind of thing I'd be worried about.

Lol... I come from Africa, not America... People don't sue each other for every little thing here. I don't think I even know anyone who has been sued. If I do then it's for stuff like custody of kids and maintenance.

Like I said, I'm not proud of my reactions and for the most part -- although I can be a bit of a fire cracker and mouth off when someone fucks me off -- I'm quite a mellow person who doesn't actually like conflict or bad vibes at all. I'd much rather feel chilled out and on good terms with everyone and the universe.

Controlling my temper is, however, something I have been consciously working on. I have noticed that in any situation that requires me to stand up for myself, I automatically shift into 'throw down a verbal beat down' mode and I have been working on changing that and finding a more peaceful and positive way to convey my POV and get what I want. Sometimes i remember my new onjective and sometimes i don't. Its a work in progress. Recently I have tried a new tactic when I'm upset and remember to check my feisty at the door and I actually just speak to people nicely and that seems to be reasonably effective too. Haha! Who knew!!! I guess my bad temper just became habit because at one point I must've noticed it was the quickest and most effective way of standing up for myself. I think it's because I've always had to take care of myself and haven't had anyone around to defend me -- not that I need it or anything -- I'm capable of fighting my own battles, but it's just recently, I've learnt that not everything needs to be a battle. I don't need to scare the living shit out of people to get them to listen to me. Of course there are times where you do try and play nice and people will just assume you're a doormat not to be taken seriously and then a verbal beat down is fairly necessary to remind them who the fuck they're dealing with... But I'm learning slowly but surely that people are actually quite understanding if you just be real with them.

At least I'm trying to make myself a better person! A lot more than some people out ther

Those are the only two times I've completely lost it though! So please don't judge me. It was also like four years ago and I've grown a lot since then.

@blue: you quoted my temper confession and didn't say anything afterward....—?

I think as we grow up we tend to control our temper better. I am not vilonet when I am angry, when i was a kid, I used to say something, slam the door and that's about it, these days I don't even do that, I just pull myself and get away from the thing or the person who anger me, people should know to leave me alone when I am angry, because if they come running after me, they're likely to hear something they won't like, something I probably don't mean and would regret saying later on, but yeah as long as they leave me alone, I'll cool off in my own time.

I find it interesting because I get along with earth and scorps pretty well. I had Caps, Taurus and scorps as housemates and they were the best friends you can wish for. One of my best friends from uni is a cap, I knew him for almost 9 years, he is really a good friend. I have a close friend who is Taurus and she is so cool to be around.

^ lol .. I have a friend who is a Virgo, he is just so funny and attracts all sort of trouble anywhere he goes, you can never get bored in his presence. I know another guy who is a Virgo which I don't find annoying just a bit boring lol

@ aliennation: lol you're so funny, I've read few of your posts and you always come up with something quirky to say ..

Your style .. I like :p

Posted by virg_goki
strange... i expected virgo men to annoy the crap out of arien fellows

They swear us Aries don't get along with Virgo's, but I for one adore Virgos. Most of the ones I know have a great sense of humor and I love their outlook on life. My step brother is a Virgo and we always share crazy laughs together. It may be my Pisces moon too.

Posted by oxlostxo
As in terms of not getting along with the slightest.

Libra here ... I don't know why they say we are supposed to get along ... I can't stand them

Ex boss Libra, ex team leader Libra, ex colleague Libra, current manager Libra ... they all full of shit .. talk and no action ... inefficient and unorganised ... so arrogant .. they drive this Aries crazy!

I don't know where you read that says we were supposed to get along ethier.

Posted by aliennation

haha, no judgments from me. I wish I was in an environment where I could release my Leo rising to friskily run around and RAWR !! 😛

But nope. My parents drilled it into me that if I showed my anger, then I was "sociopathic future murderer." And I live in a land where people sue if you forget to say good morning to them. I exaggerate, but not by much...lol.

I have Aries sun, Leo moon and Scorpio rising! Double fire and double mars....

Posted by TheBeautifulStruggle

Posted by oxlostxo
As in terms of not getting along with the slightest.

Libra here ... I don't know why they say we are supposed to get along ... I can't stand them

Ex boss Libra, ex team leader Libra, ex colleague Libra, current manager Libra ... they all full of shit .. talk and no action ... inefficient and unorganised ... so arrogant .. they drive this Aries crazy!

I don't know where you read that says we were supposed to get along ethier.

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I was looking that up the other day because I wasn't sure wether or not Aries is supposed to get along with Libra, and I came across this web page that says our best matches are: sag and leo, and in second place: aqua, gem and Libra, but I beg to differ

I live with an Aqua right now and it drives me insane. This person is dense and doesn't understand how to socialize in any acceptable way. I definitely am learning all too much about Aqua bad traits, in the case of my roommate.

Capricorns, though I admire a lot of their qualities, usually are the first to trigger my temper. Just get under my skin when they play fast and loose with some social scenarios. Usually I get irritated by sign personalities that can't take their own medicine.

Pieces I don't understand their manipulation patterns though I don't mind go along for the ride sometimes. It is definitely a turn off in some personal situations but doesn't necessarily get under my skin.

Regarding the decan topic, I am an Aries Decan I, and see a definite difference in Decan III personality. I definitely feel more in tuned with the hot-headed, hot-blooded side of being an Aries, and I definitely see Decan III's as more happy go lucky about anything and everything. I have seen them be very Aries and stand up for what they believe in, so I don't knock them, I just am more in your face about things and tend to feel more akin to even our fist-waving brothers and sisters haha

I will be curious to find out my boss's sign, he is so cool as are my coworkers that I would like to see how many are compatible and who are shockingly on my sh1tlist haha. I will report back one day.

Every single one of them, at least right now.
I feel like a ticking time bomb around anyone

Cancers, fucking Cancers. Cancer's always seem to lie to me, beat around the bush, manipulate, exaggerate, and double deal. I have two Cancer friends, but every other Cancer I know has crossed me multiple times. None of them can look me in the eye when I confront them about their shit either, or accept accountability for the truth of the matter. I even had a Cancer girlfriend that used me to fuck one of my trusted friends (who was also a Cancer)

Well im head over heels for my aries. We've had a crush on one another since we little. Now that we're older I just cant get enough of him. I would spend every second of everyday with him if I could. I love his masculinity and that fact that he's strong in all the areas that I am not. He inspires me, if you will. To be more firm, and lot more aggressive (I was this way when I first met him, but I wasn't in love yet.) Im a libra and when we fall in love we turn to mush, and we often over think everything because we simply must prepare for the consequences. My aries shows me that not everything has to be planned, sometimes its okay to go with the moment, and wait for the fireworks, and if there' aren't any life goes on. Still doesn't change my fear of being hurt, but it certainly helps me get a grip sometimes. Libra women and Aries men can work for various reasons and im not saying this because im a libra woman in love with an aries, im saying this because I've done my freakin homework.lol. But some things, astrology just cant explain. A person is person. However we work because we are opposites. Complete opposites. He lacks where im strong, and vise versa and because we were friends first we opt to help each other not bring one another down for where the other lacks. Don't get me wrong he's pushy and a little selfish, and very picky. He's a little on the bossy side, but I think its cute that he "thinks" he can tell me what to do. Im an air sign, I do what I want to do. But I know aries likes to run the show, in which I don't care as long as he treats me right a remember's that im his woman not his servant. He says I have a smart mouth, but I think he likes it. No one likes anyone soft ALL the time.

^^^ me too!! My Aries had the whole table laughing at dinner last night with his honesty. But he was DEAD serious, and didnt see the joke. lmbo, but he laughed anyway.lol