Why is it so hard to let go after a break up? :-(

I hate feeling this way. It hurts too much 😢

heartbreak lets you know you're alive.

i'm not sure what's worse. experiencing it or fearing/knowing that you will never experience it again.

you will breathe again as the song goes. start a diary. get your thoughts down on paper. it takes time to write it all out and by the time you're done an entry, you will have cried yourself out...for the moment at least.

And its been two months. Should've been over it by now.

because you're emotional, and when you let your barriers down and allow someone in, you become vulnerable and you want that person to treat it special because it's something special, but it's not to be shared with anybody.

Feel the pain, experience, and then don't allow it to happen to you again. Nobody deserves to hurt somebody else, especially when it comes to the matter of the heart. Thing is, people are so selfish when it comes to love, because it's all about what they want and what they are looking for. What about the other person involved—?

When something becomes one-sided, then the relationship is over. It's about balance, give and take, give and take..... but in order to take, you have to have something to give. And when you give, it doesn't give you a pass to just take what you want...... balance.

One day you will have it..... you will meet somebody who will fit into your life, and they will sneak up on you unexpectingly. Be strong.......

virgos are so damn morbid!

this is what i was getting at about virgos thinking they deserve something just because they've given something. you gave your heart. she chose not to give hers in return. ok, and? a virgo gives you a gift that they worked hard for and put a lot of thought into. you say thank you and give them a hug. they're offended.

overall, i dont think your issues have less to do with her being an aries and more to do with your being a virgo and your not understanding that not everything is a mutual give and take. sometimes you give your all and get little or nothing in return. you have to be willing to accept people as they are and if you haven't learned that in 16 years, maybe that was one of the problems 16 years ago.

dangit...

and that doesn't mean that you should stay in a situation that sucks. the point is, learning to be ok with people's short-comings. realizing that no one is perfect and not allowing that to depress the hell out of you.

Sorry to hear Honey

Posted by Lady_M
Sorry to hear Honey

Thank you. and its so weird. Its exactly the same issue we had with saying I love you (if you remember). Oh well. I'm reluctantly trying to move on...

This breakup is more painful than the break up I had with my kids father who I was with for 10 years.

I can't wait to get over this..