Why my aries man stop calling?

We broke up 12 years ago because I was to young he said. And I disappeared because I was tired Of him coming and checking on me. So in January I got entough with him and we talked for 4 hours about old and new. He told me that he loved me back then and that he should have married me. He asked did I ever think about us and him and I never said yes or no. Anyway we had been talking on the phone and seeing each other for about 3 weeks. I am married going through a divorce and he just got out of his marriage a year ago. So he said he was not looking for a relationship because he do not want to disappoint anyone, and since he left me he has been down through it. So he is not ready, ok that was fine. When we first saw each other all of the feelings came back and the attraction was there for the both of us, we were hot together back then all good. But we did not have sex, the last time I saw him we did if you call it that becasue it was over in 4 seconds.

I called him a few days later and he said i wanted him for my hooker and I needed to find me a boyfriend. So I told him it was nice seeing him and he agreed so we basicly said good bye. A week later he called so I talked for about 30 mins, then I called like 2 days later no answer. He called back the next day and said he has been working and avoiding me, eventhough I never said that. After that I called back like 4 days later and no answer I havent heard from him in 3 weeks so should I just assume it is over? Also he is having financial problems and is feeling very bad about that. But still should I take it like everything was a lie and it is over?

Well, I know it wasn't anything but my question is am I to disappear like I always or if he call do I answer? And he wanted me to help him with his business since I have a degree in management because it is doing badly. Just wanted to know was the things he was telling me all lies, like him missing me, and thinking about me all the time?

I want eventually a relationship with him but at this moment I just want my friend back. It is more to this story but it will take along time to tell. But to try and make a long story short he was my first love, basicly my first everything and he know it accept for the love thing because I never told him nor did I show it. Also I ran into him about 5 years ago and he asked me the same questions he asked in January. Like do I ever think about us and him, and that is when he told me that he was thinking about getting married since everyone else is. But he did not get married untill 2 years later and it only lasted basicly a year.

I dont know, but I do know back when we were together for those 2 years he never disappeard. Also he let me know that more than one time that I was the only woman that he has ever been able to trust. Crazy because he is the only man that I have ever been able to trust. But anyway at this time I am trying to get myself together and he is too. And yes he does have a problem with me being married but he is happy that I do not have any kids. And he only have one that is 19 now and he wants another one. But maybe that was to let me now he was willing to do that for me since that is the problem in my marriage. But anyway I want him back.

This was awhile ago. How has it gone since then? I'm going through a very recent break-up with my Aries man and it's been hard. I'd love to hear how your journey with him has been going.