Will an Aries try to make you jealous? If so how do they expect you to react? If you do not give them a reaction how do they take that? Just curious about this!
Will an Aries try to make you jealous?

Yes we do. Cuz we are insecure in love and want constant reassurance that our honney loves us back.
Posted by OvS
Yes we do. Cuz we are insecure in love and want constant reassurance that our honney loves us back.
What if you have been only talking to the person for a few months and it is not an exclusive relationship?

We fall in love after one week. 😉
Think is that if you are not exclusive with him and he is in love with you....he's going to be more attracted to you, feeling like you are that one thing that he wants but never had.
Think is that if you are not exclusive with him and he is in love with you....he's going to be more attracted to you, feeling like you are that one thing that he wants but never had.
SassyVirgo, That does not sound any fun! I would draw the line at putting me down to make me jealous. Try to make me jealous all day long any other way go right on a head because I am secure enough in myself to know that I was fine before you and I will be fine after you but have respect for ME just as I have respect for YOU. No one (male or female) should let anyone walk on them like this. Not worth it at all no matter the sign!
OvS, This is good info to know hah and would be better info if i knew exactly where he was at. I think I need to ask him. We did talk about it in the start but that was after 3 weeks of talking (he brought it up) and before our first date (we were really busy with our jobs)we had an awesome date not like regular old dinner and a movie and I came up with the idea and turned out he had never even done what we did in his life and he really enjoyed it! Now we have been talking for a total of two months, still working out details for another date (again both always busy with work/kids). I just am not wanting to rush into anything but I would want to know if he was already there in that place you speak of.
OvS, This is good info to know hah and would be better info if i knew exactly where he was at. I think I need to ask him. We did talk about it in the start but that was after 3 weeks of talking (he brought it up) and before our first date (we were really busy with our jobs)we had an awesome date not like regular old dinner and a movie and I came up with the idea and turned out he had never even done what we did in his life and he really enjoyed it! Now we have been talking for a total of two months, still working out details for another date (again both always busy with work/kids). I just am not wanting to rush into anything but I would want to know if he was already there in that place you speak of.
Posted by SassyVirgoPosted by xxnightbynight
Virgo are you sure you don't have more Aries in your chart? You talk about yourself an awful lot.
I wish I have some Aries lol just Venus Leo and mars. Is that enough fire? Haha
Obviously this person came here to see what are thers experience with Aries men. I don't mind sharing and let her decide what judgement to make with her Aries men. You make it sound like sharing with he is a bad thing lolclick to expand
you dont even know how to handle the Aries man you have.
Posted by SassyVirgo
Bella get a life. Stop following me around and make assumption about me. You are the type of woman that gives Aries a bad name
Why because I expressing my thoughts? YOu cant handle the truth? I thought you hated passive agressiveness. o well

Posted by uhleeh
Will an Aries try to make you jealous? If so how do they expect you to react? If you do not give them a reaction how do they take that? Just curious about this!
No. I couldn't give a fuck.
I don't feel jealousy myself and see it as a weird sort of thing to feel.
I do have feelings, just not that one.
Nevermind. I don't see it as any kind of loss.

Any guy who tries to make you jealous, Aries or not, is insecure, as others have stated. That being said if you've known him this long and still not dating I'd have to wonder. Not that he doesn't like you, just wonder if he knows what he wants.
Good luck tho
Good luck tho

Posted by TV
now as a guy who likes the fire women...
isn't there a fine line between being reassuring and suffocating them with mushy shit? doesn't too much emotional output freeze the woman's vagina? I know women hate HATE clingy guys...not really sure how much is "enough"
True women don't like clingy, but a good women can appreciate a man's emotional side. Just as well a good man needs to learn to keep his emotions under control (as do women), but not to the point where they can't share when something is really bothering them.
It's really just about feeling out the situation. As a fire sign with a lot of water I had a lot of trouble controlling my emotions when I was younger, and sometimes even to this day if I'm caught on a bad day. Just make sure you don't become cold in the process.

Posted by SassyVirgoPosted by TV
oh! this makes sense!
Geeeezus Chrikey.
what is it with fire signs and insecurity?
they all do it!
He does switch between being mushy and dominating just the right amountclick to expand
I notice this too. That my guy is pretty good at alternating between mushy and dominating, or acting like an independent man. It's perfect, for me at least. Just the right amount of both.

Posted by CreativeJam
Not intentionally.
I agree. I think it varies from an Aries intent in the situation.

yes some aries men will do that especially if they are insecure but make no mistake some aries men will act on it too especially if the woman is competing with him or he feels he needs to teach her a lesson,they are very firey and sometimes feel that others are trying to compete with them,or they short circuit and act on impulse! it depends on the situation and the maturity of the aries guy! the aries man that played a gay role in broke back mountain had a child with a virgo girl,a daughter but he broke up with her when he got bored and dated several other women.
aries hates boredom and chronic routine,though some routines they can handle they really much rather go for spur of the moment surprizes and not have their plans written in stone,ect... but a virgo could stay interesting if they don't let their cautious nature take over or their critical side
aries hates boredom and chronic routine,though some routines they can handle they really much rather go for spur of the moment surprizes and not have their plans written in stone,ect... but a virgo could stay interesting if they don't let their cautious nature take over or their critical side
Posted by OvS
Yes we do. Cuz we are insecure in love and want constant reassurance that our honney loves us back.
Isn't this the damn truth. Sag man couldn't keep up with the reassurance. I wonder if it's really an insecurity or just the way we demand to be loved. That and presents!
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