Will Aries man me back after a break up ?

I read much about this and most of posts in internet say they will if you give them space. My question is the same : Will Aries man come back after a quarrel ? Was his fault in this situation, He treated me cold and I can't accept that coldness . We were good friends, but at the end he acted cold . We had a quarrel on this topic and asked him what he feels for me. Well, the questions was after the quarrel , normally should be before the quarrel to can get a true answer. Influenced by the qurrel he answered : I will take some space for a while because we both need to be calm and pass this. I will contact you later.
Well, I did not understood what means "space" for him , but he completelly is dead now 🙂 no message, nothing. I should respect his space ? Or I do need care for him asking if he is ok or simple things like this ? 🙂 I just let it like this and gave him his space now . We had a wondeful relationship , we was happy together, he promised he will be my friend forever and will never give up our friendship. Is their words true ? What they promise they will do ?
By the way, how an Aries reacting when he has some personal problems ( for example in his family hppen something ) ? Will they share this or just keep cold /talk less ?
Thanks for your general responses !

Why do you think it's acceptable to be treated like this. I have but doesn't mean to keep dealing with. Leave it and let someone else deal with it.

Move on hun. Yes they are sexy beast but it's soon much for some of us.

Thank you, yes, you are right. I was feel horrible being treated so cold . I made a mistake in the title of this post, so I deleted it, but I read your reply, Thanks ! 🙂

Too much effort and energy in the beginning towards the end it's like well I showed my true colors straight up and they weren't able to met or be compatible in the end with mine the slightest tug of war.

Posted by AriesLady8
You deleted your post but it's always a possibility an Aries will come back. We aren't fixed it is possible to change our minds

Thank you for your reply ! Yes, I deleted this initially and posted it again , but I am not sure if it appeared in the website The thing he just reacted right now 10 mins, was when I sent him some very funny pics with some goats. In Chinese horoscope he is a Goat and we always made jokes of this before and he like it very much . Instantly he reponded to me 🙂 I will post a post about this let others see how easily they chnagr mind 🙂

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Too much effort and energy in the beginning towards the end it's like well I showed my true colors straight up and they weren't able to met or be compatible in the end with mine the slightest tug of war.

You are Taurus, right ? I am not sure how well you handle humour with them or if you take things too seriously . If you take things too seriously and too straight, they tend to run . If you try change this and use some jokes, take life like a joke with them, you will see how easily they come back. If you try contact him , using a funny funny way, you will get response, I am sure. Leo also tend to take things in too serious, I did this mistake too and exactly at that point he runned away and also because I blamed him for many things and I was too "perfect " But when I changed the way and contacted him with jokes and funny way, he responded instantly, just like nothing happened before and now we are again connected.

Girl I am fixed hunny child. Lol does that sorta answer you. Haha anyways I can have a sense of humor around Aries. It's the actions I watch and the words they spew will end up me not liking you no more.

If I want something fun and not serious then yeah aries. But I'm too old for taking things too lightly my language speaks different to alot of people..

Posted by sagiluv
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Girl I am fixed hunny child. Lol does that sorta answer you. Haha anyways I can have a sense of humor around Aries. It's the actions I watch and the words they spew will end up me not liking you no more.

You are right ! Yes, I know about what words you say . This aries told me once some words like that without using his brain to think first. After we met, I asked him how he is in that day, he answered : feel terrible sleepy ... I aske dhim to go sleep then. Then he said " you infected me " I told him what — what and how can you say that ? Then he said is a joke . I told him that is not a joke to use with me. Is an accusement , not a joke. I do told him before come to me that I may have a flu/cold, I was litle fevered, but his words sounded so bad and by the way, he was so connected with me when we met , even I told him I may have a cold . But he did not cares this. Then if he no cares why complain and accuse me I infected him ? Yes, they use things like this to put you in fire. I do agree I no accept this too.

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
If I want something fun and not serious then yeah aries. But I'm too old for taking things too lightly my language speaks different to alot of people..

Yeah, the problem is we never know what sing he is when we meet him , this info we find it out later.. It would be so good to know this before know a person , but is impossible 🙂

Posted by sagiluv
I know an Aries This Aries always forgives, this Aries does let go easily of exes but if your Aries needs space give that to him. In a couple days check on him once he's calm. Things will be much better if you talk once you both are calm. Aries are forgiving. Aries will remain friends with an ex depending on the situation. If you hurt them very badly they will have no problem walking away.

If you read my post " How aries back in 2 seconds " , you will see how funny he was 🙂 Yes, he was back, but speak less now, when he reply he reply nice , even laughing, jokes, or compliments for me, but keep speak less than before . I think he need space for something , maybe not really for me, but may have some problems in his family and can't share or something like this. He back to me to not hurt me more, but I see something is little differnet as before. I don't like he speak less, but I don't start any argue again on this theme. I just let things as they are. He told me we meet next week, then I let him like this . What do you think ? 🙂

Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
If I want something fun and not serious then yeah aries. But I'm too old for taking things too lightly my language speaks different to alot of people..

Hmm, sometimes Aries can't take action, maybe this is why you feel things are too slowly. They move hard. If you have a little initiative, you give them courage. In my visions now, I find Aeirs are weak persons, they need strong women/men , but strong in their personality, not in other things. They preffer peoples who are helpless in some things also, they like to help . But if you are on a better position that him, even a better job, better income, etc. Aries feel not useful enough 🙂
If you are impulsive , they no like. If you can't forgive also, they think you are too angry and they are not fisex minds, they can chnage mind, but if you can't, then there is no chance for you 2 . Anyway, keep yourslef as you are , there is other match in the all signs for you, no need worry about it and never think again you are too old, old is just a number, keep your heart young !

Posted by sagiluv
Aries are a sweet sign. Just talk calmly and he will understand. Give him the space he needs when he desires. You won't lose an Aries as long as you give them the respect they need.

Yes, but I wish he give me the respect I need too............

He didn't just become "cold" out of nowhere, and I really doubt that everything was entirely his fault. You said it yourself in your previous thread. Everything was fine until you put too much pressure on him, and you pushed him around. He did everything for you and you became too comfortable with that. He wasn't going to allow you to use him as a doormat any longer, and he left. Of course there are two sides to every story, but based on what you have written here, you weren't exactly a saint throughout this relationship. What you need to do is take responsibility for your part in this situation, too. One needs to give respect in order to recieve it.

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Posted by sagiluv
Aries are a sweet sign. Just talk calmly and he will understand. Give him the space he needs when he desires. You won't lose an Aries as long as you give them the respect they need.

Yes, but I wish he give me the respect I need too............

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Based on your previous thread, he gave you the respect you needed and you took it/him for granted.

Posted by AriesIntrovert16
He didn't just become "cold" out of nowhere, and I really doubt that everything was entirely his fault. You said it yourself in your previous thread. Everything was fine until you put too much pressure on him, and you pushed him around. He did everything for you and you became too comfortable with that. He wasn't going to allow you to use him as a doormat any longer, and he left. Of course there are two sides to every story, but based on what you have written here, you weren't exactly a saint throughout this relationship. What you need to do is take responsibility for your part in this situation, too. One needs to give respect in order to recieve it.

You are right, I didn't posted here all the story, but I assure you it was his fault, as I was need his hand in something very important and then he just left, he was not there when I needed be .... Is long story and ugly from his side to acting like this.
After he back to me, he use a way of cldness to talk again. And I used a lovely way, bit got only cold responses ... and not any questions about me, or if there is better on my side in my problems. He know my actual problems. And now, when I changed my way too, and becomed cold with him, answer to him the same way as he did . what do you think ? He try to make me speak again, he try to show emotions again, he try to make me smile again, and so on.... I really don't know how to continue. I no like cold/warm extremes. Any advice ?

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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
He didn't just become "cold" out of nowhere, and I really doubt that everything was entirely his fault. You said it yourself in your previous thread. Everything was fine until you put too much pressure on him, and you pushed him around. He did everything for you and you became too comfortable with that. He wasn't going to allow you to use him as a doormat any longer, and he left. Of course there are two sides to every story, but based on what you have written here, you weren't exactly a saint throughout this relationship. What you need to do is take responsibility for your part in this situation, too. One needs to give respect in order to recieve it.

You are right, I didn't posted here all the story, but I assure you it was his fault, as I was need his hand in something very important and then he just left, he was not there when I needed be .... Is long story and ugly from his side to acting like this.
After he back to me, he use a way of cldness to talk again. And I used a lovely way, bit got only cold responses ... and not any questions about me, or if there is better on my side in my problems. He know my actual problems. And now, when I changed my way too, and becomed cold with him, answer to him the same way as he did . what do you think ? He try to make me speak again, he try to show emotions again, he try to make me smile again, and so on.... I really don't know how to continue. I no like cold/warm extremes. Any advice ?

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Yes, I understand that he was cold, but you pushed him to his breaking point. There is no foolproof way to make a guy come back to you. I would advise that you work on bettering yourself, like the other posters have stated. Good luck.

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Posted by AriesIntrovert16
He didn't just become "cold" out of nowhere, and I really doubt that everything was entirely his fault. You said it yourself in your previous thread. Everything was fine until you put too much pressure on him, and you pushed him around. He did everything for you and you became too comfortable with that. He wasn't going to allow you to use him as a doormat any longer, and he left. Of course there are two sides to every story, but based on what you have written here, you weren't exactly a saint throughout this relationship. What you need to do is take responsibility for your part in this situation, too. One needs to give respect in order to recieve it.

You are right, I didn't posted here all the story, but I assure you it was his fault, as I was need his hand in something very important and then he just left, he was not there when I needed be .... Is long story and ugly from his side to acting like this.
After he back to me, he use a way of cldness to talk again. And I used a lovely way, bit got only cold responses ... and not any questions about me, or if there is better on my side in my problems. He know my actual problems. And now, when I changed my way too, and becomed cold with him, answer to him the same way as he did . what do you think ? He try to make me speak again, he try to show emotions again, he try to make me smile again, and so on.... I really don't know how to continue. I no like cold/warm extremes. Any advice ?

Yes, I understand that he was cold, but you pushed him to his breaking point. There is no foolproof way to make a guy come back to you. I would advise that you work on bettering yourself, like the other posters have stated. Good luck.

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Hmm, is a pity you are thinking like this way... There are a lot pf ways to make a guy come back to you, but if you don't try any of them, then he will never know you want he come back ! Women who just let things to be as they become, lose much in life in general and it a kind of loss confidence in yoursefl also this. My Aries back to me only in 2 days after separation and now he is the one who tell me he loves me, he miss me etc.. I am little bit cold now, because I was doing my work to makes him back 🙂 now is his turn to keep me on line and I relaly let him do this and he likes do this now. Of course, I repsponding to his love, but I changed some things from my personality , maybe the things which made him sad last time. I think this is OK now. About you, I can tell you, you lose nothing trying everuthing what you know is works with him once ! Anyway when you try make him back to you, he is alread

already gone , so what you lose trying ? Nothing. Aries do not take action , is similar Libra at this point. If you let him go , he will go for sure. If he will come back by himself, he will back maybe after years when you already can't be back to him . The best way is to try jokes you used once . Without show emotions. Then be little cool when he reply . He will work so much to makes you have feelings again ! I can tell you think seeing my Aries now. He even told me he loves me , he miss me, things which he was so hard to say them before . Is like he appreciate my wffort to make him back , now he try balance my effort with his efforts,. I don't thnk so there is something that will separate us ever , because we both can pass and forget things as Aries/Leo combination. For us a quarrel is non sense and the way we responding to it, is really the same . No one keep angry for long.

If someone wants to leave, I let them walk. Begging a guy to come back does nothing to improve one's self esteem/confidence. Why waste your time? He's back now, but keep playing your games, you'll be back in a few weeks after he's vanished again.

We may come back but it will never last we are to idealistic. It will not even last long... It would be a lesson for a true Aries now if his chart is not supportive of this it could be different.

Kick rocks œ‡

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